Tikufuna kukonda amuna, kukondedwa, kumapangitsa chidwi. Nthawi zina zimawoneka - izi zidzachitika, ndipo ndidzakhala osangalala. Koma apa chifukwa ndi zotsatira zake zasokonezeka. Choyamba muyenera kudzikonda nokha, mwinanso palibe chomwe chingachitike. Kupatula apo, palibe amene atipatse ubale wabwino osati wathu kwa inu.
Zomwe sakonda zimapangidwa muubwana. Pakadali pano mwana akaona dziko lonse lapansi mwa kholo, ubale ndi kholo limawonetsera ubale wa dziko lapansi ndi maziko a malingaliro a iwo. Kutalikirana ndi kuzizira kunali makolo, zovuta kwambiri kuti makolo awonongeke. Tonse tinali ana ndipo tikukumbukira momwe ndizofunikira ndipo zimayenera kuti zimveke bwino, mumakumbatira, ndizosanthulidwa. Kuti kuwopa mdimawo sikuchititsa mkwiyo kwa makolo kuti misozi isakumane ndi kugwada. Tonse, popanda kupatula, muyenera chikondi cha makolo ndi kusungirako, mwina kuti mupeze chikondi cha chikondi.
Kusangalatsidwa kwa makolo, kuyamikira, kunyada, kuthandizidwa ndi nthaka yomwe kudzidalira kwa mwana kumakula, malingaliro ake kwa iye, mawonekedwe ake apadziko yake. Komwe dothi lazizira kapena ayi, palibe chomwe chingamera. Kumene kunali kwambiri, molemera, mwaluso kumakulitsa mwana wamkulu yemwe amadziwa mtengo wake ndipo palibe m'modzi, ngakhale wankhanza wovuta kwambiri, sadzaswa chikhulupiriro chovuta kwambiri, sichingamubweretse chikhulupiriro chake.
Katswiri wazamisala alena al-i
Zifukwa zomwe sanali momwe tisakhudzidwe zingakhale. Mwachitsanzo:
- Ntchito ya makolo, kutopa kwawo, kugonana kwa chibadwire m'chikhalidwe ichi, kuchoka kwa mwana, kumupangitsa kukhala wotsika mtengo. Ndikufuna kutseka;
- Kunyoza makolo a amuna kapena akazi kapena amuna ndi akazi nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa mavuto podziwa komanso pogonana;
- Nsanje kwa ana kapena mayi wachichepere, mosalekeza "mwakula", kuswana kwa zaka zakubadwa mwa munthu, kudana ndi munthu wamkulu. Kuchokera apa ndi "Inenso ndili ndi zaka 18", chikhulupiriro chokhazikika chimawoneka kuti chachichepere;
- Yerekezerani ndi makolo ndi anyamata oyandikana nawo, kumene ali bwino, anzeru, okongola kwambiri. Miyezo yosavomerezeka iyi imayambitsa budukiti yakutchire komanso yolimba kwambiri potsimikizira, "Ndani wabwino kwambiri pano", kapena wabwino kwambiri pano ", kapena ku matenda abwino kwambiri, kapena kuti palibe chifukwa chabwino, bwanji amayesabe?";
- Hypopka ya makolo samabweretsa chilichonse chabwino. Kutalika kwambiri, kucheperako kumathandizanso kukhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wawo, ngakhale mabampu omwe akukumana ndi mavuto.
Ngakhale zonse zinali zabwino m'banjamo, makolowo anali oweruza, mtchete ndikutsatira micvaclimape ya nyumbayo, timacheza, ndipo anzawo ndi malo ozungulira amakhudzidwa ndi munda wathu, yunivesite, ku yunivesite, ku yunivesite.
Ubwenzi woyamba, kuyesa kumanga china chake makamaka, sikuti nthawi zonse pamakhala bwino ndipo nthawi zambiri kumatha ndi mtima wosweka, kukhumudwitsidwa ndi zovuta komanso zovuta. Ngakhale zonsezi, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti zokumana nazo ndizofunikira komanso zamtengo wapatali, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale mkhalidwe wanu ndi umunthu wanu ndipo ndani akudziwa momwe moyo wanu udzachitikire ndi chilichonse chomwe ukhala kuseri kwa mapewa anu.
Phunzirani kudzikonda nokha zofunika komanso zofunika m'badwo uliwonse. Pa 20, mu 40 komanso ngakhale mu 60, kumanga maubwenzi ndi amenewo ndiye zopereka zabwino kwambiri komanso ntchito yothandiza kwambiri. Chifukwa kulibe kuvina ndi ine, chikondi ndi inu, kwenikweni si ntchito, ubale, sichomwe adalota. Chifukwa chosakonda okha ndi chomata chowala ndi cholembedwa "chomwe sindimayenera" pamphumi.
Kodi Mungadzikonde Motani?
- kukhululuka. Makolo chifukwa cha kuzizira kwawo, abale chifukwa cha kupopera, atsikana ofuna kupompa, kukonda mpeni kumbuyo. Khalani ndikupanga nkhani iliyonse yomwe imalankhula zowawa. Ndi yayitali, koma ogwira mtima. Musaiwale, musalire, osabwerera nthawi iliyonse ku lingaliro "koma ndikadafuna, koma kukhululuka;
- Tengani thupi lanu. Ndi kulemera kwambiri, ndi zolakwika, ndi Hubber pamphuno kapena ndi milomo yaying'ono, yokhala ndi kukula kochepa kapena manja akulu - ndiwe. Kuti musinthe, kuchepa thupi kapena kukhala Squewear, muyenera kudzitengera nokha tsopano, ndikuti tisachite bwino kuwongolera, osachokera ku chidani komanso kukanidwa.
Kuleredwa ndi kudzitukumula kwabodza mu ndege zosiyanasiyana: Mutha kusintha mosasunthika, koma osadzivomera. Ndipo mutha kutenga ndi opanda ungwiro. Bwerani pagalasi ndikudziwonetsa bwino. Lonjezani kumwetulira kamodzi pa tsiku limodzi. Mukupusa, inenso sindinkafunanso kumwetulira, "ukuganiza, koma chiyambi chidzayenera kuchita kudzera mu" chabwino ndi zamkhutu zamtundu wanji? " Ndi kupeza zifukwa. Kenako nkupita mu chizolowezichi;
- Chotsani malingaliro odziimba mlandu. Lamulo: "Zatha, zotsala pang'ono." Kupukutira kopanda malire m'mutu, zokambirana zomanga, kusewera zochitika, zongopeka pamutu: "Chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati ine ...". " Kusiya zakale.
Muli ndi ufulu wolakwitsa - izi ndizabwinobwino. Simuyenera kulungamitsa aliyense pazolakwa zanu. Lolani kukhala opanda ungwiro;
- Musadziyerekeze nokha ndipo musadikire kuwunika kwa ena. Osamachita kena kake chifukwa amayi (kapena wina) amatamanda. Inde, simunalandire nawo ubwana, koma tsopano simukakamizidwa kuti musinthe nthawi zonse poyembekezera malangizo ovomerezedwa. Mutha kukhala ocheperako kapena opusa, mwayi kapena osati kuposa winawake. Nkhani zawo zonse, deta yawo yoyambirira ndipo palibe madera a anthu;
- yeretsani matamando. Nthawi zambiri, kuyamikira kwa mayiyo kumayamba kukangana kuti: "Inde, ndikuponyera, zodzoladzola chabe." Adayamikiridwa? Zikomo. Zimakhala zovuta kuti anthu atuluke mu chipolopolo ndipo ngati mumayamika, ngati mumasilira ndikuyankhula za izi, mwina munthu amadzigwirira ntchito yekhayo ndipo amapanga njira zoyambirira. "Usakugunda manja" ndipo osawonetsa zovuta zanu - atha kukhala nanu, mukudziwa za izi, koma amene mukukamba naye, sakanatha kuzindikira.
Kumbukirani kuti mwina simupeza chilichonse chifukwa simuli choncho, koma chifukwa lero mwayi wakusiyani. Koma izi sizitanthauza kuti sizibwerera mawa. Dzikondeni nokha ndikuvomereza momwe chowonadi ndikuyenera kukhala ndi ubale wabwino, chikondi ndi chisamaliro