Lub tswv yim los ua ib tug menyuam qhia tias nws tsis yog ntshav, tsim txom ntau tus niam txiv saws. Ib qho kev ntshai tseem ceeb - Nws yuav hnov los ntawm MIAM thiab txiv, uas tsis yog neeg ua, thiab nws yuav raug mob rau nws. Kuv puas yuav tsum tau zais cov lus zais zais? Yog tias peb qhia qhov tseeb, yuav ua li cas?
Nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom nyob ntsiag to
Vim li cas cov lus dab neeg saws me nyuam feem ntau ntsiag to? Vim tias muaj cov qauv tsis ncaj ncees. Hais tias nws tau "txawb, nws tsis xav tau leej twg." Hais tias nws yog "tawm ntawm tsev neeg tsis zoo, thiab yog li nws tus kheej tsis zoo, quaj." Yuav ua li cas ua phem rau cov lus zoo li no "cov neeg zoo"! Cov neeg txaus ntshai yuav ua rau muaj kev phem dab tsi!
Kuv ib txwm mus tom ntej. Thiab qhov no yog kuv cov lus qhia tseem ceeb.
Kuv nyob ntawm no los tiv thaiv lawv.
Kuv nyob ntawm no los ua kom cov khoom tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas peb muaj tom qab kev hlub - unconditional kev ntseeg siab.
Kuv nyob ntawm no kom lawv paub tias lub cev muaj zog nyob tom qab lawv.
Kuv nyob ntawm no kom paub tias koj tau hlub thiab xav tau.
Kuv nyob ntawm no los tham. Los qhia qhov tseeb.
Qhov kev sib tham nyuaj no tuaj yeem tsim tau, cia siab rau cov hauv paus ntsiab lus hauv qab no uas kuv faib rau kuv tus kheej hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog kuv cov menyuam.
Valentina Krasnikova yog ib leej niam ntawm 17 cov menyuam, 14 ntawm kev txais tos
1. Qhia peb txog koj lub rooj sib tham, raws li hais txog qhov kev tshwm sim zoo tshaj plaws
Tau txais ib tug menyuam yaus los ntawm cov neeg Filixatee saib cov menyuam saws tug saws, raws li hais txog cov menyuam muaj txoj hmoov nyuaj. Cia nws xav dab tsi zoo kawg li kev zoo siab thiab hmoov uas koj tau ntsib nws. Raws li tos, Kuv tau nrhiav thiab pom. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau nws hnov txog koj yuav hlub nws thaum peb pom thawj zaug. Tias tus me nyuam yeej tsis lees txais ib tug neeg, tab sis, ntawm qhov tsis tooj, nws yog qhov ntev tshaj plaws rau koj. Muaj ib hnub lub sijhawm los txog thaum tus menyuam nkag siab tias cov duab nws yog tus menyuam, tsis muaj. Uas lub npe menyuam yaus thiab patronymic ntawm lwm tus. Cov lus nug "Kuv tuaj li cas los?" Nws yuav tshwm sim hauv kev sib tham ntau zuj zus. Txij ntawm no kuv qhia tus me nyuam nws zaj dab neeg nrog cov lus tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas kuv paub. Kuv hais tej yam zoo li no: "ntxhais, nco ntsoov, kuv tau hais rau koj? Peb pom koj thaum koj twb nyob hauv-los ntawm loj heev, thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd kuv tau los ua koj niam! Kuv hlub koj heev thiab tsis txhob muab koj ib leeg! Koj yog kuv tus menyuam! " Kuv rov hais zaj dab neeg no ntau zaus kom txhua tus, tshwj xeeb yog cov menyuam, tuaj yeem xav tias lub sijhawm ntawm lub sijhawm no. Lawv feem ntau tsis nco qab, yog li kuv rov ua peb cov dab neeg dua thiab rov ua dua, muab tag nrho kuv txoj kev hlub hauv lawv.
Lwm qhov piv txwv ntawm keeb kwm zoo qhia kuv tus tub ntxhais kawm: "Fucking tus ntxhais loj dua hauv kev yug me nyuam. Tam sim no nws yog yuav luag 4 xyoos. Tsis txhob npaj mus nkaum kuv tus txiv. Feem ntau peb mus rau cov kws kho mob, ntsig txog cov lus nug ntawm noob caj noob ces thiab cev xeeb tub nrog kev yug menyuam hauv nws rooj sib hais. Kaw nws lub pob ntseg thiab chaw so. Yug tus kwv tij yau. Muaj ib qho laj thawj rau kev sib tham uas cov menyuam yaus tau coj los ntawm. Nws tau pib nug txog cov plab thiab lwm yam. Tom qab ntawd kuv maj mam, maj mam muab, nrog kev hlub piav tias tsis muaj, nws tsis yog los ntawm kuv lub plab, tab sis los ntawm lub ntsej muag lwm tus phauj. Thiab nws qhib nws lwm yam tsis pub lwm tus paub, "tab sis kuv kuj tsis yug papu, tab sis peb hlub nws nrog koj. Koj pom, tsis tas yuav yug ib tug neeg hlub! Thiab kuv txiv kuv xav kom peb muaj raws nraim li koj, tus hluas nkauj tshaj plaws, peb hlub koj heev! "Thaum kuv paub tias nws yuav rov nug dua. Peb nyob sab hauv npaj. Tham nrog pog yawg txog dab tsi thiab yuav hais li cas thaum tus ntxhais pib nug lawv. "
Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog kom nyob hauv sab hauv thiab paub tseeb. Npaj txhij, tsis them los ntawm kev xav tsis thoob. Tsim koj tsev neeg zaj dab neeg zoo txog lub rooj sib tham ua ntej thiab rov ua nws rau me nyuam yaus dua.
