Moyo wapamtima muukwati sutha kukhala osasinthika nthawi zonse. Kukhala limodzi, kukhala kovuta kudabwitsidwa wina ndi mnzake, chifukwa mukudziwa pafupifupi chilichonse chokhudza mnzake, kuphatikiza izi zimakhudza luso lake logonana. Zosadabwitsa kuti banjali nthawi zambiri limakumana ndi mavuto ambiri pabedi. Tinaganiza zobweretsa zovuta zomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi amakumana nazo m'njira zapamtima.
Womvera mavesi
Ndi chifukwa chosawerengeka kuti munthu amakhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse komanso nthawi iliyonse. Komabe, ngati mnzakeyo akuwona kuti mzimayi ayankha zoyesayesa zake zonse kuti akhutiritse kapena kumangomusangalatsa, chidwi chake chimatha. Mkazi patapita kanthawi amazolowera munthu yemwe amayandikira nthawi zonse, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti amuzindikire kwambiri, izi zimapangitsa kuti agonjetse "mkazi akakhala kuti ' t. Chifukwa chake chimodzi mwazifukwa zosakhala zogonana komanso "zachisoni" zabodza zomwe zili mumlengalenga mozungulira awiriwo. Ngati mukukumana ndi kumverera, yesani kuwonjezera mitundu yokumbukira momwe moyo wanu wapamtima usanathe.
Yesani kumva kukhumudwa kwa mnzake
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Magawo anu akuthupi samagwirizana.
Zimachitika. Amuna omwe anali owolowa manja kwambiri chilengedwe, angayambitse kuvulala kwambiri kwa mkazi mosasamala kanthu. Malinga ndi akatswiri, kutalika kwa nyini kumadalira kukula kwa mayi: mtsikana wapamwamba, yemwe amakhala womasuka kwambiri. Mwazomwe zimachitika - munthu akapanda kudzitamandira thupi lalikulu la kugonana, ndipo mkaziyo, m'malo mwake, akhoza "kulolera kuti" akhalepo osakwiya ndipo onse sangakhale omasuka. Komabe, vutoli limathetsedwa molondola.
Simungamvetsetse m'magawo ozungulira.
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Mantha kulephera
Ngakhale mutakhala mwamuna ndi mkazi, moyo wogwirizana unayamba, kuwopa kuti mwachita manyazi pamaso pa akazi sikungachoke kulikonse, ngakhale kumakula bwino. Monga lamulo, zolephera pabedi zimapezeka ndi amuna omwe amadziyambitsa okha.
Zovuta Zosakhalitsa
Mu thupi la mkazi pali njira zambiri zomwe zimachitika mwanjira ina iliyonse zimakhudza kupezeka komwe kumachitika, zomwe khalidwe logonana limadalira. Kutopa, kukhumudwa, kusokonekera kumatha kukhala vuto lalikulu kwa inu, komanso kwa mnzanu amene akhala nanu nthawi yayitali. Zokhudza kugonana panthawiyi tikulankhula, monga lamulo, sizipita. Ndikofunikira pano kuti mnzanu akumvetsa mkhalidwe wanu osati "kukakanikizidwa", kukukakamizani kuti mukwaniritse. Pamaziko a kuthamanga kwa boma la zamaganizidwe, mwina ndi mikangano yambiri mu awiri.