Monga lamulo, 90% peresenti ya anthu ogwirira ntchito tsiku lililonse ikuchita ndi anthu atatu ogwira nawo ntchito, ndipo nthawi zonse kuyankhulana kotereku kumatchedwa ogwirizana. Inde, ngakhale katswiri wosankha, osazindikira, mwina pali owate omwe sangakonde munthu wina, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa kusamvetsetsana. Masiku ano tinaganiza zokhutira zotchuka kwambiri komanso zomwezo nthawi zowoneka bwino, zomwe ndizofunikira kulingalira asanayankhule mokweza.
"Ndiye mwakupatsani? Bliimey! "
Kunena zowona, ngakhale simunatanthauze cholakwika chilichonse, mawuwo akumveka bwino kwambiri. Aliyense amakonda akamatamandidwa, koma si aliyense amene angafotokozere zakukhosi kwake. Kumbuyo kwa mawu akuti: "Sindinayembekezere kuti zikafika kwa inu," pamakhala chosakanizidwa ndikuti chinthu chofunikira chimapita kwa munthu, yemwe angakhulupirire kuti ndi amene mwamutsogolera. Yesani kupewa zigawenga zowunikira, ngati simukufuna munthu kuti akhale ndi vuto lalikulu.
Yesani kupereka thandizo
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"Ndakumva"
Chimodzi mwazinthu zokhumudwitsa kwambiri, zomwe zimatha kuchokera ku equilibrium ya munthu wopumula kwambiri. Tikauzidwa kuti "timva" nthawi zambiri sitinamvere, zonsezi ndi vuto. Chifukwa chake, simuyankha funso la anzanu, koma ingofuula, kupewa mipingo. Ndipo momwe tidanenera koposa kamodzi, munthu aliyense sadzakhala wosasangalatsa ngati mawu ake satengedwa mozama ndikudutsa m'makutu. Khalani pafupi kwambiri, chifukwa nthawi ina mukangonyalanyaza zomwe mukufuna.
"Umu ndi momwe ndimadziwira!"
Palibe chovuta kuposa kunena mawuwa pakadali pano pomwe mnzakeyo sakuyenda bwino kwambiri. Chilichonse choyipa chachitika kale, muyenera kuyang'ana njira zothanirana ndi vutoli, koma m'malo mwa chiganizo chofunikira mumangothira mafuta kumoto ndikuyendetsa munthu kuti akhumudwe kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti anthu ndi ofunika kuthandizira, makamaka ngati mumalankhulana bwino ndi munthu uyu, ndiye bwanji osapereka njira yomwe, mukuganiza, kaya ndi funso kapena funso lakokha? Yesetsani kudziimira kumizidwa.