Kodi ndi ubale wanji womwe ungatchulidwe woopsa? Choyamba, amakupangitsani kukhala osasangalala, poyizoni kwenikweni kuchokera mkati. Palibe kugwirizana pamavuto oopsa, samakulemerani mwauzimu, koma, m'malo mwake, kumabweretsa mavuto amisala, manjenje amanjenje, komanso matenda akuthupi. Kuti muchotse mabungwe oterewa, tchulani kwa zaka zambiri, koma nthawi yochulukirapo ingathe kuzindikira zoopsa ndikuzindikira: Ubwenzi wanu ndiye njira kwina kulikonse.
Tsoka ilo, ofunda komanso achikondi kamodzi, ndi nthawi, maubale angapangitse kusweka. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe izi. Izi ndizovuta, mantha amkati kapena momwe amangokhalira pakati pa anthu awiri. Masiku ano, ine, Yulia Lansk, Wokonda-1 Mdziko 1
Kutukwana
Hiyoid, mawu olakwika pa adiresi yanu, ngakhale atangotchulidwa nthabwala, siyochita zachilendo, koma mitanologies. Zowona kuti mwamunayo amatha kunyoza pachibwenzi akhoza kufotokozedwa asanayambe. Onani momwe mwandifunsira m'manja ndi anthu oyandikana nawo monga a dziko lapansi. Ngati munthu sagwirizana ndi zonse zomwe zimamuzungulira, pakapita nthawi, mudzapezeka patsamba lanu ndi inu. Fumbi pazenera, lopanda maluwa, chikho ndi chimbudzi pansi, osati kumwamba, zonsezi zingakhale chifukwa chodziwikiratu adilesi yanu.
Osagwilitsa makina
Tsoka ilo, maubale poizoni, nkhope ya chipongwe imatha kuthana ndi mwachangu. Kenako, chiwawa chakuthupi chimadza m'malo mwa mawu a shaft. Ngati bambo alola kukankhira mkazi, kuziponyera kapena "pang'ono" kukankha, kuchokera paubwenzi wotere ndikofunikira kuti usathere posachedwa. Ngakhale, pamapeto pake, mnzakeyo adzapempha kuti akhululukireni, lirani, mutembenukire, mukudziwa kale, ndipo palibe chomwe chingamulepheretse kuchitapo kanthu.
Mu mikangano, siziyambanso kukweza dzanja lanu pa munthu. Kupanda kutero, sangaletse ndikukumenyani. Nthawi zonse, mosasamala kanthu za ndani adayamba kusamvana, kubweza mgwirizano mu ubalewu kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Ndi kukangana kulikonse kotsatira, mphindi idzakumbukiridwa pofika nthawi ya kukonzanso chamanja, komwe kumapangitsa mgwirizano wanu.
Julia Lansk
Kutsutsa Kwambiri
Kubwezera kokhazikika, kukula kosakanikirana ndi kutsutsa koopsa kwa wokondedwa - atatu "mahava" omwe amangidwa. Nthawi zambiri, mavuto ngati amenewa amachokera pazovuta za ana.
Ndili mwana, Andrei adapulumuka chisudzulo cha makolo. Zidachitika kuti mnyamatayo adakhala ndi abambo ake - amayi ake adawasiya kwa banja lina. Lero Andrei - bambo yemwe wachitika, komabe sanathe kudzikhululukira - umu ndi momwe amawonetsera kuti zinthu zili naye. Malinga ndi Andrei, amayi onse - nyimbo zam'madzi ndi makochi ...
Inde, ndikofunikira kusiyakanitsana pakati pa kutsutsidwa kwathanzi muubwenzi (pomwe munthu akakuwonetsa kuti ndinu wopanda pake, wosasankhidwa kapena kusowa chakudya chamadzulo) ndi kuwononga komwe kwasankhidwa kwako. Zowawa zaulemu za chuma ndi kutsutsidwa pamwambo uliwonse - zisazindikiro poizoni.
Kutsutsa Kutsutsa Kwambiri ndi Kumatamizira Kwawo Kupita ku adilesi yake, ndikosavuta kumaliza maubwenzi oopsa mpaka atayamwa kwathunthu. Kupanda kutero, "chikondi tango", chomwe chimayenera kukhala mgwirizano wanu, pamapeto pake chimasandulika kukhala mpikisano wa rugby, wokhala ndi masewera opota za iye ndi ankhanza.
Kothandizira
Ubale womwe umunthu udachitika kale. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire ndi zomwe zingachitike, kusakhulupirika kudana ndi ngodya zosiyanasiyana ". Ndipo ngakhale munthu ndi mkazi akupumabe, sadzakhoza kukhala palimodzi mu malingaliro athunthu.
