Kugonana tsiku loyamba: "Zotsatira za chisangalalo"
Aliyense wopanda chopatula, amunawa amafuna kuti azigonana tsiku loyamba, ndipo sikuti kulikonse kopita kulikonse ... kotero azimayi ambiri amalingalira kuti, amatsimikizira zomwe zakuchitikirani. Koma kodi zilidi? Zachidziwikire, m'moyo muli "zotsekemera", zomwe zikuyamba kukana azimayi kuti azigonana pamsonkhano woyamba, analibe nthawi yokwanira mchere. Komabe, nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha ntchito yogonana mwa amuna asanapumbitse ... akazi okha.
Izi zimatchedwa "zofiira za Cap". Monga chiwembu cha nthano yotchuka ya Charles Perro, azimayi anathamangira m'nkhalango yamdima mu madiresi ofiira owoneka bwino, ngakhale atakhala kuti akuyembekezera mimbulu yoopsa. Malangizo a akazi amatha "kuyambitsa mizu" m'makalata - mtsikanayo sakumvetsa, malingaliro amunthu pakugonana:
- "Mukudziwa, tasiya kale kale, ndakhala ndikukumbatirana amuna kwamphamvu kwa chaka chimodzi";
- "Muli ndi chithunzi chokongola, cholumikizidwa - ndikufuna kukhudza";
- "Zimene sitinadziwe bwino, koma tidzapeza."
Julia Lansk
Maganizo ofanana ndi omwe mkaziyo sangakhale okwanira kuyanja tsiku loyamba, Swintl okha, kuyesera kuti asayang'ane hanger ndipo akufuna kuti akonde munthu. Komabe, amuna amazolowera kutenga zonse zomwe akuwona, motero amazindikira kuti ali pachilankhulo komanso amatuluka mabatani kudzera mu chubu ngati akupita kukagonana mwachindunji. Pambuyo pake, mayi wonyenga "adzadandaula kuti ndi mnzake wapamtima ponena kuti" sanatchulenso "ndipo" anthu onse ndi ofanana. " Koma machitidwe osewera omwe ali ndi zokambirana mu mawonekedwe a kugonana tsiku loyamba kumatembenuza mkazi ku Thupi lopambana. Tisakhale ndi nthawi yolimbana ndi dziko lake, iye, yemwe ali ndi gawo lalikulu lothekera, safuna msonkhano watsopano - cholinga chotsimikizika chidakwaniritsidwa, chizindikirocho chimaperekedwa, ndipo nthawi yakwana.
Nthawi yomweyo, kulephera kwa "chipewa chofiyira" kuchokera ku kugonana patsiku loyamba kumatha kucheza ndi kutha.
"Kupatula apo, iye anaikidwa tsiku lonse madzulo onse, ndipo pamapeto pake anali atakhumudwa ndi mkwiyo."
Momwe mungalembetserepo? Momwe mungapangire munthu, mumakonda chiyani, osakhala chinthu chogonana? Choyamba, ndikofunikira kusiya kudzipereka malingaliro anu pafupi ndi nkhani yogonana. Kupatula apo, monga mukudziwa, malingaliro ndizachinthu. Ngati mkazi akudandaula kwambiri ngati pakugwirizana ndi mwamunayo ndi bambo ayenera kuchitika tsiku la mtundu, ndikukhudzana ndi "zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwake.
Kodi mungatani kuti muchepetse mutu wa kugonana tsiku loyamba ndikuyimitsa mfundo yovuta kwa munthu yemwe mumakumana nawo lero? Choyamba, pumulani ndikuyika malingaliro anu mu dongosolo, yesani kuwasintha pazomwe mukufuna kuchokera ku moyo. Ganizirani za ukwati wachimwemwe, zizolowezi, maulendo oyenda, zodabwitsa zachikondi ... Inde, pafupifupi amene mukufuna kukhala ndi kuwoneka moyo wanu wamtsogolo. Zomwe Amuna Zisayembekezere Kudikirira - adzakutsegulirani "pa inu, koma mosiyana kale - mwakuya komanso mwakuya.
