Osati kale kwambiri ndidabwera ngati pempho lolingalira malotowa:
"Ndili mumzinda, womwe uli m'nkhalango. Nyumba, monga nyumba za chilimwe, zili pamitengo. Zinapezeka kuti mumzinda uno anthu onse ndi osokoneza bongo ndipo nthawi zonse amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo mu mabotolo 1.5-lita. Kunja, madzi ndi ofanana ndi mowa. Loto lonse lidapezeka mwa ine, m'mene adandinyamula kwa ine, kuyesera kuyikapo mankhwalawa ... patatha nthawi yayitali ndikuthawa kwa anthu awa, adandiponderera kukhoma. Ndinathira madzi onse omwe adandilembera ndikuyesera kutsanulira pakamwa panu. Kenako adapeza singano kuchokera ku syries ndipo adayamba kupatsa manja manja. Ndikukumbukira kuti ndikufuulira kuti: "Chabwino, tiyeni timupatse madzi anu, koma simufuna kukhala ndi chinyengo, ngakhale nthawi imodzi ija idapereka". Ndipo anati: "Nonse mwapukuta zonse, tsopano ndi inu. Ndipo apa ndikudzuka. Ndi magetsi mpaka pano. "
Ndikuvomereza kuti sizophweka kutanthauza maloto ngati amenewa, chifukwa izi muyenera kudziwa mbiri ya mtsikana yemwe adamuwuza. Kugona kumabwezeretsanso zithunzi zomwe zingakulitsidwe mwachindunji, koma iwo akhoza kukhala ndi tanthauzo lina.
Chifukwa chake, m'maloto athu, ingakhale yothandiza kulabadira tulo tawo amafotokoza mantha, zoopseza ndi kuyesa kuuluka.
Kuopseza kumachokera kwa anthu ena "ena", amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe amamwa mankhwala m'mabotolo. Mwina pali china chake chowopseza mtsikanayo malo ake. Tsoka ilo, sitingafunse malotowo mwachindunji, nthawi yomweyo, mayanjano kuchokera pachithunzipa choyamba cha kugona ndi zidakwa, zomwe zimapezeka. Lachitatu, kapena m'malo mwake, anthu ndi odana, popeza akuyesera kuganiza za mankhwala awo. Pakukula kwa kugona tulo, imapezeka kuti ikhale opanda mphamvu kuti mukane kapena kuthamanga.
Chifukwa chake, kulotako kumakhala chimodzimodzi ndi anthu omwe adathamangitsa.
Zachidziwikire, loto ili lodalira kudalira mtundu wina, mantha odalira komanso osabala. Kugona kumafotokoza chithunzicho ngati vuto lotere: anthu onse, amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, amayendetsa pakona, anayamba kukhala ndi rick.
Zingakhale zosangalatsa kudziwa mbiri ya ngwazi zathu. Kodi adayenera kuyang'anizana ndi anthu odalira? Momwe iye mwini ali ndi mutuwu m'moyo wake.
Kugona tulo, izi sizikugwira ntchito, koma izi ndi zina zokhudzana ndi kudalira:
- Kuledzera komanso kusokoneza mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi matenda amisala, ndipo osati kufooka kwa mawonekedwe, monga momwe ndi zachikhalidwe;
- Kuledzera kumawonedwa ngati munthu wazaka ziwiri sangathe kuchita zopanda zoledzeretsa;
- Kuledzera ndi matenda osati odalira amodzi okha, komanso chizindikiro chopweteka cha banja lonse. 90 peresenti ya ana oledzera ana okhawo amawazungulira, kapena mtsogolomo amapanga ubale ndi wodalira mnzake.
Nthawi zambiri, abale a uchidakwa akubereka chifukwa choperewera, kukhumudwa, mantha ndi kusowa thandizo kuti asinthe china m'miyoyo yawo. Mphatso izi zimayambiranso maloto a ngwazi yathu.
Ili ndi mutu wovuta, ndipo ikani kugona njira imodzi ndi iyo kuti mulumikizane ndi kupirira, ngakhale kumasula kudalirika kumafunikira kugwirira ntchito mozama komanso mwakuya.
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Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina