Not so long ago, there was a wonderful Indian parable on the Internet, in which the old Indian tells the baby that in each of us two wolves enter the daily fight. One of the wolves personifies good, loyalty, purity, truth, and the other is a symbol of lies, hypocrisy, tricks and deception. The wisdom of parables is that the wolf is defeated, which "feeds" the owner of this struggle.
Incredibly similar to this parable Son sent me one dreaming. Let's try to decipher!
"I live with my husband in the forest area. There is a house and there is a small structure from a smooth hill, the Saraike type. The husband is in the house, and I am in this Saraich. He is on low stilts, with steps. Inside - table, shelves, stove. I cook on this stove food, or for everyone, or for dogs. Potted pans, clearly for dogs trays, as for people. In some trays - ready-made dumplings.
I worry that this food will be eaten dogs. I'm afraid to leave the Saraychik. In the wall there are openings, a narrow long horizontal window, in which my dogs alternately look around, whether wolves are from the forest. They want to devour food, but while I'm inside, they are afraid of me.
I want to go and call my husband, so that he won this gap, and the dogs would not see food and could not climb into this gap. I doubt a long time, because if I leave, then the dogs will eat everything. Anxiety and anger on her husband: why left this hole in the wall.
In the end, I decide and run away literally for a minute. I run into the house and I tell him: "Let's go as soon as a hole, there wolves! And I'm not afraid of them, I just don't want to give them to me."
Resort back. The husband seemed to take the tools and went after me, but I ran alone. I see, the hut is demolished, no one left. Empty pans and trays are lying. I look at them, I see the remnants of the dumplings ...
Introducing the picture: as soon as I left, these dogs and wolves from the forest fell into the window, demolished the whole hut, they devoured everything, spread and smelled back to the forest.
Awful sorry sorry. I think that if the window was skipped, nothing would happen.
Sorry food. It seems she was so intended to dogs, I would give it her. But here they themselves took, without my permission. Feeling bitterness, resentment, annoyance. I am alone, I can not rely on anyone, no support and understanding. "
So, in order. A small and slim saraticle with a window is a symbol of her house in the shower. Insecious, with windows that left her man. And he himself in his house is quite protected.
Dogs and wolves that look out the window of her Saraychik and are waiting for food - these are instincts, desires, impulses. Some of them are tamed - that is, dogs, and the other part is completely wild. These are wolves that are waiting for it to come out of her hut. All of them are waiting for, when, finally, she will be able to satisfy these impulses and desires.
When she leaves his house, impulses and displaced desires won it. Introducts this process, it seems to me that it looks like this. Most likely, a man is nearby, she gives her own strength, which he really does not possess. It expects that he will protect it, recognizes needs and will even save if it is necessary. But the satellite does not really have tools to patch the holes in her soul. So often happens to women who are connected to their happiness with the very only one who equates their realization in life to relationships with a man who will be a knight, but in fact the donor, when his own resources will raise his "wolves". The most affordable "film" image of such a woman is Catherine in the film "Moscow does not believe in tears." In her fate, many episodes, when there was no reliable shoulder nearby, the young dream of the Savior disappeared near the strong social facade. And so she was this dream and hope of Teshila, which was in a relationship with the power, rude, dominant and ignoring her the essence of Gauche, Jorus or Goga - as anyone. But she will not sober up in them, at least the film ends on the fact that in exchange for the implementation of his childhood fantasy, she folded his principles, values and beliefs, which herself led and brought up their daughter for them.
I suspect that this scenario is faithful for our dreams, when she, losing the soil under his feet, is given to the power to their fantasies, feelings and illusions that there is someone mighty and omnant.
The psychological term is such a model of behavior and is called television addiction. Perhaps about it and it is worth writing in a new article.
In the meantime, we leave our dreams to think over what wolves in his soul she "feeds".
I wonder what dreams of you?
Examples of your dreams send by mail: [email protected]. By the way, dreams are much easier to express if in a letter to the editor you will write preceding life circumstances, but most importantly - feelings and thoughts at the time of awakening from this dream.
Maria Dyachkova, PSYCHOLOGIST, Family therapist and leading trainings of personal growth Training center Marika Khazin