Madokotala ali ndi "lamulo la zojambulajambula", komabe ali ndi mwayi wotsatira. Pezani matenda - yang'anani wachiwiri.
Ndipo muzochita zamaganizidwe, zimagwira ntchito. Kasitomala adabwera, nabwera ndi vutoli - ndi kupitirira, monga munyolo, izi zidzaululidwa ndi izi. Osati kale kwambiri, mu gawo langa logwira ntchito panali mutu wotchedwa "mwamunayo", zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndi nthawi yofotokozera.
Ndi izi, azimayi amabwera, opambana mu amalonda awo omwe adabereka ana. Zinthu, zinthu za malo m'malo mwa moyo wabanja. Kupititsa patsogolo mafunso okhudzana ndi kuleredwa ndi kukula kwa ana: Kumene ndi momwe mungaphunzirire dongosolo (kuti muphunzire ndi mwana, motero, nthawi zambiri idzagula zipinda kuti mupiteko kupumula. Amuna kunyumba: Kuchita china chake pa banja, kukapita kukatumikira kwa mkazi kwinakwake, kutsata mbadwo wakale, pakani galimoto mu garaja. Ngati pali ana, ndiye kuti athandizeni. Ndipo zonse ndi. Khalani kunyumba, ndalama zambiri sizimawafunsa zosowa zawo ndipo saphwanya kwina.
Mwambiri, izi zimayenderana maphwando onse pamavuto ena. Nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chiwopsezo cha kutaya thanzi lazomwe zili. Kenako avaloneki adaletsa amunawa, nthawi zina zaka makumi ambiri, adagwa patsiku la chete, nthawi zina amakhala ndi zaka zambiri.
Nawa zinthu zochepa zomwe zinali zofunika kukumana nazo mukamagwira ntchito ndi milanduyi.
1. Mlingo. Ngati mungayang'ane mibadwo ingapo ya mabanja awa, mutha kupeza zotayika pazaka zankhondo zaka zapitazo, komanso kuzunzidwanso, kugawana ndi momwe anthu anazimiririka. Momwe adaphedwera, adazimiririka, kubzala, kuwomberedwa. Pokumbukira banjali limakhalabe loti kunyumba - lofooka lokha, lopatsa mphamvu, osati kulikonse anyamata. Mwanjira ina, kulumala sikumangokhala kwakuthupi, komanso kutayika kwa moyo wa kuwonekera ndi chitetezo cha mabanja. Mutha kudzipulumutsa ndikuteteza banjali kuchokera pa chisoni mu nthawi yathu "kulephera" pofufuza ntchito kapena pamizu yabizinesi.
2. Zonse zili monga nthawi zonse ... "Kupumula" amayi. Amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi banja lotereli, ali ndi funso mwatsatanetsatane, limapezeka kuti amayi paubwana wawo sanali, kapena anali wankhanza kwambiri / wovuta / wovuta. Mwanjira ina, ali mwana, azimayi oterowo, malingaliro a "nyumba" si malo ofulala komanso obisika. Amakumbukiranso achinyamata, akuyenda, chikondi m'madzi ophunzira kuposa mipingo yanyumba. Tsopano mwamunayo sakugwira ntchito, koma molingana ndi kupezekapo, amachilipira "mayi" kapena "mayi wotsika mtengo". Nthawi yomweyo, sakanadziwa apongozi ake, amakhala ndi zokonda zake komanso kukhala wankhanza wa anthu. Mfundoyi siili mu moyo, koma polumikizana nazo, banja litakhala kunyumba.
3. Kuchokera pa izi zikutsatani. Kusowa kwa amuna otere kunyumba kumawakana maubwenzi ena onse a akazi opambana mu boma pafupi ndi kutaya mtima komanso makumi asanu. Madende nkhawa onse, zonena zake komanso kutsutsidwa, ndikumatchulirabe mwamunayo, popeza kusakhalako kumakhalabe ndi chonyamulira chake, ndiye kuti, ndi mkazi. M'maso, amataya mphamvu zawo ndikugwa pansi pa zomwe adakumana nazo, komwe iye si mtsogoleri, "moto" ndi "onse akulamula." Patsikuli, ndi kulemekezedwa, kusungulumwa komanso ndi zizindikiro zophunzitsidwa kusowa kwanzeru, ndiye kuti, maboma pomwe sitimaona kuti akufuna thandizo, kuyambira pomwe atakana kukana ndipo atadzipereka.
Kodi Mungatani Ndi Iwo?
Pazinthu zilizonse - yankho lake komanso njira zawo. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsetsa kuti njira zonsezi sizingakhale zoti mwamunayo amachokera ku sofa ndipo adapita kukagwira ntchito.
Poyamba, ntchito yathu ndikuwona momwe makasitomala amakumbukidwe motalikana ndi amuna "olimba" asankha dzina la banjali mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu ya amuna.
Mlandu wachiwiri, mafunso ndi amayi ndibwino kuti athetse, m'malo mochedwetsa ... Njira zomwe izi sizikulingaliranso, mwina.
Mu mlandu wachitatu, ntchito ya kasitomalayo ndi kupatsa malingaliro okhumudwa ndi mayiko omwe amadziwika pamaso pa 'mwamuna sofa ". Gawani ndi kupereka njira yeniyeni yochokera munthawi imeneyi m'moyo wanu.
Njira Za Misa, Koma kuwaona, muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zizindikiro zoterezi, monga mu Anecdote wotchuka: "- Wokondedwa, m'moyo wopusa amasintha kwambiri! - Chiyani, mukunama kwa TV ndipo muyang'ana pa sofa? ".
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin