Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau hais tias muaj pes tsawg tus hluas nkauj sib tsoo tsoo npau suav ntawm tus txiv neej zoo, tab sis tsim nyog cov neeg txom nyem thiab lub sijhawm tau siv nyob rau hauv vain hauv kev tshawb nrhiav ntawm qhov zoo tagnrho. Thiab nrog tag nrho cov no, muaj me ntsis ntawm cov tswv yim twg los tsis kam yog nyuaj li nws yog los ntawm lub tswv yim los ntsib tus txiv neej npau suav. Tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis kam lees, koj yuav ua kom nrawm dua, koj yuav tsum muaj feem ntau yuav tsum tsim kev sib raug zoo "hauv lub neej tiag tiag."
Coj txawv txawv, txoj cai? Nws yuav zoo li, nws tsim nyog ntsib tus txiv neej zoo meej - thiab kev zoo siab yuav nyob hauv koj lub tsev, thiab kev sib raug zoo yuav kav mus ib txhis, thiab tsis muaj kev rau siab nyob ib txhis Tab sis nws yuav tsis tshwm sim. Thiab qhov no yog ib qho kev ceeb toom hnyav - tsis muaj leej twg ntawm peb yog qhov zoo tagnrho.
Txoj kev ntseeg zoo li cas los ntawm?
Tsis tsuas yog cov ntawv nyeem ua ke nrog nws cov tsim muaj cov yeeb yaj kiab lossis cov yeeb yaj kiab zoo nkauj nrog nws cov khoom lag luam zoo nkauj, "koj tsim nyog tau txais qhov tsawg, tsis pom zoo dua, tsis txhob tuaj yeem ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb) Cov. Tus txiv neej zoo meej yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, thiab ib qho kev ua phem yog qhov tsis zoo yog tias koj xav ua tiav qee yam hauv lub ntiaj teb tiag. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov xav tau tsis kam lees lub tswv yim ntawm kev tshawb nrhiav rau qhov zoo tagnrho yuav tsum tsis yog nkag siab, tab sis kuj lees txais. Vim tias peb feem ntau nrog nws tus kheej, peb nkag siab, tab sis peb tsis tuaj yeem lees txais nyob rau hauv tus ntsuj plig thiab txuas ntxiv ua kom zoo.
Puas yog qhov no txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum pom zoo rau ib qho kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tus txiv neej? Tau kawg tsis.
Alena Al-AC
Koj tuaj yeem xaiv thiab tsim nyog, tab sis coj nrog lub suab no mus kom ze.
Ua ntej, kom nkag siab tias koj tab tom nrhiav. Tus txiv neej zoo li cas yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, nyiam tshaj plaws. Nrhiav rau cov lag luam nyab xeeb? Npaj txhij rau qhov nws yuav ploj tom haujlwm. Nrhiav ib qho zoo nkauj zoo nraug thiab zoo siab? Tej zaum koj yuav tsis yog tib yam kev nyiam. Nrhiav qhov zoo thiab saib xyuas, txiv zoo rau menyuam yaus? Npaj txhij rau koj lub caij so, koj yuav tsis nyob hauv Mallorca, tab sis hauv Anapa. Yog lawm, ib qho piv txwv yog qee qhov exaggerated, tab sis kev pom.
Thib ob, pub dawb los ntawm cov stereotypes thiab kev xaiv ntsej muag. Dab tsi los tham nrog nws yog tias nws tsis paub dab tsi Henry Miller? Nws muaj lub tsheb pheej yig - Kuv cov phooj ywg yuav hais li cas? Tus tib neeg psy psyche yog li npaj tias txhua yam yog qhov zoo pom tau raws li tau txais, thiab txhua yam flaws yog ib txwm ua. Xav tias cov kev tsis zoo no yog qhov tseem ceeb tiv thaiv cov keeb kwm ntawm cov txiaj ntsig zoo.
Thib peb, tsis txhob tos kom muaj kev sib raug zoo tam sim ntawd. Tam sim ntawd, qhov pib lossis, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, tsis nyiam, tsis lees txais tuaj yeem tshwm sim. Thiab cov thiab lwm yam kev hnov yuav yuam kev. Tsis txhob ua kom cov lus xaus saidus. Yog lawm, cov txiv neej zoo tshaj, zoo li kev sib raug zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis txoj xov zoo tshwm sim, tab sis txoj xov zoo yog tias kev sib raug zoo nrog tus txiv neej tiag tiag yog ua tau thiab yuav luag txhua lub zog.