How can the neckline and fur can interfere with the negotiations?

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Adjusting

To any meeting you need to prepare. And we are not only about knowing the subject of conversation, understand it, but also to imagine what kind of person is opposite you. Occupy what the interlocutor is enjoiced, what is his interests and hobbies. Perhaps he (she) is a vegetarian, and if your personal success depends on this meeting, it is better not to wear leather, fur things, it may be offensive for your interlocutor, and good luck will most likely turn away from you. If you know that a person loves cats / dogs / birds / nature, you can choose the appropriate prints, the topic of jewelry. Strict temper is unlikely to appreciate the deep neckline or short skirt, bright colors in clothing, make-up or extravagant forms and decor, even if the dressing code of the meeting allows it. This simple reception (preliminary "intelligence") in order to like. And here it smoothly goes into the next method.

Cooling

Here you already know what the one looks like with whom you meet, you know which colors wears and what style in clothes prefers. If a person has a preceding color palette, the silhouettes that he prefers is immediately visible. You can evaluate which lines the face is built, and, using all your knowledge, get dressed as close to the costume of the interlocutor. He will see the usual picture (after all, if not, he sees so often in the mirror?), Of course, your impeccable taste will appreciate. And consider that you are in the same team.

However, there are faith situations. How to do then?

I was going to two meetings, they had to pass in a row, but the people with whom I meet are completely different.

The first is a mature woman, a leader, logic, to everything has a business approach, a pragmatic look at things. Dressed to such a woman stands at her level: concisely, quite strictly, formally, nothing superfluous. The main characteristics are elegant, comfortable. Fortunately, I can "mimicry" under her ideas about the world, retaining my individuality.

The second is a young girl, the opposite of the first description. Informal, easy to lift, open. "Appearance" of this meeting suggests "relaxed" silhouettes (slightly adjacent or completely free), brighter and varied colors.

And then I stopped. I had a question: how to combine two characters of these meetings externally, so that and there, and there I looked relevant and in accordance with the context. The answer for me was opened by himself.

If I want to build an honest relationship with each of the two women, I have to be honest with myself, and therefore - to express myself in clothes, and not try to please, like, impress. After all, if my authentic style is unacceptable for one of them, then maybe you should not create any business or personal relationships? And this is the third secret that will help if not applicable in a particular case, neither the first nor the second methods.

This article I am writing in a break between these most meetings, the first went with a bang, let's see what will be on the second.

Karina Efimova,

Expert for the creation of a unique female wardrobe

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