Kodi pali kugonana kwa inu monga momwe ndikofunikira kwa ife? Komabe, dikirani. Kaya yankho la funso ili bwanji, chinthu chachikulu ndichakuti chikugwirizana ndi yankho la mnzanu. Kalanga ndi Ah, koma nthawi zambiri zomwe timayembekezera mu mafunso omwe amagwirizana ndi zenizeni. Chifukwa chake pamavuto ambiri, kubweretsa anthu awiriawiri ku mikangano yonse ngakhale kusweka. Kodi moyo wachilendo ndi umakhudzadi ubale womwe umakondana kwambiri? Kodi ndizowona kuti ndizosatheka kukhala popanda kugonana?
Sikuvutabe kulankhula zogonana. Inde, tikukhala m'zaka za zana la makumi awiri ndi chimodzi - ndipo kulibe mavuto ndi mwayi uliwonse. Zikuwoneka kuti manyazi ndi chisokonezo chomwe chimaphimba makolo athu pokambirana za mutu wakuti "za izi", osatisokonezanso, amakono ndi omasulidwa. Zowona, mawu ofunikira pano "akuwoneka." Kutsutsa kumachitika kuti ndi mavuto ogonana kukhala amodzi mwa oopsa, owononga zingwe zolimba komanso zachikondi.
Chifukwa chiyani? Tikulankhulana zikafika pazachuma, ntchito, ana. Timazindikirana wina ndi mnzake mu chisoni, kuwulula za kuvulazidwa kwaubwana ndi zovuta zamaganizidwe. Koma zikafika pokondana kwambiri, timapatukira ku zovuta, ophatikizika komanso osadziwa kuti achinyamata omwe ndi ovuta kuvomereza omwe amavomereza zomwe akufuna. Tiyeni tichite ndi chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti muphunzire kukambirana zogonana komanso kugonana kwanu.
chipatso choletsedwa
Mazana, ngakhale zaka masauzande ambiri, mbali yapamtima inali yovuta. Zachidziwikire, kusiyanasiyana nthawi zonse kumakhala m'malamulowo, koma pamasewera osiyanasiyana komanso nthawi za m'ma 1900, kugonana kudawonedwa ngati china chake chochititsa manyazi, kuchimwa, choletsedwa. Kukhala ndi luso lakuthupi? Inu muma! Chinthu chachikulu - kubereka, ndipo ngati mwana akapanda kubadwa, musachite "chotere" (kapena kugonana pawokha). "Zogulitsa" izi zochokera kwa makolowo zidalowa mwa mibadwomibadwo. Zikuwoneka kuti chilichonse ndichotheka, koma sitingakwanitse kukhala nokha.
Zimakhala zoseketsa (ngakhale ndizoseketsa pano, zochepa, zazing'ono): Timachita manyazi kuitana maliseche, popanda m'bale wowala komanso wamanyazi. Apa, mwa njira, ndi malingaliro opita kumbali yapakatikati. Makolo athu sakanatifotokozera kuti m'Mawu oti "mbolo "ndi" pizza ". Chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Chifukwa chakuti tikukumana ndi zosokoneza zosiyanasiyana pamaso pa thupi lako lomwe, sitikudziwa zinsinsi zake zonse, kuwopa Iye.
