Chifukwa chiyani nsanje imadzuka
Pali anthu omwe amachita nsanje chifukwa chodzikayikira kuti alibe zabwino (zokongola, wanzeru, wolemera) kwa okwatirana nawo, ndipo mwa munthu aliyense amakhala okonzeka kuwona mdaniyo. Nthawi yomweyo, bambo amene wazindikira kuti abambo ena amayang'ana mnzake, akhoza kukhala wolimba mtima mwa iye yekha ndipo nthawi yomweyo akupitiliza kuchita nsanje. Izi ndi zake, amamva wamwamuna ndipo safuna kuuza ena zomwe amamuona. Mzimayi yemwe adawona mu ma network ngati a komanso ndemanga zofatsa pansi pa chithunzi cha bambo wake, akukhulupirira kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro chowonjezera cha chidwi, ndipo chakonzeka kukonza zomwe mumakonda. M'njira zonsezi, tikulimbana ndi chidaliro kuti munthu amene muli naye paubwenzi ndi wanu. Ndi chinyengo. Ngakhale mwamuna wanu kapena mkazi wanu si katundu wanu.
Lolani theka lanu
Zachidziwikire, zonse ziyenera kukhala malire, apo ayi mutha kupita kutali. Kuphatikiza apo, dzifunseni kuti: Chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira munthu amene amasangalatsa kukhala ndi ena, kaya ndi zochezera kapena pa intaneti? Mwina si munthu wanu chabe? Palibe zodabwitsa kuti iwo akuti: osataya nthawi pa iwo omwe safuna kugwiritsa ntchito inu.
Olga Romaniv
Phunzirani kudalira
Yesani kuphunzitsa psyche yanu. Palibe chifukwa chozindikira ngati mdani akuwomba. Thupi kuti lipange mawonekedwe achilengedwe mu malo ochezera pa Intaneti chifukwa cha zomwe zimakondedwa, zomwe zimasaka nyama za munthu wina. Osafulumira, kuyankhula m'mawu amakono, "kuti athe kupirira ubongo" wokondedwa wanu, sangathe kukayikira chilichonse chokhudza zomwe mnzakeyo.
Lekani kunyenga
Munthu amene amachita nsanje, amafuna kukondedwa, osakonda. Nsanje zikuwononga. Wamphamvu amene muli ndi nsanje, wowopa kwambiri wotaya mnzake. Mantha amadziwika kwambiri ndi inu kuti mumasiya kuganiza mwachidwi. Koma mumawopa kwenikweni? Chifukwa chiyani amadalira wokondedwa wanu? Mwina ndikusowa thandizo, chidwi, kuyamikiridwa, kuvomerezedwa? Tsoka ilo, anthu ambiri amasokoneza chikondi ndi chizolowezichi. Mwinanso mlanduwu suli konse mukumva mozama komanso okhwima, koma pokana kusiya malo achitonthozo. Yesani kuyang'ana ubale wanu kuchokera kumbali: Kodi mulidi "mbali ziwiri za umodzi" kapena anthu awiri omwe anali abwino kwanthawi yayitali? Ndipo ngati nthawi ino yatha, musazindikire ngati tsoka.
Masulidwe Mantha
Yesani kupatsirana m'maganizo kudzera munthawi yopumayo, yerekezerani zomwe zikuchitika ngati mwadzidzidzi. Choyamba, malingaliro anu akhoza kukhala utawaleza kwambiri, koma ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri muchepetse ndikuyamba momwe mungayambire chibwenzi chatsopano. Ndipo mwina adzachita bwino kwambiri. Ndipo, za chozizwitsa, mutha kupeza yankho labwino! Chifukwa chake, mantha otaya munthu achoka.