Tom qab ntawd nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas sim ua kom saib qhov xwm txheej ntawm ib feem, lub hlwb sib cais koj tus kheej ntawm koj cov kev paub. Tsis tas yuav tsis quav ntsej thiab thuam koj txoj kev xav, tab sis nws yuav tsum tsis txhob ua raws li lawv mloog lawv. Noj txoj haujlwm sab nraud ntawm qhov xwm txheej, nws yuav yooj yim dua kom nkag siab qhov koj xav tau los ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Koj tuaj yeem sim xav txog tias kev sib raug zoo dhau lawm, thiab muaj sia nyob qhov mob no. Kev siv yuav nco tau cov hom phiaj uas koj tau tawm ntawm kev sib yuav, uas coj kev zoo siab tsis hais tus khub, thiab xav tau yog tias koj tuaj yeem nyob tau kev sib raug zoo no. Kev paub tseeb tias koj tsis tawg, tuaj yeem dhau los ua kev txhawb nqa kev loj rau kev rov kho koj lub koomhaum pab neeg. Kuv xav kom qhia txog tias peb tsis tau tham txog txoj hauj lwm qhia "tsis xav tau kuv," uas tiag implies "vernelics kuv."
Thiab thaum kawg, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws (ua ntej ntawd nws yog npaj) yog los ua kev qhib kev sib tham nrog nws tus khub. Sib tham txog yam uas feem ntau tshwm sim hauv kev sib yuav, uas tau hloov mus ib ntus, koj tab tom muaj dab tsi tshwm sim, raws li koj pom qhov tshwm sim ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, sim hais kom qhib siab, zam cov neeg vwm thiab kev iab liam, lawv yuav ua rau tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej thiab yuav tsis pab daws cov teeb meem.
Tseem xav tau ceeb toom rau yam koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ua:
- Tshawb nrhiav kev txhawb nqa los ntawm tus khub. Nws yuav tsis muaj peev xwm muab nws rau koj, vim nws tus kheej yog litter nrog kev sib cav sib ceg;
- Tseem pheej taug qab qhov twg koj tus txiv / tus txiv neej hluas yog thiab dab tsi. Thiab tseem nquag nug seb nws xav li cas. Qhov no yuav ua rau cov nyhuv rov qab, raws li kev sib raug zoo yuav raug pom zoo li lub nra nos;
- Sib tham txog qhov kev sib tham ntawm kev sib tham txog kev ua siab dawb paug - qhov twg, thaum, lawv yuav nco tau ntev npaum li cas, lawv nyuaj heev rau lawv tsis nco qab, thiab ntau xyoo lawv yuav ua rau koj mob siab rau.
Yog lawm, cov lus teb rau cov lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas tam sim no?" tsis muaj nyob. Tab sis, tau ua tiav ib txoj haujlwm zoo sib xws rau nws, los teb nws tus kheej thiab txiav txim siab yuav yooj yim dua.
Cov khub txij nkawm sib txawv sib tshuam sib txawv rau kev ua siab dawb paug. Ib tug neeg yooj yim kom muaj sia nyob nws, ib tus neeg nyuaj dua. Raws li kuv twb tau sau ua ib ntawm cov lus dhau los, kev kub ntxhov tuaj yeem raug tsoo rau kev sib raug zoo, thiab tej zaum yog rau kev txhim kho. Hauv cov ntsiab lus no, qhov thib ob nyob ntawm yuav ua li cas cov neeg txuas xov tau yuav muaj peev xwm sib tham txog kev sib raug zoo, kom zoo rau lawv tus kheej hauv cov xwm txheej no.