Malinga ndi ziwerengero, asanafike makumi asanu ndi anayi pa 100 aliwonse a azimayi omwe sasangalala ndi zogonana, osachita zachipatala
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Msungwana wanga wapamtima, wokwatiwa komanso mosangalala, mwanjira inayake paphwando la Bachelorette adagwirizana: samakondweretsa kwambiri mwamuna wake. Kuti tinene kuti tinadabwa, sizikunena chilichonse. Kupatula apo, banja lawo lakhala kale zaka khumi, ali ndi ana awiri - ndipo zonse zikuwonekeratu kuti okwatirana amakondana. "Mukuwona, sindikudziwona ndekha monga momwe ndiri wotsutsa!" - kudandaula kwa anya. "Awa ndi a Tsigricans, onyansa, ndipo ndine wosiyana," mkazi adavomera. Madzulo amenewo tinali kulangizidwa kwa Ana kuti tisangalatse katswiri wogonana. Pakapita kanthawi, bwenzi lakelo linati maulendo angapo, moyo wake unatembenuka. Dokotala adamuthandiza kumvetsetsa komwe vuto lake linali. Zili choncho, ndili mwana, amayi ake atatha kusudzulana ndi Atate wake kuunika kuyenera kulakalaka kwake. "Adandiuza kamtsikana kakang'ono kwambiri komwe mkazi wathu adachititsa ndi abambo athu, kuti akhale ngati msungwana wosalusa." Anya adaiwala za izi, adakakamiza kukumbukira kwake, koma mawu a mayi ake anali atakalamba kale. Sanathe kukhala "ufulu" womwe "ndi" mwadala "ndi kuwombera kuonda zogonana zake zaka zonsezi. Iye anali mwayi: mwamuna wake sananene za kuzizira kwa mkazi wake, kapena kuchita zinthu, osayesa kukakamiza mnzawo. Banja labanja silinaletse chilichonse, koma, mobisa mobisa Anna adadziona ngati wobera, wopanduka, wozizira komanso wosakhwima. Ndipo zikadapanda kuti phwando la Bachelorette, lidzapitilira ... mpaka liti? Mwa njira, Anya akadali ndi katswiri - tsopano wopanda katswiri wogonana.
Malinga ndi ziwerengero, asanafike makumi asanu ndi anayi pa 100 aliwonse a azimayi omwe sasangalala ndi anzanu ogonana, osachita zachiwerewere, ndiye kuti ali ndi mwayi wopeza orgasm. Koma izi pazifukwa zina zatsekedwa. Zifukwa zake nthawi zambiri zimadzavulala kwa ana ndikukumana ndi zomwe zimachitika "zowundana" zakugonana. Zoyenera kuchita? Mudziphunzire nokha ndi thupi lanu, zomwe anachita ndi zosowa zake. Poyamba, mwina simungakhale omasuka komanso ochititsa manyazi, koma ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa: palibe wina kupatula yemwe mungamvetse momwe mungafanane ndi pomwe, ndi ndani. Kuwerenga kwa kugonana kwake kumakhala gawo limodzi lofananira, komanso zonse zomwe zimakuchitikirani. Kukula, mumayamba kumvetsetsa zomwe kalembedwe kanu ndizomwe chizolowezi chanu chili ndi chakudya, chomwe mumakonda ndi nyimbo zomwe mumakonda. Zokonda ndizofunikira kuti mutenge ndi ulemu, mwinanso mukuyika pachiwopsezo choona ".
Kodi Mungatani Kuti Mubweretse Chidwi?
imodzi. Osakanikiza mnzanu kapena yekha . Ngati mungayang'ane nthawi zonse kuti china chake "sichili mu dongosolo" ndi anzanu, choncho zidzakhala choncho. Khalani ndi momwe ziliri tsopano: Zithandiza kuyenda moyang'ana zenizeni ndipo pezani chifukwa chake kusintha kwachitika mu libido (kapena bwenzi labido).
2. Tanthauzirani! Malingaliro ndi malo omasuka ku zoletsa ndi mango. Palibe amene angayang'ane m'maloto anu, palibe amene adzakonza ndikukuphunzitsani. Wotsutsa yemwe angakusiyeni pazolinga zanu ndi inunso.
3. Sewerani. Lero pali chiwerengero chachikulu cha masewera akuluakulu - mafupa okongola, okonda ma boti, "otentha" ...
zinayi. Werengani! Mabuku olakwika amatha kukhala olimba kuposa momwe amaonera kanema wambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Chilichonse ndi chosavuta: Kuwerenga, timapanga ntchito yathu.
zisanu. Yembekezerani: Kuyembekezera kuti zonse zichitike, m'mawa. Lowetsani uthenga, zithunzi za Frank, zolemba.
