It is mistaken to believe that the world is divided into black and white, and character traits for positive and negative. If our consciousness is capable of emotion, it means that it is necessary for something, let society and does not encourage the manifestation of some of them. We tried to find the pros in the most unpleasant feelings, which and tell you.
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Anger
Not the most pleasant feeling, but nevertheless necessary. If you believe the specialists, the strong sense of malice often serves as "Pendel", which many of us are necessary: I want to do everything immediately. But the passive reaction to the stimulus may, on the contrary, lead to stress, depression and neurosis.
Envy
Modern society can hardly do without this feeling: we live in the world of competition, great demand and not falling out of it, we want to get everything and immediately - "and a diamond stick for selfie" - as it comes in one of the tracks of the group Hollywood Vampires. In such conditions, the feeling of envy in small quantities is necessary for moving forward, receiving new skills and knowledge to surpass competitors. But do not get drunk: if you don't just sigh, looking at the new car of the neighbor, but live this feeling, it will destroy you very soon.
Cynicism
Again, since we are talking about life in a modern metropolis, our psyche is difficult to cope with such a flow of information and an avalanche of the emotions that we get every day leaving home. In this regard, cynicism becomes to protect our nervous system, "cooling" feelings and helping to cope with shocks and shock.
envy can destroy you from the inside
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Pride
Since childhood, we are accustomed to that pride does not give us glasses in the eyes of society. Parents often say: "Do not compete, behave modestly," and that modesty in adult life can grow into self-destruction we forget to say. A person becomes difficult to appreciate himself and his work, because of which the advancement of the career ladder is or braked, or it stops at all, since you are not able to assess your significance. Each of us at least once in his life was a meeting with a man who wrote off his successes for luck, and the failures took it proper. If you learned yourself, review your attitude towards yourself, and even better - contact a specialist to solve the problem with it.
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Egoism
And again all the problems from childhood: "Go to the guys", "Give the best piece of cake to my brother" and we heard other similar phrases from family members. And meanwhile, healthy egoism is a method of self-preservation, which is peculiar to many living beings, and especially a person. Of course, you need to take care of loved ones, but also forget about yourself.