It happens that the man is incredibly like, but with close communication you understand that a person is extremely unsure of himself ... but not always. Sometimes a woman is so blinded by feelings, which is simply not able to break in his partner of a person who will not be strong support, and often insight comes too late. If you have learned yourself in this situation, we offer to study the highlights that a lot will tell about the self-esteem of your chosen one.
For him, the appearance is incredibly important.
And we are talking about its appearance. You probably noticed that most of the modern men - urban residents are followed by trends, do not miss the record in Barbershop and look into mirror shop windows by passing by. It is fine, and in this situation it is very easy to calculate the man's extremely unsure - he will follow himself simply manic. Often, uncertain men believe that it is solely in their appearance, and therefore "pumping" it in full.
He does not express an opinion
The motto of such a man is "silence, for smart to come." But no, for some reason this approach does not work. In any male company, such a person never takes the floor, he can only actively agree with the company's leader, but not more. The most unpleasant thing that such a man is in no hurry to make the first steps in a relationship with a beloved woman, which means you will have to invent plans for all holidays, as well as push it to more decisive actions, and in any field.
Uncertain person never expresses his opinion
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Problems with self-esteem
The item smoothly flowing from the previous one. A man who experiences problems with self-esteem will never ask the road from a stranger, will not call the unfamiliar number and will not receive an increase in work for the same reason - he does not believe in his strength. From such a person, you can often hear phrases by type: "Well, it's definitely not for me," "I am not Sasha / Vasya / Peter, I will not succeed so" and that's it with such a spirit. "Uploading" yourself with such thoughts, a person personally lies its capabilities.
He is closed
As a rule, the unsure man does not even have several friends. Of course, you will tell you that he was betrayed / no time for communication / everyone was drove away, etc. In fact, a person is just hard to trust the surrounding, but such suspicions, especially voiced, hardly like even very close friends. An insecure person is simply manipulated than and used now former friends. Disappointed in people, a uncertain person does not draw conclusions from the situation, he just closes.