Zachidziwikire, izi zimachitika, m'malo mwake, ndi amuna, si msungwana m'modzi amene wadwala. Mawu ake anali ngati: "Ndiwe bwenzi langa lapamtima," "Iwe ukundikonda ngati mlongo" wochokera kwa munthu wina wokonda kumva zopanda phindu. Ndiye osakhala bwanji okhazikika pamalo a "mlongo wosaba" ndipo pitani kwina muli pachibwenzi?
Malinga ndi akatswiri azamankhwala, mtsikanayo amalimba kwambiri kusiya Franzow, koma palibe chosatheka.
Osati amuna okha omwe ali ndi vuto la "bwenzi lamuyaya"
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Kuchitira munthu womvetsetsa
Palibe choipitsa ngati mudzakhala ovuta kulumikizana. Mwamuna samamvetsera kwa mkazi yemwe amakhala wopanda nkhawa kuti akhale pafupi. Ntchito yanu ndikuyesa kumvera bwenzi lomwe mungakhale naye, ngati kuli kotheka, patsani upangiri ndi kusamalira akamafunikira. Ndipo, inde, nenani mawu abwino kwambiri: wamwamuna amajambulidwa akamva kuyamikiridwa.
Yambitsani
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Musakhale odabwitsa kwambiri
Sikuti azimayi onse amamvetsetsa kuti ndi malo ati. Zachidziwikire kuti mwakumana ndi munthu yemwe samasiya mphindi. Tsopano tayerekezerani kuti bamboyo akumva kuti amutcha mphindi zisanu zisanu zilizonse. Ngati sayankha, palibe chifukwa chofunafuna yankho ili. Phunzirani kudikirira. Ndipo ngakhalenso zochulukirapo kotero sikufunika kutsatira "nsembe yanu." Amayi ambiri amawopseza kuti alankhulirana ndi chinthu chomupembedza, koma kungofunika kukumbukira kuti mudzangokhumudwitsa ndi chidwi chanu.
Sakanizani, koma osachotsa
Kuseketsa nthawi zonse kumakhala bwino, koma ndiyeneranso kudziwa momwemonso. Palibe chifukwa chochitira nthabwala motsatana, sinthani vuto lililonse ndikuyerekeza zovuta zake. Yesani kusunga moyenera pakati pa nthabwala zathanzi, ndi zonse zomwe simuli clownna ndipo munthu ayenera kukuchitirani inu mozama.
Yesani njira zosiyanasiyana
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Dzilemekeze
Ziribe kanthu momwe muli mchikondi, nthawi zonse muziganizira za inu. Palibe chinsinsi kuti azimayi ambiri amakopeka ndi mabodza a Frank, chifukwa chongofuna kucheza nawo. Komabe, maubwenzi oterowo amatha kuwononga sayansi yanu. Amuna otere amatha kusintha mosavuta, ndipo ngati mayiyo wakonzekera chilichonse kwa onse, adzagwiritsa ntchito ngati njira yopuma. Mukufuna?
Dzipangeni
Yesetsani kudziyang'ana nokha kuchokera kumbali. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito thandizo la mnzanu: Funsani izi, m'malingaliro ake ndikoyenera kukonza nokha. Ingoganizirani kuti munthu amene mumamuopa kuti amathandizira ayenera kutsimikiziridwa.
Ngati mukudziwa kuti muli ndi nthawi zomwe zimafuna kuwongolera, musachite popanda kusiya. Koma mulimonsemo, simunasinthe zokonda za munthu, chifukwa sizingatheke kukonda aliyense, ndipo simungakhale nthawi yayitali pachithunzichi kwa nthawi yayitali.