Cov laj thawj vim li cas tus menyuam tsis muaj sijhawm nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv muaj peev xwm ua tau ntau. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab lawv thiab ntsuas kev ntsuas kom koj tus menyuam nyiam kom kawm tau zoo dua.
ib tug. Qib tsis txaus ntawm cov kev paub yooj yim. Tus menyuam yuav tsum poob qab qee yam kev kawm, thiab cov laus dua ua, cov teeb meem ntau ntxiv nrog nws txoj kev kawm tshwm sim. Nws yog ib qho yooj yim los daws cov lus nug no: Yog koj nkag siab tias qee qhov kev qhuab qhia, koj tuaj yeem tso tawm qhov xwm txheej, koj tuaj yeem tso tawm cov xeeb ntxwv, koj tuaj yeem tso tawm cov xeeb ntxwv, koj tuaj yeem tso tawm cov xeeb ntxwv, koj tuaj yeem tso koj tus menyuam tsis yog "lossis ntawm qhov tsis sib haum xeeb" lossis ntiav Ib tus kws qhia, uas nws yuav pab ntes cov tails thiab yav tom ntej kom tau txais cov ntsiab lus uas koj tus menyuam tseem ceeb heev.
2. Tus menyuam trite tsis xav kawm. Tus menyuam loj dua ua, muaj kev nkag siab zoo uas ntau yam khoom yuav tsis muaj txiaj ntsig rau nws hauv lub neej no. Thiab nws raug nug cov lus nug, lawv hais tias, Vim li cas nws txhua? Yuav ua li cas nws tuaj yeem ua ke hauv lub neej cov kev paub nws tau txais tom tsev kawm ntawv, vim nws ntse heev! Hauv qhov no, koj tuaj yeem tsom mus rau koj cov ntaub ntawv xaiv thiab, kom muab tso rau cov mob me, kom tau qhab nia "rau qhov tseeb tias nws tsis txaus siab.
3. Tus menyuam yog dhuav. Tau kawg, saib TV TV thiab zaum hauv cov gadget yog ntau tshaj plaws qhia thiab kev lom zem dua li kev mus xyuas tsev kawm ntawv. Sim xaiv cov lus uas txhawb koj cov kwv tij kom tau txais kev paub. Yog lawm, nws yog qhov nthuav kom siv sijhawm nyob hauv Is Taws Nem, tab sis, hmoov tsis zoo, cov neeg laus yuav tsum tau them rau Is Taws Nem thiab lwm yam haujlwm nyiam. Thiab ntawm qhov teeb meem no, kev kawm ntawv yog ua haujlwm tseem ceeb. Yog tias tus menyuam tsis muaj sijhawm, nws siv sijhawm ntau dhau los hauv lub cuab yeej siv, koj yuav tsum txwv cov phiaj xwm tshwj xeeb uas nws mus ntsib thiab, ntawm chav kawm hom. Thaum kawg, cov niam txiv ntawm no koj, nws txhais tau tias koj kuj nruab cov kev cai ntawm kev pab thiab.
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Nias cov ntaub ntawv pabcuam
Thawj txoj kev hlub kuj tseem tuaj yeem yog qhov laj thawj rau kev ua tsis tiav. Tsis muaj ib tus neeg muaj pov hwm kev ua tsis tiav hauv kev hlub, tshwj xeeb yog thaum yau. Tab sis nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tau xa mus rau thawj lub siab nyiam ntawm koj tus menyuam nrog kev hwm thiab nkag siab. Thiab yog tias tus menyuam tau qhib, nco ntsoov txhawb nws txoj lus thiab ua haujlwm.
