Bwanji simukumvera chisoni milandu

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- Tangoganizirani, Masha adasokonezeka ndi wokwatiwa. Ndimakonda, amatero palibe chomwe chimafunikiranso, ndidikirira.

- milungu yanga! Pepani mtsikanayo! Zabwino, ndipo pano muli. O osauka, iye amagwadira.

Chisoni - kumverera komwe nthawi zambiri kumalengezedwa ndi zoyipa. Wina ali ndi moona mtima - amati, Msungwana wabwino chotere ndi wokwiya. Wina amawakwiyitsa kapena mantha, akusewera pamaso panu pazomwe mukukhala - pambuyo pake, ngati mukunong'oneza nazo bondo, ndizochititsa manyazi kwambiri. Ndipo "akasupe akufa" sakhala opusa onse kukhitchini yake, ndipo padziko lonse lapansi, zomwe nthabwala zoterezi zimaseweredwa nawo, chifukwa Ndiwofunika kwambiri. Ndi kutsanulira misozi kumvera chisoni. M'malo mwake, mawu okhazikika pachiyanjano ndi osayenera. Chifukwa chiyani? Tsopano ndinena.

Tiyeni tiyambe ndikuti buku lokwatira ndi kusankha (kupatula milandu yomwe tikambirana). Ngakhale dziko la nkhanza kapena ziphuphu zopanda tsoka kapena kukhazikitsa koopsa kuchokera ku ofesi yakumwamba kuti iye samvera iye. Mtsikanayo adabwera ku ubalewu ndi miyendo yake. Ndimaganizira za ubongo wanga. Inde, mwina, sanawerenge kuti kudzakhala patali, inde, mwina adaganiza kuti angasankhe mwachangu, inde, sanayembekezere kuti padzakhala mabodza ambiri ndi utoto. Koma nthawi zonse pamakhala mwayi wochokapo, ngakhale utayamba kufika ngati buku lomwe limapangidwa. Ambiri, monga tikudziwira, sachoka ndi kulekereratu. China chake chikuyembekezera pamenepo. Madandaulo onsewa akuti "sandilola kuti ndipite", "akundiwongolera", "Sandipatsa" kumasulidwa ngati "sindikufuna kuthetsa kavalidwe kalikonse, ndikufuna diresi." Ndipo ichi ndi chisankho. Phatikizani kayendetsedwe ka ubale wanu, nthawi yanu, malingaliro anu m'manja a anthu ena ndi chisankho chodziyimira pawokha.

Mikamu yanga yomwe ndimakonda kwambiri: "Maubwenziwa alibe tsogolo." Ndiuzeni, koma ndi ubale wamtundu wanji? Uwu ndiye wotsimikizika kudziwa bwino zomwe zili zaka ziwiri zomwe tidzakhala obadwa, ndipo pambuyo pake - mwana wamkazi wa dziko lapansi ndipo adzakhala m'mphepete mwa Itari, ndipo adzakhala m'mphepete mwa nyanja. Titha kukhala mwanjira ina iliyonse yokhayo, ndipo ndi zotheka m'tsogolo. Ndipo zikafika pamapangidwe ovuta, monga ubale ndi munthu wina, ngakhale ngati ndi chikondi chachikulu, ndi maloto, kapena kuti aliyense, simungathe kulota za zingwe zilizonse. Ndipo zitsanzo za akazi atsalira, pali zambiri, kwambiri, ndikuyipa kwambiri, ndi ana, ndiye chitsimikiziro chabwino kwambiri. Ndipo mwa iwo, panjira, lumbiro laukwati, ndi sitampu yodziwika bwino pasipoti, yomwe aliyense amwalira, adanyeketsa bwanji. Anali. Inde, zidasinthira.

Pali lingaliro, ndipo pakati pa magombe, komanso pakati pa "atsikana odetsedwa" omwe milandu imangogwiritsidwa ntchito pogonana, ndipo mawu onsewa a chikondi - fufter. Mabwenzi aang'ono osauka omwe sanalinso ngati akapolo ogonana. Tiyeni tione moona mtima. Choyamba, kugonana kumakhala kozizira. Pakakhala zochuluka, ndipo ndi wabwino, zoipa pano. Kachiwiri, komanso kuyanjana kwathunthu, ndipo ndimalemba ndendende - izi ndi za munthu wamkulu, ngakhale nthawi yayitali, mphamvu, ndalama pamapeto pake. Ndipo palibe Ferrikoni amodzi, ngakhale gulu lalikulu kwambiri, silofunika. Kuti mumvetsetse (mwa njira, uchimo uko kukhala wokongola, wabwinobwino) akhoza kukhala mosavuta ndikusala kudya ndalama, ndipo palibe amene adzathetse ubongo, ndi ukwati (womwe, mwina palibe ikuwonongeka) ikuwopsezedwa. Chifukwa chake "gwiritsani ntchito" kwa ambuye ake ndiowopsa.

Nthawi zambiri, wachiwerewereyo amawerengedwa ku ubale wosavomerezeka kapena, monga olembetsa ena, "Union ndi tebulo" monga afotokozedwe. Ndimakonda fanizo labwino kwambiri ili la Larisa Guzeyey. Munthu aliyense ali ndi lingaliro lake la ubale womwe umavomerezeka komanso womasuka. Mwambiri, iyi ndi imodzi mwazinthu zoyambirira kuti mumvere ngati china chake chodabwitsa chikuchitika m'moyo wanu. Ndikofunikira kuti mudziwe nokha: yemwe ndili, ndimafuna chiyani kuti ndikhale wosangalala. Wina ndikofunikira kwambiri kunyumba ndi ana atatu, wina samawona mogwirizana popanda zofuna za adrenaline ndi adrenaline, wina ngati moto ukuwopa chikondi chenicheni. Kodi zonse ndi chiyani? Kuti tisankhe ubale wathu, kutengera zomwe zimachitika m'malo mwathu. Ndipo ngati palibe kukonzekera kwenikweni kwa Mwana wa Mtengowo, zikutanthauza kuti sangatero. Chifukwa sikofunikira. M'masiku osiyanasiyana, titha kukhala ndi polar kwathunthu. Koma izi sizitanthauza kuti maubwenzi athu ena ndi otsika. Ife tokha, ndipo palibe wina, kuwongolera kuti sikwabwino kwa ife, ndi zomwe si.

Chifukwa chake, pamene wolakwayo amafunadi ubale wina, wopanda nkhondo zothera, popanda nkhondo zothera, kukayikira, zokumana nazo, ndipo ndizo zonsezi, adzawalandira. Pakadali pano, zimatanthawuza kuti pakadali pano amawazindikira ndipo amafunikira, komanso athunthu. Ndikudziwa atsikana ambiri achimwemwe kwambiri komanso omwe ali ogwirizana ndi gawo limodzi lofunikira - amapereka lipoti lofunikira - amapereka lipoti lathunthu pazomwe zikuchitika, bwanji amafunikira, omwe ali pafupi ndi iwo? Kupita kumeneko. Amalandira zomwe amafunikira pakadali pano, kukhala ndi mtundu wa ufulu womwe ukufunika, komanso chimodzimodzi kuchuluka kwa chikondi ndi chisamaliro chomwe amafunikira. Kodi ndi ndani pano?

Ndikunenabe kuti mbuye amachita zosungulumwa. Ine, moona mtima, sindikuwona chilichonse chowopsa pamaso panga ndekha, koma pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti uku ndi chilango chabe ndipo uzikhala ndi munthu. Ndipo ngati kwanthawi yayitali muli nokha, ndiye chilichonse, temberero, chisoti chachifumu cha kusakwatira, Moyo Wolephera. Ma sobs onsewa ali pafupi tchuthi chosungulumwa, madzulo, mausiku, ndi zina zotero. Tiyeni tibwerere ku chinthu choyamba: kusungulumwa ndi chisankho. Ndikufuna kukhala mu Chaka Chatsopano chimodzi - mumakhala nokha. Simukufuna - mumapita ndi abwenzi kapena abale kuti mumatha kutafuna komanso kusangalala ndi munthu wina, pamapeto pake, tokha sizimalumikizidwa. Mwa njira, nthawi zambiri zimachitika ngati zimatenga nthawi kwa munthu m'modzi kuti azifunitsitsa komanso okonzeka kufunitsitsa kwa mutu wa munthu wina papilo lotsatira.

Ndipo, zoona, boodyang, malo obadwira. Mwachidule ndi pamasitepe a mitundu yake yonse, ndidalemba kale m'nkhani yonse. Ndiloleni kutikumbukire kuti dziko lathu lisachite bwino. Atsikana abwino amaponya amuna, agalu abwino amafa mumsewu, ndipo anthu okongola amalandila anthu otere kuchokera ku moyo womwe Diva zaperekedwa. Palibe lingaliro "la chiyani?", Pali - "za chiyani?". Tili ndi china chake chomwe timapita kumayanjano, chifukwa cha zomwe timakhalabe. Chifukwa cha ichi "Chifukwa chiyani?" Imatha kubisala zabwino ndi zoyipa. Kumbukirani, ndanena kale kuti malingaliro ndi zokumana nazo ndizofunika kwa ife osakwanira kuposa zabwino. Mwambiri, ngati mungayang'ane moyo wanu ndi mayankho kuchokera pamalo "Chifukwa" Chifukwa ", ndiye kuti mumayamba kuona bwino. Ndipo, zotsatira zake, imayambanso kusintha kuti isinthe.

Ili ndi nzeru ngati izi, kukhululuka ndi "maenje" anga. Sindikumvera chisoni, mosamala, kuyanjana kokongola kwambiri ndikundipatsa utsogoleri "tonsefe tidzakhala osiyana", mizere yochepa kwambiri yadziko losasankhidwa. Ndipo kenako titakhala pamenepo pasanapangidwe, ngakhale itakhala mavuto akulu.

Zabwino zonse komanso zoyenera.

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