Zimachitika kawirikawiri: sitimawona kutentha koona kwa wina ndi mnzake
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Nayi zisangalalo!
Nthawi zambiri timaganizira za vutolo "kuzizira" kwathu komanso kusakonda kugonana. Ndipo ngati mungayang'ane mbali inayo? Kodi mungakhale bwanji ngati mukufuna zochulukirapo kuposa zomwe mnzake akhoza kupereka?
Kuyamba kwa buku la anzanga, kati ndi oleg, zafalikira m'maso mwathu. Achibale awa achidwiwa anapsompsona kulikonse, chisokonezo chochepa cha mboni zapawa. Tinakondwera kwa okonda, koma mgwirizano wa iwo unatenga chaka ndi theka. Mwanjira inayake paphwando la KatyA, nthawi zambiri amakhala chete, chopindidwa. Zinapezeka kuti kutha kwa ubale wake ndi Oleg adayika ... kusiyana kwanyengo. Zowona kuti wachinyamatayo ndi wodekha kuposa momwe zidawonekera, Katya adayamba kuzindikira miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yokha pambuyo pa chiyambi cha buku lawo. "Mukuwona, poyamba chilichonse chinali ngati nthano chabe. Chilichonse ndichosangalatsa, zonse zimafulumira kwambiri! .. Sindinathe kuganiza kuti moto uzikhala nawo mu miyezi yochepa, "
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Phunzirani. Kuti mumvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu, ndikofunikira kudziwa zonse za inu. Samalani ndi nthawi ya thupi lanu, zinsinsi zake, mawonekedwe ake. Mvetsetsani tanthauzo la kukonzedwa. Phunzirani kukambirana za thupi lanu komanso kutentha kwanu ndi mnzanu.
Mwachindunji. Mwa njira, zokhudzana ndi zokambirana kale, nthawi komanso pambuyo pogonana ndizoyenera kunena mosiyana. Ndi anthu ochepa omwe angalengeze mwachindunji zomwe akufuna. Phunziro! Kovuta kunena china chake, kuyang'ana m'maso mwa wokondedwa? Lembani mauthenga "oyipa"!
Kudalira. Nthawi zambiri poyandikira kwambiri amaphimba culcorcial wamaganizidwe. Komabe, silophweka kwambiri: ndiye kuti mawuwo ndi ovuta kuti mulepheretse kwathunthu ndikukhulupirira ngakhale wokondedwa wapamtima. Yesani kugwirira ntchito modekha ndi Wosankha Wanu.
Zimachitika kawirikawiri: kuseri kwa wokwerapo sitikuwona kutentha koona kwa wina ndi mnzake. Palibe nthawi yolankhula, komanso momwe mungachitire? Pofuna kusankha zokambirana zamtunduwu, muyenera kumasulira kwakanthawi, komanso lexicon yabwino. Ndipo inu mukukumbukira kuti kuyambira ali mwana timachita chidwi ndi manyazi musanayimbire matupi athu mwachindunji? Ndikosavuta kukangana za ma erogenious zida ndi chisangalalo, pomwe palibe mawu oyenera pa izi. Katya ndi Oleg sanamvetsetse china chofunikira chokhudza wina ndi mnzake, kenako zidapezeka kuti msungwana wachiwerewere amafunikira zoposa zomwe mnzake. Kwa miyezi ingapo, iye adalimbana nane ndi mayeserowo kuti asinthe ma Oleg ochepera, kenako adaganiza zoyankhula - ndipo mgwirizano wawo udawonongeka. Choonadi chachisoni cha moyo, komanso chimaposa kuvutika muukwati, kukhala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wawo kapena kubisira cholinga chake kwa iye.