Chiwembu cha wokondedwa wako, monga choyipa, chomwe pakapita nthawi akhala chochulukira. Zikakhala choncho, aliyense amasankha yekha - ndikofunikira kumaliza maubwenzi kapena kuyesera kuti awapulumutse. Komabe, kumbukirani - "ufulu" womwe sudzafalikira sudzafanana - kuperekedwa kwa okondedwa wake sikuyiwala. Maubwenzi a abambo ndi amayi atatha tsoka lambiri amayamba ndi tsamba latsopano ndipo mwina, sadzafanso kuposa kale. Kumbukirani kuti: Tsatirani munthu wosemphara ndikuyesera kuyambira kamodzi kokha. Ngati kuperekedwa kumatenga vuto, ubalewo uyenera kumalizidwa.
Kusakonda
Kulikonse kwa munthu wokondedwa kumandivulaza kwambiri kuposa mpeni wakuthwa. Khalidwe ili limapangitsa kuti mumvetsetse - samvera chilichonse, sakumvanso kanthu kwa inu. Kusayansidwa sikungatsatire osati kungoganiza kokha padziko lonse lapansi, komanso kumayiko ena. Samakwaniritsa malonjezo ake, samakumva, samasunga dzanja lake mwa anthu, samapsompsona pamene msonkhano ... amakhala mipando "ingozindikira.
Kuzindikira chidwi chathunthu cha okondedwa, tengani mphamvu ndikuvomereza - palibe kanthu kena mu ubale uno, ndikulitsa munda wamaluwa paphaka chopanda zipatso sikotheka kuchita bwino. Mwinanso zimafunikira kuti kuyezetsa kwambiri kusintha nokha ndi malingaliro a mnzake. Ngati mukuwona kuti chibwenzicho chinayamba kuthawa, musawope kuwasiya, chifukwa ena akuyembekezera inu - ogwirizana komanso athanzi, omwe muyenera.
Zogwirizana, zapamwamba zapamwamba - zomwe sizikupangitsa kuti mupweteke
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Zovuta zomwe zimasokoneza ubale wabwino
Nthawi zambiri, maubale oopsa akupanga pamaziko a zovuta zomwe zimapezeka muubwana kapena zomwe zimapezeka pakulima ndikupanga munthu.
- Kuopa kutaya mnzake . Mabungwe omwe m'modzi mwa abwenzi amawopa kutaya wina, nthawi zambiri amasiyana ndi nsanje yambiri. Popita nthawi, "kuwongolera kosalamulirika" kumayamba kukwiyitsa, ndipo pamapeto pake kumakhala kosapitsidwa. Mwakutero, nsanje "iyenera kusokoneza fumbi lanu ngati likufuna kusunga ubalewo.
-Zosatheka . M'modzi wa anzanga sanakwanitse kuzindikira m'moyo, nthawi zambiri amayamba kunena kuti ali ndi munthu wokondedwa, kusiya ulemu wake. Mwanjira imeneyi, zoopsa zimadzutsa makamaka ndipo, nthawi zambiri zimawagwirizanitsa ndi zovuta kwambiri. Tikakumana ndi zoterezi, yesani kudziwa chifukwa chake wokondedwa wanu samatha, kumuthandiza kukhala njira yoyenera. Mukakana inu chifukwa cha inu nokha ndi kudzidalira kwa mnzake, ubalewo uli bwino kumaliza.
-Kusiyanitsa . Moyo wokhala ndi "woopsa" nthawi zambiri umayamba kudzikhutitsa. "Nanga ndani amandifuna?" "Ndili wotopetsa, wopanda nkhawa, ndili ndi zonenepa kwambiri ..." "Sindingathe popanda iye ..." Ine sindingathe kukhala wopanda iye ... "Mtima womwewo ndi moyo umakhala ndi mzanu" woopsa ". Kutengera ndi zamkati mwanu, zidzapitilirabe kukulitsa, kuonera momwe mukukhalira pafupi, pang'onopang'ono kuzimiririka. Ichi ndi mtundu wowononga wa maubale, "bwalo lozungulira", komwe kuli kofunikira kuthawa ndi chilichonse.
Kumbukirani: Maubwenzi ogwirizana - iwo omwe sakupweteketsa inu. Mosasamala kanthu za zowawa zomwe mukukumana nazo - zakuthupi, zamaganizidwe, zamaganizidwe kapena zamaganizidwe, mukudziwa: ndinu ubale woopsa, womwe ndi wabwino kwambiri. Ngati mwazindikira "zoopsa" pa gawo loyamba lachitukuko cha chitukuko, yesani kuthyoza kukula kwa skenario yosasangalatsa.