Tsiku Labwino, Owerenga!
Amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi anthu osawonekawo awomberedwa kuti afotokozere zambiri. Tawona m'maloto, munthu amene sazindikiranso ngati wamoyo, yemwe amakhalapo kwinakwake. M'dziko losayanjanitse, iye amaganizabe za ife, amakumbukira, kuyesera kuti alembetse zomwe sanakumane nawo. Ambiri akuopa kuti ngati fanizoli litiyitanira, ndiye kuti ili kwa iwo omwe.
Kutanthauzira kwa maloto otere kungathe kuphunziridwa m'maloto, njira zachipembedzo, malingaliro amisala. Inde, aliyense wa iwo ali ndi ufulu wokhalapo.
Ngakhale zonse, tawona m'maloto, munthu wapitawu - ichi ndichinthu chodabwitsa, chodabwitsa.
Satifiketi ikhoza kukhala chitsanzo chotsatirachi:
"Tsiku lina linali theka la chaka, osati kwa abambo anga. Ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba akamwalira ndidamuwona ali m'maloto. Ndimalota ngati ndili ndi atsikana ku The Prifiere wa filimuyo mu sinema. Filimu yokhala ndi kumiza kwa chinsinsi. Ndipo munthu wamkulu (mu chiwembu) sawoneka pafupifupi aliyense - kaya ali nthano, kapena mzimu, kapena tanthauzo. Chifukwa chake: ndimakumbukira momveka bwino mafelemu omaliza. Alley paki. M'mphepete mwa ma lives - mabenchi. Chimodzi mwa izo chimakhala mawonekedwe akulu. Ndipo pakatikati pa alley, makamaka mu theka la mita, heroine amakhala kuchokera kwa iye - pa suti yayikulu. Amakhala, koma anthu amayenda kudutsa nthawi iyi ndipo samamuwona (chinsinsi chotere). Sichidziwike pachimake - amamuwona ngwazi yake. Uyu ndi mnyamata wa zaka makumi atatu. Ndipo ngwazizo zili ndi zaka 25, ali ndi tsitsi lalitali. M'bwalo lophukira, zonse zovala ndi jekete.
Kamera imayendetsa pang'ono, ndikugwira malo ambiri. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndikuwona kuti abambo anga amakhala pa benchi ngati "zowonjezera". Momwemonso ngwazi, koma kuchokera m'mphepete lina. Anavala jekete lake wamba, ma jeans, chipewa choluka, chikuwoneka bwino. Kungokhala ngati kafukufuku, zowonjezera zotere mu chimango cha angapo - amapanga mawonekedwe a nzika wamba papaki.
Ndimakankha oyandikana nawo - onani - pazenera abambo anga. Amadabwa - Choonadi. Kamera imayendetsa mopitilira, dongosolo lonse. Ndipo zitha kuwoneka kuti za njirayi ndi mpanda wa paki - komwe bambo ndi kumwalira, ndimakhala mumzinda wina wina. Ndikuwunikiranso lingaliro - limatanthawuza gawo la utoto lidawomberedwa pamenepo.
Mwina abambo amafuna kundiuza? Kapena kodi ndikulota za moyo wanga? "
Popeza mtundu wathu umakhala kuti sunasule malotowo chifukwa cha malingaliro amisala, ndiye izi zipangitsa.
Sitingadziwe motsimikiza ngati mzimu umatipatsa uthenga. Onani kuti ndizosatheka. Nthawi yomweyo, lingaliro la Greett limatsutsa kuti chilichonse chomwe tawona m'maloto ali nawo gawo la ife. Zithunzi m'maloto ndi kumvetsera kwa psyche, yomwe imaphatikizidwa ndi nkhani wamba, ntchito, vuto. Ntchito yathu ndikumvetsetsa lingaliro lawo.
Kugona konse ndi chithunzi pachithunzichi. Snovedia imayang'ana pazenera, pachithunzipa pali munthu wamkulu yemwe amakhala pa sutukesi, ndipo nyenyezi zomwe zimawonedwa kumbuyo kwake.
Ndipo anthu omwe ali pa alley sangawone heroine, komanso ngwazi. Chiwengo cha kugona chimapereka kuti palibe chomwe chimachitika m'moyo. Pali zowoneka zokhazokha. Komanso zithunzi zambiri kuti "ngwazi" zogona zikhoza kukhala, prototype wa maloto athu sazindikira. Monga ngwazi yayikulu yogona.
Ndizotheka kuti munthu wa Atate, yemwenso ali wowerengeranso, akuimirabe kuti pamoyo wake pakhale zinthu zoopsa. Pakadali pano, nyenyezi, chophimba pomwe zinthu zikuchitika.
Mwina olota - osati ochokera kwa anthu ogwira ntchito kwambiri, osakonda kutsatira, kukhala pambali, kupatula, kuti asiye malo ena ndi mawonekedwe.
Komanso, Atate, amene akuwonera izi pampanjiro la kwawo, akusonyeza kuti nkhaniyi idayamba kwanthawi yayitali, ("gawo lina la utoto lidawomberedwa pamenepo"). Ndikotheka kuti maloto athu akhala akuyang'ana momwe moyo umadutsa, m'malo mwa machitidwe ake.
Ndipo bwanji, momwe sasiyira munthu wachikhalidwe, amatipangitsa kuganizira mozama za kalasi ya moyo wanu?
Kodi tinaika chiyani mpaka pano? Kodi mapulani anu ndi otani?
Kodi ndi ubale wotani? Tsoka bwanji?
Irwin Yal, omwe anali ndi psychothealheratist, amatsutsa kuti kufa kwa munthu wina kumatipangitsa kuganiza za kuti moyo wanga ndi wamalire. Ndipo kuzindikira kwa miyendo ya moyo kumakhala kovuta, chizindikiro kuti tikwaniritse nthawi yoti tizikhala kwathunthu, kuti tidzikhazikitse tsiku lililonse. (Kungotha kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwalawa ndikupeza tanthauzo la tanthauzo, malingaliro omwe timakwaniritsa moyo wathu).
Mwina maloto a maloto athu ndi chizindikiro chakuti moyo, ngati kanema pazenera, udzafulumira. Ndipo nthawi yokhayo yochita - ikadali moyo.
Ndipo ndi maloto anji a inu? Tumizani mafunso anu pa positi: [email protected].
Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina