"Vuto lanu ndi lotani? Koma ndili ndi ... "- Mumayambitsa kukambirana ndi mnzanu akusilira phewa lanu. Dziwani kuti thandizo loterolo ndi munthu wokoma mtima ndipo mdani sangafune. Munthawi yovutayi, muyenera kuchita bwino ndikupereka gawo limodzi ndikuthandizira komwe munthu wapamtima kuti munthu wapamtima. Mwa upangiri woyipa, monga akatswiri azamisala amawonera zomwe zikuchitika komanso malingaliro otani.
"Mapeto pake asonkhanitse!"
Mukutopa kwambiri kumvetsera kwa bwenzi lomwe limadalirabe kuti amasangalala ndi "wakale", lomwe lakhala likuyenda ndi mtsikana watsopano. Tikukumvetsani, chifukwa mikhalidwe ngati imeneyi imapezeka ndi abwenzi a aliyense wa ife - ndekha zochokera kuntchito, ena anali ndi vuto, ena sakumana ndi udindo ndi kholo la kholo. Muzochitika izi, simungathandize ndi thandizo limodzi, ndikofunikira kupatsa munthu mndandanda wa upangiri wothandiza kwa munthu. Koma mumangofunika kuperekedwa ndi lonjezo loipa, koma motsutsana: "Masha, ndimakukondani ndipo ndimalakalaka zabwino m'moyo. Msungwana wanga amaiwala wakale wakale wamasewera, tiyeni tiyese kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi limodzi? "
Ndiuzeni chibwenzi choletsa mtima wosweka
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"Ndi mafuta akutha ..."
Zingawonekere kuti munthu ali ndi chilichonse: ntchito ndi malipiro abwino, malo ogulitsa, mwayi wowuluka nthawi zingapo pachaka, abwenzi okhulupirika omwe ali pafupi - kodi mungafunikenso chiyani? Anthu ambiri savuta kumvetsetsa kuti kukhumudwa kungakulepheretseni kungoyambira. Agogo athu angazindikire kuti mavuto onse kuchokera ku ulesi. Komabe, akatswiri amisala amayitanitsa kuti asamaganize bwino za mkhalidwe wa munthu. Nthawi zambiri mavuto amawoneka chifukwa chodzidalira komanso katswiri yekhayo angakuthandizeni kuthana nawo. Ndiuzeni kulumikizana kwa katswiri wazamitundu wopongwe, ndipo mupite naye kuti atenge limodzi.
"Kodi ndi vuto?"
Kumbukirani: Simungalepheretse malingaliro a anthu ena. Dziwani kuti zingaoneke ngati lobisikira ena, zimangovulaza ena. Chikondi choyamba, chibwenzi cha kuperekedwa, anzanu a miseche kumbuyo kwake, kusowa ndalama - kudzera pamavuto onsewa mutha kudutsa zoposa kamodzi ndikutuluka mwa iwo wopambana. Zikuwoneka kuti mnzake alibe munthu wolimbikira - ndipo uyu si vuto lake. Sonyezani chifundo ndi kuyesetsa kuthandizira munthu. Ndipo ngati malingaliro ofanana ndi anzanu, ndibwino kumuuza moona mtima za izi ndikuchoka kwakanthawi.
Alangizeni mnzake wa akatswiri aluso
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"Amayi athu anagwira ntchito pazinthu zitatu, ndipo inu ..."
Nthawi zina kusintha - achinyamata amakono, malinga ndi akatswiri amisala, amakonda kwambiri kudziwonetsa. Izi zitha kufotokozedwa ndi kupezeka kwa chidziwitso, zomwe zimachitika pa psychoanalysis ndi mulingo wokwezeka kwa nthawi ndi tsiku. Chifukwa cha malingaliro omwe ali pamwambapa, osawona ndi mavuto enieni m'maganizo. Ndikosagwira ntchito kuti muwamenye wekha - kuzindikira zovuta ngati zomwezo ngati mano kapena angina. Simungayerekeze kuti si kapena kuyesera kuti azidzichitira okha? Chifukwa chake, muyenera kulumikizana ndi katswiri.