Zoo li cov neeg laus, cov menyuam yaus kuj tau tawm tsam nrog kev ntxhov siab. Ntau cov lus cog lus tseg, kev tsis sib haum xeeb hauv tsev neeg thiab cov teeb meem ntawm cov neeg - tag nrho cov no yog kev ntxhov siab uas tau tswj tus cwj pwm zoo ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Ntawm chav kawm, "qee qhov kev ntxhov siab yog ib txwm muaj," hais tias yog tus kheej lub hlwb lysning lionncentral cov khoom siv. Raws li nws, muaj kev ntxhov siab los ntawm kev kawm pib ntawm tsev kawm lossis xeem dhau qhov kev xeem tseem ceeb yog qhov qub. Tus kws nplaj siab yuav tsum pab cov menyuam kom paub cov teeb meem, kev paub tias yog menyuam yaus thiab "tsis muaj kev ua". "Yog koj tsis qhia [koj cov menyuam] nrog kev ntxhov siab, lawv yuav koom nrog cov tshuaj kho nws tus kheej nrog zaub mov noj, tshuaj noj cawv." Hauv lwm lo lus, cov menyuam yuav sib zog rau qee yam uas yuav ua rau lawv zoo dua qub, thiab feem ntau nws yuav yog ib txoj hauv kev tsis zoo, nws tau hais. Ntawm no yog yuav ua li cas koj tuaj yeem pab koj cov me nyuam kom tiav nrog kev ntxhov siab:
Tsis txhob caum ob txoj hlua
Ib qho kev ntxhov siab loj tshaj plaws rau cov menyuam tau teem sijhawm. Cov niam txiv xav tias cov menyuam kawm nyob tom tsev kawm ntawv tau xya teev, kom ua tiav hauv tsev kawm ntawv kawm tiav ntxiv, los tom tsev, ua txhua yam ua txhua yam. Thiab tseem ntxiv cov mugs ntawm kev kos duab thiab seev cev, cov tshooj sib tw, cov lus sib tw, cov lus no koj nyiam cov sijhawm no rau tus menyuam? Raws li kev kho mob hlwb hais tias: "Lub sijhawm so nyob qhov twg?" Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau ua si khoos phis tawm, dag rau ntawm lub rooj zaum nrog paj kws thiab saib taug kev nrog cov phooj ywg - txhua qhov no pab lawv hloov thiab muab lub hlwb kom txaus. Los ntawm qhov tseeb tias koj txo tus naj npawb ntawm cov chav kawm, kev vam meej ntawm tus menyuam hauv kev kawm yuav tsis muaj assimate lub hlwb yog xav txog nws.
Tus menyuam yuav tsum so kom txaus
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Siv sijhawm rau kev ua si
Tus kws kho hlwb sau tias nws yog qhov tsim nyog los txo cov kev ua si sib tw - thiab tsis yeej thaum koj pom tias tus menyuam nkees lossis ntxhov siab. Kev ntxhov siab nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm kev sib tw nrog cov neeg hauv tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem ua rau nws lub siab tsis zoo, tshwj xeeb yog nws tau npaj ua tsis tiav. Ua ke cov kev ua si nrog kev tawm dag zog lub cev uas tseem ceeb rau kev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus menyuam. Qee cov tswv yim: Caij tsheb kauj vab, ntaus pob, mus tua neeg.
Npau suav ua ntej
Tus mob caj dab txawm tias txoj kev npau suav yog qhov tseem ceeb rau txhua yam: los ntawm kev ntxhov siab kom txhim kho txoj kev xav thiab kev tshawb fawb ntxiv hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Tus me nyuam tsis tsim nyog yuav yog kev chim siab, apathetic thiab rele ob leeg nrog koj thiab nrog lwm tus. Tsis paub txog cov laj thawj, lawv tuaj yeem teb nrog cov tshuaj tiv thaiv tsis zoo, uas yuav ua rau cov lus hauv nws qhov chaw nyob lossis txawm tias kev sib cav. Tsim cov huab cua hauv chav me nyuam chav, uas yuav tau so nyob rau yav tsaus ntuj: tsis muaj TV thiab lub khw muag khoom noj thiab lwm yam. Qhia koj cov menyuam kom nkag siab txog kev ntxhov siab ntawm kev ntxhov siab - koj tuaj yeem muab piv txwv nrog roj thiab nres hauv lub tsheb. Maj mam, lawv yuav pib paub thaum lawv npaj txhij ua haujlwm, thiab thaum lawv xav tau so kom txaus.
Tsis txhob nco xws li cov kab ke zoo li zaub mov noj
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Tswj koj tus kheej kev ntxhov siab
"Kev ntxhov siab yog kis tau tiag tiag," hais lus dev tus kheej. Thaum cov niam txiv muaj kev ntxhov siab, cov menyuam yaus kuj tau muaj kev ntxhov siab. " Qhia koj tus yam ntxwv, thaum koj daws kev ntxhov siab. Piv txwv li, thaum sawv ntxov, thaum koj sawv hauv lub siab phem, koj ua ib qho qab noj qab, tig mus ua suab paj nruag cuam tshuam thiab khawm ib qho. Thiab nyob rau yav tsaus ntuj, mus rau kev cob qhia kev cob qhia, thiab tom qab ntawd sov hauv da dej - dab tsi tsis yog lwm txoj kev tsis sib haum xeeb? Nyob rau hauv dav dav, tus kws kho paj hlwb muab cov niam txiv mus saib daim duab tag nrho. "Koj tsis tuaj yeem nyob hauv kev ntxhov siab koj tus kheej, thiab tom qab qhia cov menyuam nrog kev ntxhov siab," hais tias lyons. Yog li pab ua ntej kuv tus kheej, thiab tom qab neeg nyob ze.