Ndakhumudwitsa kale mitu yofunikayi ngati vuto mu ubalewu, vuto la mabungwe, ndi zina zambiri. Komabe, ambiri apitilizabe kudabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani mabanja ena amakhala ndi moyo wautali komanso mosangalala, ndipo ena amasiyana mchaka choyamba kapena njira ziwiri zokha. Chifukwa chiyani zimachitika?
Ndikupangira lingaliro lina chifukwa cha zovuta mu ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ndithu, chiyembekezo chathu chosalungama kuchokera pamaubwenzi awa chitha kukhala chilichonse.
Mu positi ili, ndikufuna kukambirana za ziyembekezo zodziwika bwino zomwe zimawononga moyo wathu.
Chifukwa chake, chofunikira kwambiri ndikuyembekezera kwa wokondedwa wina wachikondi. M'mabanja osiyanasiyana, ndichikhalidwe chochita mosiyanasiyana, ndipo nthawi zina sitiganiziranso zomwe zimachitika mosiyanasiyana. Mutha kubweretsa zitsanzo za zitsanzo, chifukwa vutoli lilipo kuchokera ku Cave nthawi. Ingoganizirani za munthu akadzasaka. Tsiku lonse anayang'ana mumtsinje waukulu kwambiri komanso wopanda thupi kuti amuphe ndikumubweretsa mkazi wake. Adalemba mtengo wamatabwa, kotero kuti kutentha m'phanga kunali. Ndidangolemba chilichonse. Ndipo zonse zokondedwa wanu! Achimwemwe, akuganiza kuti adzakondwera ndi wokondedwa wake. Ndipo adakwiya. Samafunikira umoth kapena nkhuni zamoto. M'malo mwake pamakhala maluwa am'munda, koma chidwi ndi china. Ndipo mwamunayo samvetsa vuto - ngakhale mbalameyi si yayikulu mokwanira, kapena pali nkhuni zochepa ... kotero zimapezeka kuti zimawoneka ngati wina aliyense amakonda wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo zonse chifukwa mu banja la mkazi wake, moyo wonse udazunzidwa ndi zachikondi komanso wachifundo. Anali ndi gulu la alongo. Onse ndi makolo awo adayenda, naseka, kukumbatirana ndikupsompsona. Ndipo m'banja la mwamuna wake, ana onse anali anyamata, abambo anali atakwera nawo, ndipo amayi amakhala kunyumba ndikusamalira aliyense, adakondweretsa aliyense madzulo. Zotsatira zake, kuyambira ndili mwana, pamodzi ndi mkaka wa mayi, manna kasha, woyamba kupha anthu onse anaphunzira chiwonetsero chake cha chikondi ndi chisamaliro chake. Inde, nkomwe, ndinali kuyembekezera machitidwe ofanana ndi mtundu womwewo.
Zochitika izi zitha kubwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza m'magawo osiyanasiyana komanso munthawi iliyonse.
Zimachitika kuti othandizana nawonso, koma amanjenjemera kuvomereza wina ndi mnzake, kuyembekezera kusamvetsetsa kapena ngakhale otsutsa. Mwachitsanzo, madzulo, kupita limodzi kukacheza, komwe kumakhala kosangalatsa, kampani inayake ndi chisangalalo china zimakonzedwa. Koma mu kuya kwa moyo, aliyense amalota za kukhalabe kunyumba ndikukhala limodzi. Ndipo onse awiri amakhala chete. Zotsatira zake, madzulo athunthu okhala ndi migodi yobiriwira amachitika ndi abwenzi. Komanso kusakhutira kokhazikika. Ndipo ngati azindikiridwa pazilakalaka zawo, nthawi yomweyo amasangalala ndi nkhawa komanso kukhutira wina ndi mnzake.
Nthawi zambiri timagwera mumsampha, tikamayembekezera kuti ngati mwasankha / Wosankhidwa naye ali paubwenzi ndi ena, ndiye kuti ndizofunikiranso kuchita chiyanjano nafe. Mwachitsanzo, msungwana wamakono adadziwana ndi mnyamata. Adagwa mchikondi ndi kusazindikira. Ndipo kulibe. Anamuuza iye, anavomera. Zikuwoneka kuti zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa. Mwadzidzidzi azindikira kuti kwa wakale wake adafuna kuti azikhala okonzeka nthawi zonse. Adadodoma, akumudikirira kuti abwere? Ndipo sakudziwa kuphika konse ndipo, nawonso, sakonda! Chiyembekezo ichi sichabwino komanso chofunikira. Kupatula apo, anali maubwenzi osiyana kwathunthu. Anthu amasintha ndipo zinthu zimasintha. Mtsikanayo sanakumbukirenso kuti pali zabwino zinanso zomwe mnyamata wake amayamikira kwambiri. Izi zikugwirizana naye, iye amafunikira china.
Musanafune mulu ndikufuna kuwonjezera kuti titha kukhala mu ukapolo wathu wokuyembekezera kuchokera kwa ife. Mtsikanayo amaganiza kuti sipadzayamba kutcha mnyamatayo ndikuyembekezera kutsatira lingaliro lake, koma pazifukwa zina sizingayimbidwe. Pambuyo pake, chipinda chambiri cha iyemwini ndipo chimapangitsa kuti zikhumudwitseke makamaka.
Kuchokera kumbali, monga mu kanema, zonse zikuwonekeratu, koma, zoyang'anizana, ndife otayika, kukhumudwa ndikumva kusasangalala. Zoyenera kuchita ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera?
Choyamba, ayenera kutsata ndikukambirana ndi theka lawo lachiwiri. Izi zidzakulitsa ubale wanu. Zolakwika zopanda pake komanso mwano sizitha. Kuchuluka kwa kusakhazikika kwa nthawi yanthawi idzachepa kwambiri. Magetsi adzagwa.
Zachidziwikire, sizomwe zimayembekezera nthawi zonse. Koma palibe amene waletsa zosokoneza. Muthanso kusiya zoopsa, kuchokera pamenepa, tsoka, simungathe kupita kulikonse. Mulimonsemo, zimakhala zothandiza kwambiri kuposa kukhala, kudikirira, pomwe mumakonda (AYA) zokhudzana ndi zikhumbo, ndikusunga osazindikira. Pokhala ku ukapolo, timataya moyo wathu wa kupulumutsa, kuwala komanso mosadalirika. Kuphatikiza apo, popanda kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zozama kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo, timapeza mwayi nthawi zambiri kuzindikira zodabwitsazo .-)