Zimachitika kuti muyamba kufalitsa zofunikira mukatha nthawi yayitali limodzi. Zachidziwikire, pankhaniyi, ndikofunikira kugwirizanitsa kuyesetsa konse kubweza zakale. Kugonana kwa pabanja kupha zinthu, komanso kubadwa kwa ana, komanso kutopa kokhazikika. Kodi Mungakhale Bwanji? Zindikirani kuti vutoli lilipo. Mumwambowu kuti ndiwe amene mwagona mwadzidzidzi, osagona mwadzidzidzi, nthawi zambiri simukuona vutoli (mosiyana). Pambuyo pozindikira, yambani ... Lankhulani. Mudzadabwa, koma mwachizolowezi (chowonadi, cha Frank) chimabweretsa zodabwitsa. Gawani mantha anu ndi kukayikira kwanu, uzani mnzanu kuti usafunenso kuyanjana naye. Lankhulani mwachindunji komanso yosavuta: Pasayenera kukhala kukudziwikiratu komanso kuwonekera. Nthawi zambiri, amuna sazindikira kuti akazi awo amaphwanyidwa ndi zapakhomo. Ndipo mzimayi wonyozeka amaperekedwa m'malo mwa tchuthi chabwino kuti chikhale pabedi. Kamodzi ndi wokondana, wogonana amakhala munjira yoteteza mphamvu, osafuna kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Chakudya ndi kugona - ndizo zonse zomwe mukufuna. Zikuonekeratu kuti mphamvu zowonjezera zikangopezeka - zopatsa thanzi zimadzuka, zilakolako zakale zimabwezedwa. Mukalengeza amuna anu kuti mulibe mphamvu komanso kugonana chifukwa chogonana, mutha kupeza thandizo komanso kukhala paubwenzi.
Pakachitika kuti ndinu amene timatetezedwa ndi kulankhulana panzakha, ndikofunikira kuti mukweze mutu wosangalatsa popanda kuchita mantha. Chowonadi ndi chakuti kusowa kwa chidwi nthawi zambiri kumaonedwa ndi wokondedwa wakeyo ngati kusowa kwa chikhumbo chake. Chifukwa chake, mukukoka mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo pa okondedwa. Chifukwa chake sikofunikira kupirira komanso chete: Ngakhale mavuto anu oyipitsitsa ndioyenera ndi wokondedwa wanu Ugas ali kwa inu, mudzakhala ndi chisankho - yesani kuyibwezeretsa kapena kuvomera.
Mwambiri, kuthekera kotha kusiya zomwe siziyenera kwa inu ndi chizindikiro china cha umunthu wachikulire. Zaka mazana ambiri izi zisanachitike, azimayi adakakamizidwa kugonana - ndipo analibe mwayi wokana kapena kufunsa zina. Mwina ndi nthawi yopezerapo mwayi wopanga ndi kusiya kuyandikira pamene simukufuna.
Mwa njira, akatswiri azamalamulo ali ndi chidaliro kuti: Ngati mungaphunzire "ayi" ngakhale wokondedwa wokondedwa komanso wokondedwa, pomwe simunakonzekere kugonana, kulumikizana kwanu kudzakhala bwino. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, povomereza kudzera mwamphamvu, pang'onopang'ono mumaphwanya libido wanu, mudziyike, chotsani zikhumbo zanu kumbuyo. Izi zikachitika pafupipafupi, kupweteka kwanu kumakhazikika, chifukwa patatha nthawi yomwe mumanyalanyaza zizindikiro zake, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mudzasiya kumukhulupirira. "Sindikufuna? Watopa chabe. Khazikani mtima pansi! " Kodi pali chikondi?
Simuyenera kuyesa kupitiliza kugonana kwa omwe amakhala osakhazikika sangakhale okwanira: kulowa kapena wokonda - si njira yosangalalira. Larkor amangotsegula mophweka: Muli woyamba. Zofunsidwa ndi zokhumba zanu pali amene ali ndi zonse zomwe zili zoyenera kwa inu. Popeza tadziwana ndi zikhumbo zake, malingaliro ndi zosowa zake, osakayikira: amatanthauza. Zoseweretsa ndizabwino, koma chinthu chachikulu sichoncho kuti musamve thupi lanu, kuyesera kusangalatsa bwenzi. Masiku otentha ndi usiku!