Relationships where he is henger, no one is surprised. Among women, even fashionable to have a spouse. Is there love with a big difference in age, how strong the marriage can be called, where a woman is older than a man, and whether the family psychologist Olga Romaniv knows that the family psychologist is known.
Today, a huge number of successful and well-known women can boast a successful marriage with a man who is younger. Actress Julianna Moore is almost ten years older than her husband Barta Freundlich. Hugh Jackman younger than his wife for thirteen years. Singer Shakira Older Gerard Piquet for ten years. Yana Rudkovskaya older Evgeny Plushenko for eight years. The difference between the age between Nonaya Grishava and her spouse Alexander Nesterov is twelve years.
Why do young men come into relationships with older women?
According to psychologists, sociologists, doctors, the harmonious difference in age - five to seven years, and the man should be older in the pair.
In such pairs there are love, mutual understanding and respect in relation to the spouse, because he is older and at the time of marriage has already managed to achieve something in life, create a base for his future family. In such unions, a woman, as a rule, can afford not to work, engage in house and children. This type of relationship can be described as patriarchal. However, from the very moment when a woman began to work and earned on a par with men, roles in the family and society have undergone strong changes. Women gained independence and began to dictate their conditions. And the marriage from the patriarchal turned into a partner. In such unions, today you can often find partners with a difference in age, and the woman will be older.
How strong are such relationships?
Similar marriages can be long-term. Young men attracts in older women primarily psychological flexibility: the mature lady is no longer counting on the fact that someone should do it - she is an equal partner. At the same time, a man's psychology knows perfectly, at the right moment is ready to substitute his shoulder, support not only morally, but also materially. She can close the eyes to some shortcomings. Of course, it is impossible to deny that sometimes there is a calculation in such marriages. But often a man chooses not only money, communications and social status. Perhaps, in childhood, such men had excellent relations with her mother or grandmother, and therefore, when it was time to arrange her life, they chose the most comfortable option for themselves - an experienced woman.
What does an unequal marriage oblige?
Marriage with a man who is much younger, renders a certain pressure on a woman. And there are many advantages. Marriage with a younger choice - a great stimulus is not to be distinguished and not to give up. After all, it is often one of the causes of divorce in the marriages of the patriarchal type becomes the fact that the woman ceases to follow. She forgets that men love their eyes most often. Therefore, they want to see alongside the tightened and beautiful woman who cares for themselves. A woman who has older than her husband does not have time to relax, it is well aware of the competition on the "Brides market", so there must always be a couple of steps ahead.