Tsiku labwino, owerenga.
Posachedwa ndidalota maloto osangalatsa, obwereza mobwerezabwereza. Mkazi wachichepere, wazaka pafupifupi 36, adamtumiza kukafika.
"Ndakhala ndikulota maloto kangapo posachedwa kuti ndili paukwati wanga. Koma nthawi zonse nokha, koma chovala chokongola choyera. Osalota kuti ndili ndi bwenzi. M'moyo, sindinakhalebe ndi amuna. "
Inde, kugona kumawonekera. Mkwatibwi paukwati wopanda mkwati. Zachidziwikire, kuyambira mawu oyamba omwe ndiwonekeratu kuti kugona ndi kusungulumwa kwachikazi. Kuphatikiza apo, kugona kumawonetsa kuti maloto athu samayimira ngakhale chithunzi cha munthu yemwe angayandikire.
Sikuti akazi ndi amuna onse amakakamizidwa kupanga maubale, pangani mabanja ndipo amabala ana. Kwa ena, ichi ndi chosankha kwathunthu. Koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika osati mosazindikira. Akazi sangathe kufotokoza chifukwa chake ndi zokoma zakunja, kukoma mtima, kukongola, komanso kuthekera kowasamalira okha, pomwe aliyense akuyenda mchikondi, kukumana, kwezani, khazikitsani okonda. Mwambiri, tili ofunikira kwa amuna. Sindikudziwa ngati kusankha koteroko kuzindikirika kuchokera ku ngwazi zathu. Kodi ali ndi cholinga chodzakhala ndi banja?
Ngati ntchito zofunikazi zikadalipo, ndikofunikira kudziwa zomwe akuwona mnzake.
Izi zikutanthauza izi kuti: pafupi ndi iye palibe chifukwa munthu. Ndipo "malo" awa si mtengo wakuthupi. Nthawi zambiri ndi iye amene amafunika kupanga maubale odalirika, kuganiza kuti wina akhoza kukhala naye, ndipo ndani? Kodi munthu ndi chiyani?
Ngakhale osazindikira kwambiri pankhani zamaganizidwe amadziwika kuti kusankha kwa Satellite ya moyo kumachitika makamaka atsikana ndi abambo ake. Pafupi, ubale wodalirika, unansi wodalirika ndi kholo ulola kuti wachikulire kuti abwerere zodalirika, ubale wolimba mtima, wokhala ndi mwamuna.
Ngati abambo sanali, adasowa pa nthawi ya mwana wake wamkazi, adasiya kucheza ndi mwana wake wamkazi anali woipa, kusamvana, ndiye kuti kudandaula pa chikhumbo cha mtsikanayo. Ndipo mkazi wachichepere, kuti akhale ndi ubale.
Nthawi zambiri, chifukwa cha zokumana nazozo, mayi wina akufika pamapeto pake kuti ndibwino kuti musakhale ndi ubale womwe ungakhale ndi mnzake wosakhala wopanda mnzake. Ubale uliwonse sunasiyire, komwe timaona kuti titha kuchoka pa nthawi iliyonse, kumveketsa, kupanga cholakwika, kuwononga mikangano.
Chifukwa cha maloto athu, loto lotere likusonyeza kuti zingakhale bwino kuthana ndi omwe akufuna kuwona pafupi ndi iwo.
Ndipo ngati nkovuta kuyankha mafunso awa, ndikofunikira kuthana ndi malingaliro okhudza abambo konse. Komanso kuyankha funso lomwe limachokera pa chisankho chake kukhala chokha. Ndizotheka kuti lingaliro ili silikugwiranso ntchito. Ndipo kuti maloto athu amathanso kupanga maubale.
Kodi unalota kugona, ndipo mukufuna Maria kuti azitseka patsamba lathu? Kenako tumizani mafunso anu ndi makalata: [email protected].
Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina