Mogwirizana pabanja ndilofunika, ngati si gawo lalikulu la mgwirizano wolimba. Chowonadi chachikulu: Pakakhala mgwirizano mu banja, palibe amene angakuuzeni mwachidziwikire, kuti alipo. Koma pakakhala mgwirizano, umayitanitsa zifukwa ziwiri zosavuta zomwe zimasokoneza kupambana kwake. Makamaka, zifukwa izi zimalumikizidwa ndi momwe mnzake amakhalira - mwamuna kapena mkazi amachita. Ambiri mwa anthu omwe sapeza chisangalalo muukwati amakhulupirira kuti ndi winayo, mnzake, ndipo adzakhala osiyana, ndipo adzakhala osiyana ndi ena, ndipo moyo wabanja udzakhala wosiyana, osangalala. Koma chinsinsi chake ndichakuti sichofunikira kukhala munthu wabwino kapena wokwatirana naye kuti azigwirizana m'banja.
Mabanja onse ali ndi mikangano, kusamvana, mikangano ndi kusamvana. Koma mabanja achimwemwe komanso osasangalala akukumana ndi mikangano iyi m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Masomphenya ndi kumvetsetsa komweko, kukhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake, mwayi wokhulupirirana, kufuna kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake - izi ndi zofunika kuzisiyanitsa maukwati achimwemwe kuti asachite bwino. Mverani Kusiyana: Kukhala wokhulupirika kwa wokondedwa wanu, ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukukayikira funso limodzi, kapena kukhala otsutsa. Ndikosavuta kukhala wotsutsa, kukhulupirika mu izi kumafuna kulimbikira, kuzindikira mu maubale. Ndipo apa pali lamulo lalikulu la maubale ogwirizana: Chibwenzi ndi ntchito yokhazikika.
Pali ubale wapadera pakati pa malingaliro ndi zochita.
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Inde, kugwira ntchito mu maubale ndi ntchito kwa onse awiri. Munthu m'modzi, ngakhale atakhala wabwino bwanji, samatha kunyamula katundu pamapewa ake, ndipo sindiyenera kuchita izi. Zachidziwikire, osati mu mphamvu yathu "yakweza" mwamuna wake kapena mkazi wake, kuyesera kupanga zabwino, "Kulondola". Zonse zomwe tingathe - tingowerenga momwe mumaganizira zaukwati, yesani kupeza ndi kukonza zolakwitsa zanu, gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro anu kwa mnzake. Kudzisintha kokha, titha kuchititsa mnzakeyo. Ndipo nthawi zambiri iyi ndi njira yokhayo yochitira mgwirizano m'banjamo.
Pali ubale wapadera pakati pa malingaliro ndi zochita. Tikamakonda, zochita zathu zokhudzana ndi mnzake zimawombedzera. Kenako, chikondwererochi chikayamba kuchoka, ndi zomwe zingakhale zamatsenga zomwe zimadyetsa ubale wanu, ndikuwadzaza ndi chikondi ndi chikondi. Ichi ndi chowonadi chotsimikizika: Chitani izi ngati mumakondadi ndi kulemekeza wokondedwa wanu (ingochitani izi moona mtima), kenako mumamukonda. Sankhani nokha kuti simukungofuna kukhala pafupi ndi munthuyu, koma khalani mosangalala.
Khalani ofatsa, musayeserere bwenzi. Ngakhale atangopanga kapena kulakwitsa, kumuthandiza kuti azikhalabe, akhale kumbali yake. Ganizirani mawu amene mukufuna kunena, nthawi zina ndi bwino kuchita bwino kuposa kutsimikizira kuti mkanganowo.
Zofala kwambiri, zolimba maziko a ubale
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Khalani olimba mtima pakafunika. Osawopa kuyanjananso, musadikire kuti mukankhe kapena kuchititsa manyazi. Kumbukirani kuti muli ndi chilichonse chodziwika bwino chokhudza banja lanu, ndipo ndizachidziwikire kuti ndizoyenera kukhala wolimba mtima.
Yesetsani kuti pakhale wamba pakati pa achibale onse. Mwanjira imeneyi, miyambo ya mabanja, makalasi, zinthu zosangalatsa, malamulo, ogwirizana, amagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri.
Musayembekezere mnzanu kuti aphunzire kuwerenga malingaliro anu kapena kulosera zokhumba zanu. Mukufuna kupita ndi amuna anga m'makanema? Ndiuzeni kuti, osadikirira mpaka Iye, ngati munthu weniweni, adzakupemphani.
Osayesa kukhala omasuka muubwenzi, zonse zimafunkha. Simuyenera kukhala muubwenzi kuti simukukhutira - koma kuti musakhale paubwenzi woterewu, muyenera kuphunzira kulankhulana ndi mnzanu, kukambirana mavuto onse. Zimakhala zovuta kunena kuti ndi mabanja angati omwe angapulumutsidwe ku chibanjalo ngati anthu amangodziwa kuyankhulana.
Agiriki adatsimikizika chifukwa chogwirizana "kuvomerezedwa." Kuti tikwaniritse mgwirizano m'banjamo, musayese kuphatikizirana wina ndi mnzake, kuti mukhale amodzi mwa onse. Khalani nokha, khalani ndi mawu anu, koma mugwirizane ndi mawu a mnzake. Ndipo izi ndizosatheka popanda kulemekezedwa, kukhazikitsidwa kwa wina ndi mnzake. Zili mu izi kuti ndikofunikira kuyang'ana magwero achiyanjano m'banja.