Ib qho kev poob qis hauv kev kawm tau tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog pubertat. Lub hnub nyoog hluas - lub sijhawm hloov, thiab lawv tsis yog ib txwm nrog "Plus" kos npe. Cov menyuam yaus muaj ib pawg ntawm cov txheej txheem hais txog lawv cov tsos ntawm lub hnub nyoog no: ib tug neeg tau rov qab, ib tug neeg tau cog lus rau lub caij ntuj sov, thiab ib tug neeg tseem nrog xoom loj. Tsis txhob cia cov tub hluas no ua rau cov menyuam yaus sib txuas lus, sib tham, rau qee qhov chaw zoo nkauj tau nce qib uas cov tub ntxhais hluas cov tub ntxhais hluas nyob deb. Tham nrog cov ncauj lus ntawm cov tsos, kom tus menyuam, pab thiab npaj siab rau nws cov rog. Nco ntsoov tias txoj kev kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv, kev npaj rau kev xeem txhua xyoo, kev zwm rau thiab hais txog kev ntxhov siab rau ib tug menyuam. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov tsis tsim nyog tsis tsim nyog siv nws nrog nws cov kev paub txog txoj hmoo ntawm txoj hmoo. Tsis tas yuav thawb qhov teeb meem - los tham txog txoj haujlwm ntawm Janitor thiab Feneness uas lawv yuav tsis tuaj nyob txhua qhov chaw, lawv yuav tsum muab ib tug ntoo khaub lig rau lawv lub neej. Tsis tas yuav! Koj tseem xav txog qee yam. Hauv qhov xwm txheej ntxhov siab, ib tug tub hluas yuav tsum tsis txhob koom thiab npaj, tab sis kuj tau txais qee yam kev tawm tsam: uas yog so kom txaus, muaj kev ua si, muaj haujlwm yam koj nyiam.
Tus menyuam tsiv mus kawm ntawv tshiab. Nws yog qhov txaus ntshai heev - yuav luag lub neej tshiab pib, thiab, ntawm chav kawm, tus me nyuam qee zaum xav zais ntawm txhua yam. Ntawm chav kawm, thawj yam uas yuav tsis ncaj. Yuav ua li cas? Txhawb koj tus menyuam nyob rau hauv ib lo lus thiab rooj plaub. Nco ntsoov tias ib tus neeg, tshwj xeeb yog tus menyuam, xav tau sijhawm los siv rau qhov chaw tshiab thiab ncaj koj tis. Koj txoj haujlwm yooj yim - los muab cov kev kawm ntau tshaj plaws rau kev tshawb fawb muaj kev kawm zoo, tab sis kuj tseem muaj peev xwm pov npav nrog nws tus xaiv ntawm txoj haujlwm. Yog koj paub tias tus menyuam "ib co neeg" qee yam uas yuav tsum tau ua li cas los xij, xav txog cov chav kawm thiab qhia ntxiv. Qhov no yog kev pab ntau dua ntau dua li kev ntxuav caj dab thiab kev piav qhia, vim li cas xav kawm.
Qhov loj tshaj plaws, Tsis txhob yuam tus me nyuam kawm, vim tias kev ua phem yog txoj kev phem rau cov menyuam yaus Cov. Tib neeg qhov yog li ntawd tau npaj tias txhua yam uas raug yuam yog qhov tsis zoo thiab tom qab ntawd tsis lees txais los ntawm lub cev. Tsuas yog qhov kev xav ntawm ib yam dab tsi tsis zoo. Zoo dua muab tus menyuam thaum pib kev nkag siab uas tom tsev kawm ntawv nws xav tau ib yam dab tsi los qhia rau koj, thiab tsis zoo - qhov no yog nws tus kheej tsis raug , Tsis txhob ua rau kuv cov haujlwm hauv tsev, kawm paub txog koj qhov kev ua thiab kawm, tiv thaiv nws thaum muaj cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv rau nws. Tus me nyuam xav tau koj txoj kev nkag siab, kev hlub thiab kev txhawb nqa, thiab tsis yog koj cov lus ceeb txhua hnub txhua lub sijhawm. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis tsim nyog ua kom kawm. Thiab nrhiav ib qho kev nyiam ua nrog nws: kev kawm, thiab peb tau xaiv txoj kev ntawm lub neej vim qhov peb nyiam.