"Kuv muaj ob tug tub, thiab lawv txawv kiag li. Dab tsi yog tus me nyuam ywj pheej, Kuv pom muaj nrog ob zaug, thaum kuv nkag siab thiab kho yuam kev hauv cov upbringing.
Thaum thawj tus menyuam yug los, Kuv tau sim ua txhua yam kuv tus kheej: Pub, taug kev, huv huv Nws. Yog li nws tau nrawm dua, yooj yim dua, kev nyab xeeb dua. Tam sim no nws muaj 9 xyoos, thiab kuv nkag siab tias tej yam uas tus menyuam tuaj yeem ua nws tus kheej, nws yuav tsum ua nws tus kheej. Txwv tsis pub, tus menyuam tau siv rau lwm tus yuav ua rau nws. Lawv pub, ua kom sov kom noj, ua haujlwm rau lub rooj, pab hnav khaub ncaws, sau nws cov khoom. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob ua tiav. Kev tswj tau ntau dhau ntawm tus menyuam ua thaum nws xav pab, piv txwv, tsis zoo rau nws txoj kev nyab xeeb, cuam tshuam rau cov neeg laus pab tau lwm tus neeg laus. Nws yog qhov zoo dua nyob rau kev kawm thiab txhawb dua yav tom ntej los siv tag nrho koj lub sijhawm los kho cov teebmeem ntawm cov kev kawm no.
Thaum tus menyuam thib ob yug, peb tau muaj kev paub ntau dua cov niam txiv, tsis txhob ua tej yam tsis raug.
Nov yog ib tug menyuam sib txawv kiag li, uas nyob hauv nws 4 xyoos tuaj yeem noj, tshem tawm cov khoom, tshem tawm thiab sawv thiab tsa thiab sawv kuv. Koj yuav tsum tsis txawm nco nws kom ntxuav kuv cov hniav - nws tus kheej nco nws thiab ua. Nws ywj pheej ntxuav nws lub kua, tsis hnov cov kab lus los ntawm kuv: "Koj tsis tuaj yeem, koj yuav ua nws." Kuv sim ua kom nws nco qab tias nws tau ceev faj, thiab pab nws ua kom tau txais. Tib yam siv rau cov nqi thaum sawv ntxov hauv qib pib. Nws yog qhov tseem nyuaj rau kuv rov tsim dua thiab tsis hnav nws, vim tias nws nyiam hnav nws sai dua, thiab tsis tos kom txog thaum nws ua nws tus kheej.
Irina Hakobyan
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Txhua leej niam kuv qhia koj tham nrog tus me nyuam, piav txog txhua yam thiab qhia koj, teem sijhawm ntxiv thaum sawv ntxov, muab sijhawm rau nws hnav ris tsho hauv qib pib. Thaum kuv khaws nws tawm ntawm qib pib, tom qab ntawd txhua yam yog ua tiav rau koj tus kheej - nws tau hnav nws tus kheej, nws hloov mus zoo nrog nws, suav nrog nws cov paib zoo kawg nkaus.
Ib qho piv txwv ntawm kuv thaum yau: Kuv nyiam tawm mus, kuv pog tau muaj lub tsev loj loj, Kuv tau khib kuv - Kuv tuaj yeem so kom huv ib hnub ib hnub. Tab sis ib zaug kuv tau hais txog kom kuv tau nres mus so cov hmoov av yog li feem ntau thiab tau tawm, vim nws tsis yog lawm. Txij thaum ntawd los, Kuv tau tsis tseg kom tau txais cov teg num, thiab kuv tau poob siab huv. Tias, nws yuav zoo li, ib qho lus tsis zoo tuaj yeem tawm ntawm cov luam tawm rau lub neej. Yog li ntawd, ua ntej txwv tsis pub muaj qee tus menyuam, nws tsim nyog xav ua li cas nws tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau nws.
Yog tias peb xav kom tus menyuam muaj kev ywj pheej, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai kawm, muab ib qho piv txwv, pab nws ua ntej thiab mob siab ua tsis tau nws rau nws. Txwv tsis pub, ua ke nrog tus menyuam, peb tseem yuav dhau qhov kev xeem, thiab tau mus ua haujlwm. Tam sim no muaj lub ntsiab lus zoo rau xws li cov qauv ntawm upbringing - "alarming niam txiv". Hmoov tsis zoo, cov menyuam tau tsa los ntawm niam txiv "tabkaum cov niam txiv" yooj yim los txiav txim siab hauv cov neeg laus. Lawv muaj kev xav ntau, txhais tsis yog, tub nkeeg. Yog li cov me nyuam nyob rau yav tom ntej nyuaj heev hauv lub neej. Koj yuav tsum tau sim ntseeg koj tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau, piav qhia, kev kawm ua tsis tau zoo, ua qhov kev xaiv ywj pheej thiab kev ua. "