2. Qhib rau ntawm cov niam txiv txheeb
Tsis ntev dhau los no, tus me nyuam yuav twv yuav raug hu txog nws cov niam txiv lom. Tau kawg, koj yuav pom thawj zaug nws nyuaj rau kev txaus siab rau cov neeg no thiab vim li cas tsis muaj lawv ntxiv. Yog tus me nyuam poob rau hauv tsev neeg twb muaj hnub nyoog paub txog, nws nco qab txhua yam zoo. Feem ntau nws yuav tsum tau hais tawm, kom tshem tau cov kev mob thiab kev ntshai thiab kev ntshai thiab kev ntshai thiab kev ntshai. Qhov loj tshaj plaws tsis yog cuam tshuam nrog nws kom tsis txhob txwv. Txij ntawm no, nws xav tau koj txoj kev txhawb nqa, suav nrog rau kom ntseeg tau tias qhov no tsis yog nws qhov txhaum xwb lub neej tau tshwm sim. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau kuv rau kev qhia rau txhua tus menyuam yaus - kev txom nyem caj dab tuag tsis muaj nyob, cov no yog txhua lo lus. Txhua tus muaj kev xaiv! Peb tau pom ib leeg, peb ua ke, thiab yog li ntawd nrog koj tsis muaj dab tsi phem yuav tshwm sim, txawm tias txhua yam uas tau "ua ntej." Thaum tus menyuam loj tuaj, nws tseem yuav xav nrhiav, piv, coj koj tus kheej kev daws teeb meem. Tab sis yog tias koj muaj txhua yam tiag tiag, yog tias koj ntseeg ib leeg yog tias koj nyiam qhov tseeb, nws yuav tsis muaj lub ntsiab lus hauv koj txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog nws.
"Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau kuv rau kev qhia rau txhua tus menyuam - tsis muaj caj dab caj dab."
3. Txhua tus - tshwj xeeb
Txawm hais tias tus menyuam tau kawm txog kev saws los ntawm koj, feem ntau cov ntaub ntawv no dhau los ua lub tshuab rau nws tus kheej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev kom tau tas li rau kev tu siab ntawm tus me nyuam txog qhov tseeb tias nws tau coj qee yam tshwj xeeb rau tsev neeg. Nrog nws, cov niam txiv thiab tag nrho tsev neeg tau rais los ua kom muaj kev nplua nuj, nyiam dua thiab ntse dua. Txhua yam tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog dab tsi nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb, vim li cas kuv hlub thiab dab tsi yog qhov koj xav tau - hauv koj tsev neeg. Koj yog tus zoo qhia cov dab neeg lom zem txaus luag, Andryususub kos kom zoo, natasha yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws tuaj yeem nplig txhua yam! Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau paub txog txhua tus me nyuam seb hom kev txawj tshwj xeeb nws muaj. Thiab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom hnov cov kabke los ntawm cov niam txiv no. Ib zaug ntxiv.
Cov lus zais ntawm kev saws los yog saws me nyuam nyob hauv zej zog yog tsis yooj yim sua.
Qhov kev ua yuam kev tshaj plaws peb tuaj yeem lees lub sijhawm uas tus me nyuam yuav nrhiav qhov tseeb ntawm nws tus ntsuj plig uas niam txiv dag rau nws. Thiab tom qab ntawd tus menyuam thiab kev poob siab tam sim no thiab kev poob siab, thiab cov niam txiv yog ib qho kev thuam thiab tsis ntseeg siab rau nws lub neej rau lub neej. Kev kho siab thiab kev nkag siab ntawm kev ntxeev siab. Cov lus nug Vim li cas koj thiaj li ntsiag to yog tias tsis muaj ib yam tsis zoo hauv kev me nyuam?
Nyob zoo cov niam txiv, npaj rau qhov tseeb tias cov kev tawm tsam rau cov xov xwm ntawm kev saws me nyuam tuaj yeem ua tsis tau. Tab sis, undoubtedly, qhov tseeb, tau hais cov lus zoo thiab muaj txoj sia nyob ntawm kev xav tau kev dag ntxias ntawm qhov ze tshaj plaws, Kuv paub tseeb tias koj. Thiab ib zaug, ua ib tus neeg laus, koj tus menyuam yuav hais tias: "Niam thiab txiv, ua tsaug rau kev ua siab ncaj. Ua tsaug rau koj ua dab tsi rau kuv. Kuv hlub koj! "