Anatoly - a hereditary actor, made his debut in the cinema when he was only thirteen years old. He played in the film Eldar Ryazanov "Hello, Foolie!". True, the real popularity brought him roles in the TV series "Two Fate", "Guardian Angel", "Redhead" and, of course, "the war ended yesterday," on the filming of which he met his future wife.
They lived near apart, and preparing for admission to theatrical university, they were engaged in one teacher, but at the same time never crossed. And even in the history of their acquaintance, the finger of fate is traced. Indeed, initially the leading role in the film "Yesterday's war" was approved by other artists. And already, the shooting should begin, as performers unexpectedly refused to participate in the project. Then an additional casting was conducted, and the producer stopped his choice on Anatolia Rudenko and Elena Dudina.
Elena Dudina : "After reading the script, I immediately realized that the role of Galina should be mine. Probably there was a premonition of something very important in life. When I asked who would play the role of the Ring (my lover of my heroine), I was answered - Anatoly Rudenko. Even then I was surprised, because from my teacher, a talented actress and director Irina Podkopayeva, I heard a lot about Tol. He is one of her favorite disciples, her son of her close girlfriend Lyudenko. But I have never seen him in a photo or on the screen. "
Anatoly Rudenko : "I got to the project completely accidentally. When I was called, I was almost already approved to another picture, where weed-to-wear samples passed the whole week. And here in my only weekend I was offered to fly to Kiev ... and for some reason I flew. Then it turned out that my friend refused the role and offered me. On the same day, I was approved, and I also felt some kind of predestination in all this. "
Anatoly Rudenko and Elena Dudina met on the set. Photo: Personal archive.
Elena, and this is true that you first met with the future mother-in-law?
Elena: "Yes. At that time I served with love in the Mayakovsky Theater, but we never communicated, as they were busy in different performances. And since in the film "Yesterday the war ended" I had to play her daughter, I decided to get to know her in advance, to our departure to Kiev. I remember, I went into her dressing room, introduced myself and say: "I will play your daughter." Lyuba immediately revealed my arms. After a couple of minutes, we talked like old girlfriends. I was madly pleasant that we were so quickly found a common language. She is an amazing woman! "
And how did your first meeting took place?
Anatoly: "It was funny. At the first shooting day, sitting in the dressing room and waiting for the costume, for some reason it is undressed, sometimes it happens. And here is Lena. "
Elena: "I was embarrassed."
Anatoly: "No, you were not embarrassed, I was embarrassed, and you said:" Hi, and I slept in the next dressing room, by the way. I am Galya, that is, Lena. " And so smiled that, without preparing the light that the whole space, I was lit up ... The next night we starred until the morning, it was very cold, and Lena laughed all the time ... there was a strange feeling that Lena laughs at me, but I quickly drove this think".
Elena : "But in fact, I myself, without understanding, so fell in love immediately, that, apparently, I had such a physical clamp - laughter ... I couldn't do anything with me and laughed and laughed. I felt very stupid, and the more I tried to stop it, the stronger my laughter broke out. "
Romance started right on the set?
Anatoly: "No. We were interested in working with each other, we immediately felt the attraction, but desperately resisted and tried not to give will feelings. Supported friendly relationships almost until the end of the shooting period. "
Why?
Anatoly: "At that time we were both not free. But most importantly, I immediately realized that I could only become happy with Lena. "
Elena: "When you meet a person and suddenly feel that this is your destiny, then everything is suddenly becoming. Tolley and I watched each other for a very long time while working. Only when both suddenly understood that it was not just a service novel, and we are connected to the real feeling, they decided to free themselves from commitment to other people. Nevertheless, it is necessary to be grateful for the previous relationship, every person in life is not accidental. We would be different without having this valuable experience. "
Judging by the interview, which gave Daria Press, the departure of Anatoly to the other after several years of civil marriage became an unpleasant surprise for her. And the explanation between them was heavy.
Anatoly, when did you decide to make an Elena offer?
Anatoly: "Somewhere a month after we began to live together. I bought Lena birthday gift. And suddenly thought I want to choose her wedding ring. Moreover, this thought was absolutely natural. "
Elena: "So soon? (Smiles.) For the first time I hear about it. I never pushed Toli to this step, we were good and without a stamp in your passport, but I knew that Tolera was exactly the man for whom I would marry. I did not think when this happens - a year later, two, maybe in five years, but there was no doubt about the doubt. "
Anatoly: "I made a sentence of Lena on the anniversary of our dating - twenty-third of April. We arranged a holiday evening, lit candles, I gave her a ring ... and made an offer. "
How to prepare for the celebration?
Anatoly: "At first there was a conversation about traditional marriage in Moscow. But we abandoned this idea. The experience of our friends showed that the organizational period only takes a lot of time. And we could not get married as soon as possible. We decided that we would like the holiday primarily for yourself. And they began to fantasize. It was noiseless to fascinating our wedding. So, Lena saw us on the ocean, the sea or lake, and it seemed unusual for me if the ceremony would happen in some ancient tower. Began to search and found such a place in Italy, on the shore of Lake Garda, where there is a medieval castle. "
Elena: "The idea was determined, then began to embody her. True, everything turned out to be not easy ... And if there were not our girlfriend Alla Andryukhin, who knows not only the language, but also the mentality of the Italians, it is unlikely that we would have managed to arrange so quickly. She took the bulk of the orgvoprosov and coped with this brilliantly. "
Anatoly: "Also at the preparation stage, we realized that it was somewhat grooming" in quiet "somewhat egoistic in relation to our parents and close friends. After all, for them it is also a holiday. As a result, twenty people gathered at the wedding. "
Newlyweds with parents. Next to Elena - her mother-in-law Lyubov Rudenko, who became a close friend to her daughter-in-law. Photo: Personal archive.
But such troubles, as a rule, are pleasant.
Elena:
"Not always. Due to the fact that we decided to get married abroad, we had to plunge into bureaucratic subsoils. And it seems everything was well evoked, but a few incident happened shortly before the departure. At first, we were informed that the original birth certificate with an apostil was required to register marriage in Italy. I was born in Komsomolsk-on-Amur. From there, documents will not get so quickly. Fortunately, the Italian, who took the paper from us, once taught Russian, penetrated with our problem and went to meet us. Next - more: We break up both cars. First, I, then toly. Finally (two days before departure!) When I took a wedding dress from Atelier, I was horrified. Someone barbaric sprinkled hem dresses. It turned out that the seamstress created this under the influence of some personal experiences. Before the day I managed to fix everything. "Anatoly: "And I did not have a suit at all. But I once participated in the show of Mikhail Voronin's collection on Russian Fashion Week. To consult, called Oleg Chapelov and Lilia brands, the best designers of the brand. Not only did they help with the choice, so even when they found out why I need a suit, took and gave it. For what they have a lot thank you. "
Does your adventure ended on this?
Elena: "It was still a cross. The town where the wedding was planned, we saw only in the pictures on the Internet, were very afraid to be disappointed. It was a whole journey, we traveled to the target by all possible modes of transport, and at the end - ferry on Lake Garda. Thought, he goes directly, but it turned out - along the entire coast, with stops in every village.
Our town, naturally, turned out to be the most latter. We floated seven hours. Tired, exhausted, in the rain descended from the ladder ... And suddenly it was daily so! Not the fact that finally fell, and the place where it was. Some inexplicable magnetism was present in everything that was surrounded by us. These mountains, the lake, the majestic castle, built in the ninth century ... "
Anatoly: "But from the accumulated nervous tension, two days before the wedding, we did not restrain and were very quarreled. Going on a taxi to a restaurant to clarify some details, we left the car and diverged in different directions. "
Elena: "I sat on the pier, tolyo left at all. Suddenly some Italian suits me and speaks English: "Why are you sitting here alone?" I thought: I just had lackup now! But it turned out that this was Marco, the owner of the restaurant, where our festive banquet was supposed to be held. I said that I was knighted with the bridegroom. What, changing, he replied: "It's fine. All so. I, crying brides, have long learned to calculate. "
Anatoly: "We have risen and decide that the day will spend only two weddings."
Young people staged a wedding in Italy on the shore of Lake Garda, where an old castle is standing. Photo: Personal archive.
How was the celebration itself?
Anatoly: "Very afraid that it will rain. On the eve he lied like a bucket. But we were lucky. The day was warm and sunny, and all that I was conceived with Lena, it turned out even better than we assumed. Formula of happiness worked. Only in the evening, when we were sitting in the restaurant, the beginning began to drizzle. They say it is also a good sign. And everything began very solemnly, the mayor of the city led the ceremony at the highest castle tower. Then we went to the buffet across the whole city, he is small, all in step accessibility. And here it happened unexpected: the whole population of Malchezin decided to divide our joy with us, people applauded us, personally congratulated us, smiled, all passing cars were influenced. It seemed that this is a planned flashmob of someone from our friends, but no, it's just the Italians so accustomed to celebrate the weddings. And then, for a small town, this is really an event, we did not meet anything else. For comparison: in Moscow, it is unlikely that someone would pay attention to us. It was the locals who gave us such a grand sense of the holiday, whose center we were. It's unforgettable! Then we went for a walk on a luxury sailboat, people from the shore continued to shout us congratulations. But we no longer heard them, we were covered by a feeling of immense happiness. In the evening, we were moored for the best fish restaurant on the coast, and the perfect surprise was an idea organized by the owner of the restaurant, so the holiday lasted until late evening. "
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And where did you go to the wedding trip?
Elena: "Honeymoon we spent in the Maldives, both dreamed there to visit. Parents gave us this trip. "
Anatoly: "It seemed that time was stopped. And we fell into a parallel world. Turning off from the fuss, we with such pleasure let this atmosphere of harmony and beauty! I wanted to meet the sunrises as long as possible, admire the unreal starry sky, the ocean, nature and do it all with the most beloved person in the world. "
Elena: "We could spend the evening, just sitting in an embrace and looking at the sunset. I really want to go back there threesome so that our daughter also saw this beauty. "
Anatoly: "True, I can not not note that in this journey I learned Lena from an unexpected side. Once we swam with masks, studied underwater fauna. I "squeezed" with a sea turtle, and suddenly Lena, fulfilling a funny aloft to attract my attention, rushed slightly somewhere. All I have managed to see is a huge fish tail. At the last moment she grasped his wife behind the leg and even cursed, although in the water it looked as if I just let bubbles. The main thing, I managed to stop dangerous prosecution. It was a shark. True, as we were told, just a young. But you know, the dimensions were not at all children - XXXXXL, how do you?! "
Elena: "In a word, it was an amazing journey."
Elena returned to Moscow in position. Anatoly, have you been next to your wife when your daughter was born?
Anatoly: "Yes. I sat next to the door. Suddenly Something felt. Quietly got up, looked at the clock, went into the generic. Just at that very moment when my crumb just was born. And in a second, this blue lump made his first cry. And I got roar
From happiness. "
Who chose a name?
Anatoly: "Together. We liked the name of Mila, mile derived from it, its meaning. And then, we seemed symbolic that Milena was like a little Lena. About another version already did not think. "
"Then we went for a walk on a luxurious sailboat, people from the shore continued to shout us congratulations." Photo: Personal archive.
Elena, shortly after the birth of her daughter, you went to the set. How do you manage to combine work and motherhood?
Elena: "My mother helps me very much. She understands that professional self-expression is very important for me and it is difficult to refuse interesting and bright roles. Therefore, at that moment, when I on the set, she takes care of the baby on himself. I do not know what I would do without her! And the role of Lyudmila Zykina in the Lyudmila's multiserietary film, I played a month and a half after childbirth thanks to my mom's help. Thank you so much Mamoule for it. "
What about Anatoly? He is engaged in a child or (as many fathers) admires the baby at a distance?
Elena: "Tolya is very attentive dad, constantly cares about her daughter. I can always count on his help. Can lay Milena to sleep, which is generally not very simple, play with her, feed - in a word, to do everything that is in the responsibilities of Mom. He loves her very much and fights every way. "
And who is like Milena?
Anatoly: "It seems to me, on me."
Elena : "Yes, she is a dad copy. Very smiling, sunny and cheerful girl. She is nine months old, and she is already a real laughter. "
Anatoly: "We are sometimes sitting, talking about something, and suddenly the daughter begins to laugh sluffly, and so that we will not resist the smile."
There are such unanimity between you that it is difficult to believe in the existence of quarrels or conflicts in your family ...
Anatoly: "We are alive people, so anything happens, but we do not have long conflicts, we cannot live without each other. In the end, love always wins ... "