Kupereka kwa mwamunayo sikuti ndi woweta. Pamndandanda pansipa, pali zovuta zosiyanasiyana mu ubale wa abambo ndi amai, koma onse akhoza kufotokozedwa mu liwu limodzi - kuperekedwa. Ngati mfundo imodzi kapena zingapo pamndandanda ndizoyenera kufotokozera zovuta mu ubale wanu, ndiye yankho labwino kwambiri lidzakhala loti mulankhule naye kwambiri. Mndandandawo unalowa m'Chiliya wa Galina Yanko Yanko.
Galina Yanko
Ubwenzi wapakati pa pansi
Ubale Wapatoto, wotchedwa ubale, ungakhale ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri. Kulankhulana ndi chinthu chokhazikika, koma m'mphepete chiloledwa liti? Zokambirana zausiku, zipinda zochezera, ngakhale palibe ubale wapamtima pakati pa abwenzi ndipo sagawana bedi, mzanga ndi bwenzi lanu limatha kugawana zinsinsi za mabanja, kuphatikizapo moyo wanu, kuphatikizapo zomwe mwachita. Akagawana zinsinsi za ma comrades - ndi dongosolo la zinthu, koma funso lathanzi lingabadwe pamutu panu: "Chifukwa chiyani mayi wina ayenera kudziwa nthawi yochepa ndi mwamuna wanga?" Maubwenzi ochezeka sayenera kukuwopa, koma kuwulula kwamunthu komanso kusamalira kwambiri mkazi wa munthu wina chifukwa cha chithunzi chosasangalatsa.
Mabodza
Zabodza zimatha kuwononga ubale uliwonse. Zinsinsi, kusakonda, ngakhale kupulumutsidwa kwa chipulumutso - zonse izi zimawononga ubale woona pakati pa anthu. Kuwona mtima - zomwe ziyenera kupezekapo pakati pa anthu, kuphatikiza chikondi kapena ubwenzi. Pakapita nthawi, bodza lidzaona, ngakhale izi sizichitika, chiopsezo chachikulu. Chinsinsi chonse chidzakhala nsagwada, mnzake wonyengedwa adzamva kuwawa, ndikukhala woperekedwa. Ngati mungazindikire kuti mwamunayo amakonda mabodza ambiri, mwina amangofunika thandizo ndi thandizo lanu, komanso mabodza akale, kuvulala kwa ana, kusakhudzidwa kapena kulangidwa kapena kulangidwa. Mwina ndili mwana, amayenera kukhala wovomerezeka.
Zabodza zimatha kuwononga ubale uliwonse
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Mgwirizano
Kumbukirani kuti tinali ting'ono, ana ena ogwirizana ku Mgwirizano ndipo anayamba kucheza ndi anthu ena. Chifukwa chake, amene sangagwirizane ndi wokondedwa wawo kapena kungowonetsa kumvetsetsa kwathunthu ndi ulemu, kumayamba kuyang'ana thandizo pakati pa ena. Mwamuna akhoza kuyamba kufunafuna anthu ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi. Zimachitika kuti zimayamba kuukira nthawi zonse, ndipo omenyera mwankhanza amathira nsembe ponena za malita, ndipo wozunzidwayo, pakadali pano akuyang'ana thandizo. Pakadali pano, ndikofunikira kudziteteza, komanso kuganizira za gawo logwedezeka, munthu akakumenyani ndi m'modzi wa abale ake. Munthu wapamtima, makamaka munthu, akuyenera kukupatsirani thandizo, muyenera kukhala otetezeka ndikubwera kwa iye, kuti mukhale muvuto. Chifukwa chotere cha munthu amakhala osatsimikiza mwa iwo okha, kachiwiri, chitsanzo chachikulu chidzakhala ana ang'ono ndi achinyamata omwe nthawi zambiri amauza makolo zochita za anzawo ndipo anzawo amawoneka bwino m'maso mwawo ndi abambo.
Kubera ndi banja, abwenzi ndi ndalama
Mwanjira iliyonse, pali kupukusa mu umodzi kapena mawonekedwe ena, ndizovuta kwambiri kuchita popanda iwo. Sizinali zowawa nthawi zonse ngati anthu sakuyesa kusintha zinthu zazikulu pamene kupusitsa kwenikweni kumapangitsa kuti pakhale chiwopsezo. Maanja ndi okwatirana omwe ali nthawi yayitali, ubale wapamtima nthawi zambiri umachokera ku mkangano ndi cholinga. Kuchita opaleshoni yovuta komanso mkangano kumabweretsa chisangalalo chomatira ndi chidwi ndi magawo ake, ngakhale kupezeka. Nthawi zambiri ichi ndi cholembera komwe mkazi amayamba kulira, kutola zinthu, kapena kukuwa ndi masamba - zinthu zonsezi ndi zovuta. Kuperekedwa kumatha kuonedwa kuti ndi nkhanza. Mwachitsanzo, pokana kumvera zofuna zake, bambo amagwiritsa ntchito anzawo kapena abale ngati okakamira. Pali zinthu zomwe, motsimikizika sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito motsutsana.
Zinsinsi zambiri
Izi zimachitika kuti muphunzira nkhani zofunika kwambiri, njira imodzi yomwe imalumikizana ndi mwamuna wake, ndikufunsa funso la chifukwa chomwe chifukwa chake sanakuuzeni chilichonse chokhudza nkhaniyi? Zinsinsi zili bwino, ali ndi munthu aliyense. Zomwe mumamuuza bwenzi, simudzamuuza mwamuna wake kapena wachinyamata. Pali kusiyana pakati pa kukayikira kutsegula (koti tingalankhule ndi chikondi chotani?) Ndipo kunyoza zochitika zomwe zilipo. Kumbukirani za kukhulupirika monga maziko a mogwirizana m'banja.