"Kuv tuaj yeem hais lus ntawm cov ncauj lus no tau ntev heev, thiab kuv tsis tuaj yeem tsuas yog tsib yam ua haujlwm. Muaj ntau ntau ntawm lawv. Tej zaum lub ntsiab ntawm txhua yam pib, qhov kev ntshaw no yuav tsum yog txiv. Yog nws tus neeg tsis muaj, ces kuv xav, thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob pib cov menyuam. Yog li koj tsis tau npaj rau qhov no, thiab tej zaum nws tsuas yog tsis yog koj lub hom phiaj hauv lub neej. Qhov no yog qhov qub vim peb txhua tus sib txawv. Piv txwv li, Kuv hlub kuv cov menyuam ntau heev, tom qab kev yug tus tub thiab lawv tau muaj lub neej rau kuv. Peb xav tau cov me nyuam ntxiv.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom muaj kev hlub, nkag siab, txaus siab, txaus siab rau thiab tsis ntxeev siab, tsis txhob ua txhaum cov menyuam yaus. Cov menyuam yaus yog kev zoo siab. Thiab koj yuav tsum ua txiv, ib tug qauv zoo. Thiab tom qab ntawd txhua yam yog yooj yim heev. Leej txiv uas haus dej haus tas li, tsuas yog zaum ntawm lub rooj zaum thiab qw nrov nrov rau menyuam yaus, vim tias kev ncaws pob tsis tau hnov zoo. Hmoov tsis zoo, muaj ntau cov piv txwv zoo li no, tshwj xeeb yog cov menyuam yaus uas tau tshwm sim hauv xyoo 1990-2000 xyoo. Tab sis nws yog qhov zoo heev uas tam sim no lub ntiaj teb yog qeeb heev, tab sis hloov kho kom raug. Kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev neeg thiab txoj kev mus rau upbringing yog nce zuj zus.
Ib leej txiv zoo siv sijhawm ntau nrog menyuam yaus, nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, muaj pes tsawg ntawm tau. Nws qhia ib qho piv txwv rau Nws cov me nyuam, ib tug txivneej ntawd yog nws li cas. Rau ib tug tub, qhov no yog tus qauv ntawm tus txiv neej, nws tus cwj pwm. Thiab rau kuv tus ntxhais, koj qhia dab tsi ib tug txiv neej yuav tsum yog, nws tau xaiv ib tug txiv neej los sib luag rau nws txiv. Nws tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus cwj pwm rau tus txij nkawm, muaj tus cwj pwm tib yam rau cov menyuam yaus yav tom ntej: txhua txoj kev, nws ua phooj ywg, yog nws txoj kev sib yuav. Nrog cov sijhawm no, txiv thiab nws yuav tsum qhia nws tus kheej. Yog tias tus txiv neej yog, piv txwv li, txawm li ntawd, tom qab ntawd nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm cov menyuam yaus nws yuav nyob ib tug tub. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tig nws tawm thiab tsis saib xyuas. Tab sis yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem ua qee yam, koj xav tias koj tsis ncaj ncees lawm, qhov tseem ceeb yog kom lees nws, thiab tsis txhob khawb rau hauv koj tus kheej. Ib zaug ntxiv, koj yog ib tsev neeg, thiab koj tuaj yeem daws teeb meem nrog koj tus khub. Kev Pab Sib Koom thiab Kev Sib Koom Tes hauv tsev neeg, kev sib koom tes daws teeb meem thiab kev coj ua ib leeg - qhov no yuav tsum ua nrog lwm tus neeg hauv zej zog.
Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj rooj plaub uas tsis ua txhaum menyuam. Koj yuav tsum muaj kev hlub thiab tu, txaus siab rau lawv. Tsis txhob ntshai qhia cov menyuam tsis muaj zog hauv kev hlub rau lawv thiab tsis clinging daim ntawv lo "Kuv yog txiv neej." Txhua tus neeg pom lub siab, thiab qhov no yog qhov qub. Txhua tus tuaj yeem hais tias lawv tsis nyiam qee yam thiab qee yam tsis xis nyob, thiab qhov no kuj yog ib txwm muaj. Txhua yam no yuav pab kom koj zoo, muaj peev xwm thiab nkag siab koj tus kheej thiab lwm tus menyuam, thiab qhov no tseem ceeb heev. Zoo, feem ntau tseem ceeb - tsis txhob hnov qab tias txhua yam pib nrog koj. Ua haujlwm ua ntej tshaj koj tus kheej, dhau koj cov kev ua yuam kev thiab teeb meem, tsis txhob ntshai lees lawv. Thiab ib yam li cov menyuam yaus, lawv muaj kev zoo siab thiab qhov zoo tshaj plaws hauv ntiaj teb. "