Zachidziwikire, kulumikizana koyenera kumayenera kuchitika pofunsira aliyense yemwe ali nawo kale, koma zimachitika kale kale, mphindi zosasangalatsa zimamveka bwino, zomwe sizingangolipira chikhumbo, komanso kuvulaza wina aliyense. Nthawi zambiri, azimayi amakumana ndi vuto loipa, chifukwa ngakhale zili choncho, sizophweka kupirira mwamunayo. Ndiye kodi ndi mawonekedwe ati omwe amayenera kuyimitsidwa mukangoyamba kukhala osasangalala? Tinayesa kudziwa.
Simuli Mfumu
Amuna ambiri amakhala ndi mphamvu, osati muyezo wokha, komanso pabedi. Pofuna kuda nkhawa ndi zomwe, komabe, chikhumbo chosalamulirika chofuna kukhala nacho ndi kupondapondapo zingakhudze kwambiri chitonthozo chathupi komanso chauzimu cha mkazi. Monga lamulo, kuzindikira kokha musanaganize zopuma - munthuyu nthawi zonse amakhala woyamba, samalekerera chilichonse ndipo amakwiya kwambiri ndikutsutsidwa, ngakhale wolimbikitsa. Posachedwa, tiyeni timvetsetse kuti simumenya maliro aliwonse komanso ziwawa kuchokera kumbali yake.
Osachita chilichonse motsutsana ndi chifuniro chanu
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Mulibe ufulu woti ndikunyoze
Chowonadi chodziwika bwino - anthu abwino kulibe, ngakhale pakati pa otchuka. Ndipo komabe pali amuna omwe amadziona ngati atsogoleri osawoneka bwino komanso okonda kukongola. Myondo woterowo koposa malingaliro onenepa kwambiri, zopunduka zina zakunja ndipo zimasilira akazi ena, kuwaika mwachitsanzo. Kodi mukuganiza kuti china chake chisintha pakama? Inde Ayi. Mukufuna malo omveka bwino - simungalole ndemanga za mawonekedwe anu kapena momwe mungakhalire, mopambanitsa, mwamunayo amatha kusaka mkazi wabwino, bwanji muyenera kusiya nthawi ndi Iye.
Sitichita nawo kugonana kosadziteteza
Mkhalidwe womwe udafika mwina mkazi aliyense wachiwiri. Inde, munthu aliyense angakondweretse pafupi ndi "zopanda zopinga", koma zenizeni, zimagwiritsabe ntchito njira zotetezera ngati ndikofunikira kuti akhale ndi thanzi komanso kukhala ndi mnzake komanso wawo. Koma nthawi zina kuti afotokozere zinthu zoyambira kwa wokondedwa wake ndiosatheka, ndipo pakadali pano simuyenera kuwonetsa kufooka - kupatula inu simungasamalire thanzi lanu, makamaka ngati mukudziwana sichoncho . Ikani vuto lankhanza, munthu wofunitsitsa nthawi zonse amamvetsetsa ndikukhala ndi udindo wanu.