Kupusa, kuyandikira, kopanda ulemu - nthawi zambiri mawu awa amagwirizanitsidwa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi lingaliro la "kuwongolera". Koma kodi ndizotheka kutipatsa chidwi kwambiri?
Kutali ndi kupusa
Mamediacy ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kuti azitsatira dongosolo lamkati, kumvera mawu a malingaliro, koma kumva malingaliro ndi malingaliro. Kuthekera kochita popanda mandeys osafunikira komanso kukayikira.
Izi sizitanthauza kuti munthuyo ndi wopusa. M'malo mwake, ngati munthu amatha kumanga moyo wake ndi maubale ake ndi anthu ena, pokhala mwachindunji, ndiye kuti ali kutali ndi opusa.
Kutsitsa kwamaganizidwe
Zomwe munthu ndi wofunika kwambiri pankhaniyi, zimaganizira zambiri za izi. Nthawi zambiri anthu amayamba kuyimira momwe zinthu zidzasinthire zomwe anthu ena angachite. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti anthu adzichepetse okha, kuda nkhawa pamtima. Kuchokera apa ndi zolemetsa zambiri. Nthawi yomweyo imathandizira kusamala kwambiri pazomwe zikuchitika. Osasamala kanthu kalikonse kakang'ono
Kusamuka ndi kulingalira ndi zabwino mu bizinesi, mu sayansi, mu ndale, koma m'moyo wamba nthawi zina ndikofunikira kudalira mawu a mtimawo. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito paubwenzi womwe wakhazikitsidwa pa malingaliro, osatinso mfundo.
Zida zosokoneza
Kuwongolera anthu samvera chidwi chochuluka pazomwe amayembekeza komanso zomwe ena anena za iwo. Panjira ya munthu aliyense akachita nsanje ndi "malilime oyipa", iwo amene adzanene kuti: "Sudzatuluka." "Anthu oopsa" oterewa samavuta kunyalanyaza ndipo sazindikira pomwe sazindikira mawu awo. Mukatha kuchitapo kanthu momwe mungafunire.
Zokhumudwitsa zochepa
Kuganiza chilichonse pasadakhale, timayembekezera kale china choti tikonzekere kena kake. Ndipo m'mene zolinga zathu zosangalalira sizikwaniritsidwa, takhumudwa, timayamba kukangana komanso zonyoza, ndipo kulakwitsa chiyani
Mantha pang'ono - chisangalalo chochulukirapo
Othandizira anthu apange zisankho mwachangu. Chitani, osaganizira za nthawi miliyoni zomwe amachita. Amakhala ndi nkhawa komanso tsankho ndi anthu. Mantha ochepa, omasuka kwambiri omwe munthu amakhala ndi luso komanso mwathupi.
Monga wafilosofi wachi England ndi wolemba Gith Keith Cheith Cheertorton anati: "Munthuyo ali kutali ndi zopusa:" Wakale amene amapulumutsa momwe ana amaolorere, munthu wotereyu sapulumutsa moyo wake yekha, komanso moyo wake. "
Palibe chifukwa chilichonse chimatanthawuza kuti muyenera kukhala opanda tanthauzo ndipo musaganize konse pasadakhale ntchito. Osati. Simuyenera kukhala osavuta kuchitira zinthu ndipo musayang'ane pazoyembekezera zanu za ena.