Kodi mukufuna kukonda ndi kukondedwa bwanji! Nthawi zina kwambiri kuti ndife okonzeka kuphwanya theka lathu lachiwiri. Tengani nthawi yanu yonse yaulere, chitani zonse kuti muchite chidwi kwambiri. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu nthawi zambiri amakhulupirira kuti ngati amakonda munthu wina wopanda malire kuti akhale okonzeka kupereka zikhumbo zawo ndi zofuna zawo, ali ndi udindo wofunsanso zonse.
Zimapezeka kuti chikondi chimakhala chaudindo. Chifukwa chake nsanje, zomwe zimayamba kukhala ngati dzimbiri. Nsanje kwa Onse: Kwa anthu ena, machitidwe okondedwa, ziweto ... Zimakhala zosakanikirana kuti tisaone momwe wokondedwa ndi chidwi ndi munthu wocheza ndi wina wochezera. Pali chikhumbo chofuna kukhala nacho kwathunthu ndipo chokwanira: kudziwa zomwe amachita, zomwe amaganiza komwe amayenda. Zofunikira zikuyamba kuchulukira, ndipo chisamaliro chili ndi mutu. Zotsatira zake, onsewa adatsika kuchokera ku chikondi ichi. Onsewa akuvutika: imodzi - kuchokera ku chisamaliro chosafunikira, Arc - kuchokera ku malingaliro osagwirizana.
Mwa njira, iwo amene amakonda kwambiri amakopedwa kwa katswiri wazamisala. Zoyenera kuchita izi ndi chiyani? Momwe Mungapezere Zoyenera, Khalani Chiyanjano, Siyani Kusamala Komanso Kufuna? Ngati mukudziwa za "chikondi" chanu - ndi theka kumapeto. Ganizirani kuti gawo loyamba la kuchiritsidwa kwa zochulukirapo za chikondi zimapangidwa. Otsatirawa adzayesa kupeza nokha ndikuphunzira kukhala nanu mogwirizana, mverani zofuna zanu. Zingakhale zothandiza kuyesa kupanga zolinga zanu moyo wanu. Okha - awa ndi omwe sakugwirizana ndi wokondedwayo. Itha kukhala ntchito, kukula kwanu, zosangalatsa. Zosangalatsa zochepa za tsiku ndi tsiku sizikhala zopanda nzeru, koma zothandiza kwambiri (mwachitsanzo, zimadzisunga ndi kapu yowonjezera ya khofi, kuyenda, nsalu yatsopano). Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyesera kutsatira zofuna izi. Zikayamba kupeza, mudzakhala ndi mpumulo waukulu, mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi inu, ndipo zofuna za theka lanu lachiwiri lidzasanduka zofewa komanso lofooka. Onsewa adzakhala omasuka. Pali lingaliro lina la nkhaniyi, lomwe lingakhale gwero: perekani mnzanu mwayi wokhalamwini. Chifukwa cha izi, ubalewo udzakhala wamphamvu kwambiri. Aliyense adzakhala ndi mwayi wodzipanga yekha. Mudzakhala osavuta kumvana ndi wina ndi mnzake.