Posachedwa, mzatiyo akutumizidwa ku maloto, omwe amachitira umboni kwa wogwira ntchito mu kutayika, za malingaliro amisala amatchedwa "ntchito yachisoni". Tinatulutsa matulutsidwe kale, zimangonena kuti izi ndi zomwe sizinachitikepo kale, zomwe zimakhudza mbali zonse za moyo ndi malingaliro ovuta kwambiri kumoyo kusamalira wokondedwa. M'mawu ambiri otumizidwa, tidakambirana za kuti chisoni chilipobe. Koma lero adatumiza loto, lomwe likuwonetsa kumaliza kwa njirayi.
"Moni. Ndikufunsani kufotokoza momwe maloto anga amatanthauza. Choyamba pang'ono za inu. Ndine wamasiye. Zaka zitatu zapitazo ndidakumana ndi munthu, ndipo tinali pachibwenzi. Koma atatha zaka zitatu ali ndi moyo, anayenera kubwerera kwawo, ndipo tsopano tagawika ndi maola 5 othawa ndi ndege. Safuna kundilola kuti ndipite miyezi itatu iliyonse. Ndidamuthawa ndikukhala masiku 6 osangalala kumeneko. Ndipo pobwerera, ndimalota maloto, ngati kuti ndikupita ndi amuna omaliza kudutsa malo omanga ndikumuuza kuti tafika pa nthawi yomaliza, chifukwa ndime. Ndi patsogolo pathu pazenera laling'ono, ndipo mwamunayo amayesa kulowamo, koma sagwira ntchito. Kenako ndimasuntha ndikupita kumsewu. Mtsogolo ndi wokongola kwambiri - malo ndi thambo ndi lamtambo, ndipo adakhala komweko. Ndiuzeni, chonde nditanthauzanji tanthauzo langa ndipo likugwirizana ndi wokondedwa wanga. "
Timayankha nthawi yomweyo pa funso lomaliza: Kugona kumalumikizidwa makamaka ndi loto.
Malotowa amangonena za izi ndipo akuimira mfundo yoti adagonja moona ndi kholo lake. Samalani ndi zizindikiritso za tulo: Tamverani amuna anu, nthawi yomaliza imapita limodzi. Sizingakwawike pazenera, chifukwa zapita. Sangathe kubwerera ndikukhala moyo. Koma malotowo akupitilizabe kukhala ndi moyo, amatsegula chitseko ndikupita kudziko lapansi. Adzakhala. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwanjira ina ngwazi yathu idalumikizidwa mwanjira inayake ndi maubale awa. Mwinanso momwe njirayo idatha, ndipo imatha kudzipatula ku zakale ndikupitilirabe.
Sizokayikitsa kuti zimalumikizidwa mwachindunji ndi wokondedwa, koma mwina mawonekedwe ake m'moyo siongochitika. Chikondi ndiye mphamvu yamphamvu kwambiri, yomwe ilipo pamasamba ndi thupi, yomwe imatha kudzutsidwa ku kukhumudwa kovuta kwambiri ndikubweranso utoto wamoyo. Timakhala mchikondi, nawonso, sizokhangozi. Timagwiritsa ntchito mphamvuyi kuti zibwere mozungulira. Yang'anani pa chikondi cha munthu: Amawuluka, maso akuwotcha, chiyembekezo kupyola m'mphepete, ngakhale matenda akubwerera. Mwina wokonda amene ali m'mphepete mwa dziko lapansi, anafunika kudzutsidwa uku. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndichakuti maloto a maloto adati Iyeyo, yemwe amatha kukhala ndi moyo ndikuwona zojambula za moyo.
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin