Probably the most unpleasant thing that can happen in any relationship - treason. Often the partner lacks courage to confess, and someone introduces the "left" hike.
It happens that even being caught with political, the classkers do not recognize themselves to blame. We have gathered the most popular excuses that are not very faithful partners.
the very fact of sex, even without feelings, is considered treason
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"I couldn't do anything with me"
Accident is happening, but treason cannot be attributed to such. You can confuse the keys in the hurry, to forget to turn off the iron, but it is impossible to change the error. So the victim of such "accidents" needs to be intelligible to explain that for the consequences of such mistakes will have to pay a serious clarification of relations, but most often they end with a break.
"Sex disappeared from our life, I have to change"
And this can be heard from the guilty partner. The logic of man is that a certain number of days without sex gives him complete freedom of action.
Most often, this situation occurs in pairs, where it is not customary to discuss the problems. Instead of solving the accumulated problems and get rid of the offense by dialogue, one of the partners begins to seek adventures on the side, trying to forget in someone else's bed.
drunk state can not be justified
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"We still were going to part"
Yes, when the relationship is on the verge of rupture, the feeling of loneliness covers with his head. The presence of a partner is not happy, and you are already uncomfortable to be together.
Trying not to apply a soul wound with a gap, the partner retains relations, but simultaneously looking for another person. But the thing is that when the partner learns about treason, it will definitely not be easier for him, so the betrayal will never become an excuse of spoiled relationships. If you can not be next to this person, break down, so you will not deceive it nor Himself.
"We were in a drunk"
Alcohol intoxication cannot be an excuse for behavior that harms others, your second half and you personally. Remember that all your decisions taken under the influence of alcohol will have real consequences when you rub, the same applies to both treason - you make a mistake for which your partner does not have to forgive you just because your consciousness has been changed.
If you plan to part, do it immediately
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"But I do not like her / His"
Sex matters just because it happened. It does not matter what feelings you have experienced to a person with whom you decided to betray. At that moment you were attracted, let not such a strong, which you are experiencing to a regular partner, it does not justify your act. Hiking "left" do not require a serenade under the window.