Ntchito yayikulu ya anthu ambiri - "Pangani banja ndipo lidzakhala chisangalalo" - nthawi zambiri limakhala losangalatsa pachakudyacho, kulephera kuyang'ana zinthu zofunika, zosangalatsa, zomwe zingachitike pamphuno.
Banja si ntchito yovuta, komwe nthawi zonse imafunikira kusunthidwa pamabawala kuchokera ku zoyesayesa. Uku ndi zopindulitsa ziwiri ziwiri, ndikukhala chibwenzi (osati nthawi yophika-maswiti, komwe bambo ali ndi chidwi ndi mkazi, ndi malingaliro a ubale).
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M'nyumbamo, zinali zabwino, zabwino, zodekha.
Kotero awiriwa anali achimwemwe.
Pofuna kuchitika zomwe "nkhosa zamphongo ziwiri panjira yaphiri".
Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti ubale uliwonse umadutsa pamiyeso yovuta ndi zovuta. Kusiyana kokha ndi momwe banjali likukumana ndi zovuta - wina amayenda pamavuto oyamba, omwe amayang'ana njira zothetsera njira yothetsera vuto, yomwe siyongoyerekeza zomwe zimachitika, komanso ndizothekanso.
Katswiri wazamisala alena al-i
Nthawi yovuta kwambiri mu maubwenzi abanja ndi chaka choyamba, lachitatu, zisanu ndi ziwiri ndi khumi ndi zinayi . Ndi munthawi imeneyi kuti zimavutikira, komanso kufunitsitsa kuthetsa banja lonse ndikwabwino.
M'chaka choyamba cha moyo wabanja Okwatirana nthawi zambiri amawonongeka, pomwe gawo lokhazikitsidwa limachitika.
Mavuto amabwera chifukwa:
- Moyo. Likafika kuti sakonda maswiti, omwazikana kuzungulira nyumba, malo ake otsetsereka, masokosi akuda pansi pa kama. Mwamunayo amapenda tiyi mokweza, kumatenga mano ake pachifuwalo ndikudya manja kuchokera poto wokazinga. Ndipo, zoyipa kwambiri, zimatengera foloko pa poto yokazinga iyi.
Kuchokera kunja kumawoneka kuti izi ndi zopeka izi, koma anthu omwe azolowera kukhala mwanjira inayake (kuti achotse phantom nthawi yomweyo, pamakhala mbale, kuwonjezera zovala zonyansa kudengu), zovuta kwambiri zimamangidwanso.
Ngati ili ndi vuto lanu, lemekezani ntchito zapanyumba, pomwe onse ndi olowa m'malire anu, ndipo wina ndi mnzake ndi opanda ungwiro;
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-Ziyembekezero zonenepa . Mkaziyo atadikirira kalonga, ndipo maholawo adamugwira, ndipo adaganiza "Bwanji", ndiye kuti adzadwala chilichonse, kupatula kalonga. Chifukwa chakuti chovuta kwambiri ndikutuluka m'malingaliro anu ndikupanga mtendere ndi kuyang'ana mozama pazomwe zili, pa moyo wanu, pa bwenzi lanu.
Ngati vutoli lidakukhudzani, yang'anani munthu wanu modekha ndikudzifunsa mafunso angapo. "Ngati ndidzakumana ndi milieamu pamzere wa mkate, kodi ndidzavulaza mwamuna wanga?", Ndi mawonekedwe abwino bwanji omwe mnzanga ali nayo? ";
- Palibe kumverera . Pamene "Asiki Tikali" Ndipo "Atsikana onse ali atakwatirana kale, ndipo ndiyipa?" Mu ukwati, zinthu zoyipa zimayamba kuchitika. Chifukwa ndi maswiti komanso kuti mwamunayo siali milioni, mutha kukhala bwino, pezani malo ogulitsira ndikuvomereza momwe mungakonde munthu.
Ndipo pamene kunali havalier anangotembenuka, amene amatcha wokwatiwa ndi uchimo kuti asatuluke, kenako nkufika kuti sanali wangwiro .... Chilichonse, Moyo udzakhala Gahena.
Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti simumakondadi mnzanuyo, musamasangalale, mwaulemu, ngati mukumva bwino, mukupweteka komanso kunyansidwa ndi ubalewu ziyenera kumaliza.
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Gawo lotsatira la Crishis ndi chikumbutso cha anthu 3 cha banja. Nthawi zambiri ubalewu ndi nthawi ino ndi wokhazikika, wodekha, wopanda pake palibe amene amaponya. Maubale amakula ndipo, nthawi yomweyo amawonekera Zifukwa Zatsopano Zotsutsana:
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- Nthawi zambiri pofika nthawi imeneyi, awiriwo amabwera kale m'manja mwake ndi mwana. Mkazi amapatsa mphamvu khandalo, kutopa, kumenya mphindi zaulere yekha ndipo akufuna kukhala ndi mkazi wake wokondedwa ndikupempha kuti akhale mzimayi mwamuna wake.
Sizimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse, makamaka ngati mwamunayo ali ndi zofunikira kwambiri komanso zingwe Zero zothandizirani.
Padziko yankho: Mwamuna wokhala ndi moyo wophatikizidwa ndi moyo wa mwana, posamaliridwa, ndipo mkaziyo samasewera ngwazi zomwe zimadziputa;
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- mavuto mu moyo wogonana . Zimakhala zotopetsa, Pressno, osati kale. Zaka zonse zoyambira zidzatha, zosowa zazikulu, ngati kugona.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati itanyalanyazidwa ndi loto ndi kupumula kwake chifukwa cha usiku wotentha, tsopano zagona kale, sizikuwoneka ngati lingaliro loipa.
Ngati mukumvetsetsa kuti vutoli lisachite mantha, musawope kusinthanitsa moyo wanu ndi kupereka, lankhulani, gawanani malingaliro anu, kugwedeza zolengedwa zafumbi;
- Mikangano yazachuma . Ndikofunikira kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama pazosowa za banja, kudzikana okhana ndi zinazake, kulipira ngongole / ngongole zomwe zimakhudza kukhazikika kwa malingaliro kwa munthu.
Ngati vuto la banja lanu lili mu izi, ndiye kuti muyenera kutulutsa kuwerenga ndalama ndi udindo (kutumiza mabuku, ma depositi, madongosolo, osagula mwadzidzidzi "Ndinkafuna").
Kuwerenganso Moyo, Zosafunikira Zinthu ndi Makhalidwe Athu, Vuto Lapakati la Umunthu - Zonsezi ndi gawo la zovuta zotsatirazi zomwe zimachitika 7 Chaka chokhala ndi moyo limodzi.
Nthawi zambiri, banjali limakumana ndi vuto lalikulu - izi sizomvetsa zoyenera kuchita. Mwanayo adapita kusukulu, wachiwiri sindikufuna kapena mwayi, ntchitoyo ndi yokhazikika, mikangano yonse ndi mikangano yonse idakhumudwa, ndipo zonse zili mu dongosolo.
Nthawi zambiri, kodi mavutowa amatchedwa mawu osavuta "Kodi Chosowa Chiyani?".
Ndipo zosakwanira ndi kumvetsetsa kotsatira zomwe mungachite.
Palibe zolinga komanso zolimbikitsira.
Palibe chisamaliro chokwanira kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wawo ndipo mukufuna kukhala chosangalatsa komanso chofunikira osati kwa iye, komanso "kulowa" zomwe zasowa kwa ena.
Nthawi zambiri pamakhala mphuno ya moyo wachimwamba komanso kumverera kuti zonse zinali zabwino komanso zosangalatsa pamenepo, ndipo tsopano lachivundi.
Ndikofunikira kuthetsa vutoli mokwanira komanso pang'onopang'ono: Kuti mumvere nokha maubwenzi ndi anzanu, chifukwa ndiwachirikize kwambiri, owukira ndi misala yokwanira paubwenzi.
Chaka cha 14 cha Ubwenzi wa Banja Mutha kukwatiwa kuti "kucheza ndi mkazi / mwamuna wake.
Ana adakula, komabe amafunikira makolo omwe tsopano adayamba kuchoka pamalingaliro awo (ana - achinyamata, ndipo makolo awo aliwonse amayang'ana chibwenzicho ndi maphunziro ena.
Moyo wapamtima unasamukira kumbuyo ndi zonse zomwe - ngongole za banja kuposa chikhumbo ndi chosowa.
Othandiza anzawo amamva mabwenzi ake komanso abwenzi abwino kuposa banja kenako amasiyanitsana wina ndi mnzake chifukwa cholephera kumvetsetsa chibwenzicho.
Ndi nthawi imeneyi yomwe mungakondenso ndi mnzanuyo: Kutembenuka pazaka zapitazi, kumbukirani chinthu chofunikira kwambiri komanso chofunikira chomwe chinachitika, kuthokoza kwa phewa lamphamvu kapena nkumanja. Kuwombera paulendowu, kupsompsona pambuyo pa ntchito kapena m'mawa, ndipo ana okha ana asankhe kuti aphunzire ndi momwe angakhalire.
Kukhazikika kwa mavuto a mabanja sikophweka ndipo ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti munthu m'modzi sangathe kuchita zonse kuti m'banjamo uzikhala chikondi, mtendere ndi mgwirizano. Asanathe kulumikizana, onse ayenera kuyesetsa kuti athetse mphamvu zonse kuti apulumutse ndipo osakayikira za moyo wotsalira za chisankho chopumira.
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