Nthawi zambiri makolo samamvetsa zomwe zikupanga mwana chifukwa cha kutayika kwa wotayika. Kupatula apo, zikuwoneka kwa iwo kuti chinthu chachikulu m'moyo uno ndicho kukhala munthu wabwino. Ndipo zenizeni zikunena mosemphana ndi izi: Gogoda anthu ndikupulumuka. Ndipo sikofunikira kuti munthu wamphamvu azivulaza agalu, abweretse mkazi wake kusokonezeka kwamanjenje ndikufuula pa oyang'anira - izi ndi, anthu ambiri ofooka. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti mantha si chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimachokera kwa makolo. Pamwambapa 5 Pamwambapa adalandira kuchokera ku mikhalidwe yayikulu, yomwe imaletsa mwana kuti akhale ndi moyo.
"Amakhala mwakachetechete ndipo usatsogolere"
Kuyambira ndili mwana, timaphunzitsidwa kuti zikweze dzanja lanu, ndikugwedeza mphindi zochepa, pomwe mphunzitsiyo asankha yankho, kenako ndikuwonetsa malingaliro ake. Chifukwa cha zaka zochepa, mwana amakonda kuchitapo kanthu pa cholembera cha munthu wina. Ngakhale sizimangiriza kwa mphindi 10 mpaka 15 kutenga nawo mbali pazomwe zapanga kapena osataya kuyamikiridwa kumutu mpaka m'miyendo, sasankha kuwulula ntchito yake kukhothi wamba. Kukhala wamkulu, amapitiliza mzere kuyambira ndili mwana - Mawu aatali sadzauza abwana, sadzapereka ntchito yabwinoyi ndipo osauza makolo omwe m'malo mwaokha, ndikufuna kuchita Rock Gutar. Kumbukirani kuti: Osadzudzula mwana chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe afotokozedwera, asane chilichonse chozungulira. Nthawi zonse akuluakulu amakhala olondola - nthawi zambiri ana ndi anzeru kuposa ife, amayambiranso. Khalani othandizira chachikulu komanso chithandizo cha mwana, chilichonse chomwe chimachitika.
muyenera kuchita zomwe mukufuna
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"Ndiwe mwayi, ali ndi makolo olemera ..."
Umphawi ndi kukhazikitsa kwamaganizidwe. Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti ana a mabanja olemera amachiritsa ndi mayunivesite apamwamba ndipo makampani osudzulana amatenga nsalu yokhayo, ndikutsegula intaneti. Mudzadabwa kuti mumachokera kuti mabanja wamba. Charisma, kugwira ntchito molimbika, malingaliro osinthika ndi okonzeka ku chiwopsezo - Izi ndi zomwe zimasiyanitsa anthu awa. Ndipo mwana wanu alibe choyipa kuposa iwo: kumuthandiza kuti aphunzire, kukhazikika m'nyumba.
"Chabwino, mumuyang'ane!"
Kutsutsa anthu mdziko lamakono - Stodetona. Malo abwino kwambiri ndikuvomereza kuti ena amasiyana nanu ndipo sakakamizidwa kukhala molingana ndi malamulo anu. Zokambirana za zovala za munthu wina, machitidwe pagulu, njira yogwiritsira ntchito bizinesi ndi moyo wamunthu - anthu onsewa ali pachibwenzi. M'mabanja, komwe amavomerezedwa kuti agwire ntchito kwambiri ndikumvetsetsa njira ziti zomwe zimachitika, ndipo malingaliro sadzayamba kunyoza munthu wina amene wakwaniritsa china chake.
"Nthawi Zisanu ndi ziwiri zimasungunula kamodzi"
Kodi mwamuuza kangati kamwana kamene kafunika kusamala - anthu oposa chikwi? Mwana wanu ali ndi ubongo ndi chibadwa chodzisungitsera chodziteteza. Poopa, ngakhale atakhala kuti sangakhale ndi mabrasion kapena sanakhale odetsedwa, mumayikira pang'ono. Palibe ntchito yopambana yomwe idayamba kuyambira kuyesa koyamba - njira ya munthu wina aliyense amafanana ndi mzere wosweka, ndipo osati kukwera m'mwamba mwachangu, ndipo osakwera mwachangu. Ayenera kuyika pachiwopsezo kudzaza ma cones ndikuphunzira pa zolakwa zake - satenga chochitika chamtengo wapatali ichi.
khalani abwino kwa aliyense - sizabwino
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"Tsopano ndiwe mwana wabwino!"
Chotsani mawu oti "chabwino" motsutsana ndi mwana kuchokera kwa lexicon. Sizingatheke kukhala zabwino kwa aliyense: Sadzakhumudwitsidwanso ndi anthu. Mtsikanayo akhumudwitsidwa chifukwa chakuti adzasankha kugawana nawo, olembetsawo ali ndi malingaliro omwewo adzakwiya kuti adawasankhira, koma osati zitsanzo zawo - zitsanzo za nambala yopanda malire. Ndipo mukuganiza kuti anthu awa mwana wanu adzakhala munthu wabwino? Inde sichoncho. Nanga bwanji kuyika chitsanzo cha chikhalidwe kuchokera ku cholowa choyambirira, komwe moyo wake udzamangidwa mozungulira kuti usakhumudwitse ena. Amusiyeni akhale bwino momwe angafunire, akumverera bwanji nthawi iliyonse ndipo amazilingana ndi kuti amakonda kumva. Kudzisamalira nokha sikuli kwankhanza, koma mkhalidwe wofunikira wamoyo.
Ndi iti mwa zolakwa izi yomwe mudachita? Ndi chiyani chomwe chingawonjezere mndandanda? Lembani malingaliro anu mu ndemanga, ngakhale simukugwirizana ndi wolemba.