"Amayi, sindikufuna chilichonse mu sitolo iyi lero"
Izi ndi mawu amenewo molondola momwe kupita patsogolo kwakukulu kudayamba paubwenzi wanga ndi mwana wanga wamkazi. Koma sindinakhulupirire kuti tsikulo, mwana wanga akanapereka mwachangu kugula zinthu zina zokongoletsa utoto ndi mabuku, omwe amabwera :) koma zidabwera. Ndipo masiku otere - pamene mwana wanga akasankha Kwake mosankha - zimakhala zochulukirapo.
Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa pamene mutsegula mwana wanu mtima wanu, muzichita zofuna zake, nditakumana ndi malingaliro, mwana wake, mwanayo amasowa chikhumbo chokupukusa. Mwanayo amayamba kugwirira ntchito. Inde, sizichitika nthawi yomweyo, koma zimachitika. Kupatula apo, palibe mwana amene amabadwa padziko lapansi pano ndi chikhumbo chachilengedwe chomugwetsa misempha. Ndipo ngati achita izi, pali chifukwa chachikulu choganizira zomwe ndi zomwe sizili choncho muubwenzi wanu.
"Amayi, gulani mphaka. Ndikufuna maudindo ambiri "
- Mukufuna udindo? Tipanga Mig.
Ndipo tinagula mwana wamphaka wake.
Chifukwa chake, m'malo ogulitsira, Mdima wa September usiku, mwana wanga sanamuthane kwa zaka 9. Moona mtima. Ndipo kenako ndidazindikiranso: munthu akafunadi china chake, amakhala wokonzeka kuti izi zithetse mtundu wa theka, wodetsedwa, usiku kapena m'mawa - zonsezi zilibe kanthu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi cholinga. Apa ndi - ntchito yolimbikitsidwa kwambiri :)
Koma mwinanso kuti akonzere zonse kuti mwanayo afune kuyeretsa mano popanda chokha kuti ayeretse mano m'mawa (popanda kukumbukira), amagwira ndi amayi anga, etc. ndizovuta kwambiri kuchita ndipo nthawi yomweyo. Muyenera kuyambitsa akaunti inayake ku banki yanu. Nthawi iyi .... Ndipo zimachita nthawi zingapo patsiku. Mukangokhumudwa mukadzadzazidwa, mudzaona zomwe zidzayamba kuchitika muubwenzi wanu ndi mwana.
"Amayi, osangoyimbira mpaka bambo. Adzachokera kuntchito tsopano, ndipo onse tidzapita ku Pizzeria pamodzi. Ndikukuitanani ku chakudya chamadzulo "
Tsiku lomwelo ndinatsegula pakamwa panga modabwitsa komanso ... kunyada kwa mwana wanga. Ndipo pang'ono kumbuyo kwanga :) Kuvomereza, ndinali wotopa kwambiri patsikulo komanso kuchokera ku lingaliro lomwe chakudya chamadzulo sichinakonzekere, koma ndakhala wachisoni kale. Ndipo kenako mwana wanga anatuluka m'bokosi lake lotsiriza lanthakwana ndipo anatitengera ine ndi bambo ku pizzeria zomwe timakonda pafupi ndi nyumba.
Wonyada kwambiri sindinamuonepo. Choonadi. Ndipo momwe mwana wanga wamkazi anawalangidwira, pamene papa ndi ine tinamuthokoza chifukwa cha madzulo abwino kwambiri ndipo ndinapsompsona m'masaya onse awiri! Zinkandiwoneka kuti nthawi imeneyo maso a abambo athu nawonso anawaonetsanso - kuchokera kwazowedza kuchokera komwe tamugwetsa misozi.
Chifukwa chiyani sanagule kena kake ka iye, koma adakhala ndalama zomaliza pa chakudya chathu cholowa? Chifukwa anayamba kumvetsetsa kuti timamuchitira chiyani tsiku lililonse, ndipo ndimafunitsitsadi kuti ndichite bwino. Anayamba kumva chikondi chopanda malire chomwe chimawonetsedwa - ndipo amafuna chikondi chake pamaso pa mzimu. Sindikudziwa, koma chiyani. Ndipo chikondi ndi chiyani pamlingo wa zochitika komanso zochita zimakhudza makamaka.
Nditha kupereka zochitika ngati zotere. Koma sizinali choncho nthawi zonse. Ndiyenera kuchita zambiri pa inu komanso ubale wathu nazo. Koma ndizoyenera chimodzimodzi. Inde, nthawi ndi nthawi wamkazi, mwana wanga wamkazi aliyense wazaka 9, amaponya mawondo. Koma kodi zinthu zonsezi zimakhudza chiyani poyerekeza ndi chisangalalo komanso chisangalalo chomwe chimathandizira m'moyo wathu?
Ndipo kodi zinthu zimadabwitsa bwanji banja lanu? Ana anu sakulolani kukusowani? :) Ndikuyembekezera mayankho anu m'mawuwo.
Ekaterina Alekseeva, Wophunzitsa Wophatikiza Ubwenzi ndi Ana