Pumulani ndikuyika malingaliro anu mu dongosolo, yesani kuwasintha pazomwe mukufuna kuchokera ku moyo
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Momwe mungakhalire "zoziziritsa"
M'moyo wa mkazi aliyense, madeti oyamba akuchitika, pomwe munthu amaganiza zogonana, ngakhale simunamuloleze pamutuwu. Khalidweli sizitanthauza kuti nthawi yomweyo muyenera kutembenuka nthawi yomweyo ndikumenya chitseko. Phunzirani "Sinthani" Mwamuna Wogwiritsa Ntchito Njira Zogwirira Ntchito:
1. Timapita kukaseketsa.
2. Timabweretsa zokambirana zaluntha.
3. Mangani malire.
Kusiya nthabwala
Kuseketsa ndipo witi adzakuthandizani kusinthana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi mutu wa kugonana kotero kuti aziiwala kuti kwa miningo ina yapitayo "mawonekedwe owongoletsedwa" khosi lanu. Yesani kuti nthabwala zanu sizikumveka bwino. Musanakumane ndi bambo wina, konzani nthabwala zingapo zomwe mungathe kuti muthane ndi tsiku loyamba ngati kuli kofunikira.
Timabweretsa zokambirana zaluntha
Kuzindikira kuti mwamunayo amapereka pankhani yogonana, lembani zokambirana mu ndege yauntha. Makamaka mungagwiritse ntchito mitu yomwe yosankhidwa yanu ndiyoyang'ana. Lankhulani ndi mapulogalamu a matrics ndi ma opaleshoni, ndi opaleshoni - pa ntchito zatsopano komanso zomwe zakwanitsa pambuyo pa gawo la mankhwala. Ndikofunikira kuti mukhale osachepera pang'ono pa nkhani ya zokambirana, kotero lisanafike tsiku loyamba lomwe ndimalimbikitsa kuti muphunzire mitu ya aluntha yomwe ingasangalale ndi satellite yanu. Ngati nthawi ina palibe chomwe anganene, pemphani funso lokhudza zokambirana. Kuyankhulana kwachangu ndi kusalankhulira kwa munthuyo, kukupatsani mwayi wochokera ku nkhani yogonana.
Mangani malire
Ndi chikhalidwe chawo, amuna ndi agonjetsi. Nthawi zonse amafuna kupeza "chipatso choletsedwa", chomwe chikuwoneka ngati chosatheka. Nyumba yoyenera imatanthawuza kuti simungakakamize veto pamutu wakugonana, koma osakonzekera kuyankhula za izi, makamaka - kuchita. Ngati, tsiku loyamba, munthu angayesere kuyankhulana bwino, maso ake manyazi ndi parry: "Ili ndi mutu wosangalatsa, ndipo ndimalankhula za inu."
Kukhazikika, zotsika mtengo ndi chinsinsi "zimaphatikizapo" munthu wochokera kotala. Kukondana kosavuta kudzapangitsa chidwi mwa iwo, ndipo tsiku lachisanu ndi chitatu lomwe lidzadikirira. Nthawi yomweyo, adzazindikira zokwanira kuti azindikire: sikuti amangokonda kugonana kwake.
Ndingatani?
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Ndingatani?
Ngati kugonana koyamba kumachitika molawirira kwambiri, bambo akumvetsetsa kuti palibe china chogonjetse, ndi masamba ...
Ngati nthawi ya kugonana koyamba ikachedwa, bamboyo amatha "kuwulula" kudikirira, pambuyo pake chidzatha.
Ndiye abwera liti - nthawi yoyenera? Pankhani yogwirizana kwambiri, ndikofunikira kuti munthu yemwe anali akuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali. TAYEREKEZANI zowawa za nyama - kuti mumvetsetse, bambo ayenera kudikirira kuti akhale wokonzeka. Ndi nthawi yakuyembekezera, osati njira yodya mbale, ndiye wokoma kwambiri kwa iye. Kugonana kwanu koyamba kuyenera kukhulupirira kuti munthu akuyembekezera kutaya mpweya wake. "Kuphika mbale," Tsatirani malamulo akulu:
"Osayimirira." Kudikirira kwambiri kuyandikira kwa miyezi, kapena ngakhale zaka, nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa kutopa kwa mwamuna, ndipo amangochokapo osadikirira "mbale yayikulu."
Tikukhulupirira. Mwamuna ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti kumapeto adzalandira "mphotho yake."
Khalani bwino kwa iye. Kutsegulira tsiku lililonse kwa bambo wina kuchokera kumbali yatsopano, potero kumandisangalatsa ndikunjenjemera.