Mabanja osangalala amalumbiranso

Anthu pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti ubale wabwino ndi pomwe palibe mikangano ndi mikangano, anthu akaganiza mogwirizana, zikhumbo zomwe zimatsutsana nazo Zikhala kunja, zomwe timayesetsa kuchita zomwe sizingatheke. Chifukwa cha kukhazikitsa kotero, maubale omwe amapezeka motsimikizika ndipo, abwino kwambiri, amawerengedwa kuti ndi othandiza. Kuchotsa tsankho kumeneku, ndikufuna kulemba zakuti, malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa, mabanja osangalala akuyambanso kulumbira. Chofunikira ndichakuti mkanganowu sukudziwika ndi othandizana ndi zizindikiro ngati chizindikiro cha kusakhazikika kwa maubale. Ndiye kuti, ngati tidzisankhira pasadakhale kuti ngati pali kutsutsana, zikutanthauza kuti banjali lidalephera, ndipo ubale uliwonse ubwenziwo umakulirakulira, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zotsika. Ndipo mkangano uliwonse ungatipatsene wina ndi mnzake. Komanso, malinga ndi kafukufuku yemweyo, ukwati umawonedwa ngati:

a) Mkazi amene akutsutsana amayamba pang'onopang'ono;

B) Mwamunayo amalola mkazi wake kuti azichita zosankha zawo.

M'malo mwake, palinso zisonyezo zina - otchedwa 4 okwerapo, omwe pambuyo pake amabweretsa maubwenzi:

1st ndikutsutsa. Ndiye kuti, kukambirana za mkangano kumawaukira pa umunthu wa mnzanu.

2nd - kunyoza.

Wachitatu ndi khoma lozizira - pomwe, pakupeza chibwenzicho, m'modzi mwa omuthandiza "atseka" ndikusiya kumvetsera.

4 - machitidwe oteteza kapena, kungolankhula, kutsutsidwa poyankha kutsutsidwa.

Kukhalapo kwa mawonetseredwe omwe alembedwako ndi kuvulaza ubalewo.

Ndipo kakhoka wamba si chizindikiro cha mgwirizano wosakondwa. M'malo mwake, ngati anthu ali chete osakhala chete ndipo sanadziwe maubwenzi, zikuwonetsa kuti alibe chidwi wina ndi mnzake, kapena akhathatekha, kapena akhathatechete anachepetsa, ndipo iyi ndi bomba.

Izi ndi phokoso langa, limalimbitsa masayansi, malingaliro okhudza ubale wabwino.