- We have a pre-holiday interview, so the first question is, of course, about March 8. How to celebrate it in your family? Are there any perennial traditions? How do you feel about gender holidays?
- I normally treat all holidays, people need to celebrate something, you need an additional reason to make glad and congratulate each other. And any good reason that can make a person happier, make you smile, is great. It does not matter, gender he or not gender.
But I myself try to avoid the celebration of March 8, let's say. Why? I do not know. Maybe not accustomed. I do not remember that this day in my family did something ambitious. If someone was at home, it was necessary to give a gift if everyone was on tour, then it is not necessary. I do not have the most interesting position regarding this holiday. I'm used to that you can not give anything. So now I did not prepare any of the gifts, but maybe you have to think about it. Congratulations, of course, our women - Mama, sister, Editu, niece and Natasha, former wife.
- The most important woman in the life of any man is, of course, Mom. How do you congratulate her?
- I congratulate the way, somehow with love, is honest - and that's especially. And gifts ... I am constantly asking about them. But after all, there are gifts or not - it's not the main thing at all ... the main thing is that we have each other, we remember each other and care, because someone with mom is not friendly. I am friends for me my mother is friend. These feelings and relationships are more important for me than gifts for March 8.
"I'm used to that you can not give anything. So now she did not prepare any of the gifts "
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- Your mother Ilona is recently an anniversary. How noted? Tell me, has some rethinking of your relationship happened over the years?
"I was stayed for two hours, because I had to spike in rehabilitation, and my mother waited when we and her husband and her husband would return to the restaurant. We sat very nicely, the children played around, we discussed something, laughed, having fun. And such easy communication, the rethinking of us has come over the years. Feeling that there is a family, there is an understanding inside the family, some features, our distinctive family uniqueness, authenticity - it was always. But over the years I rethought the role of mother in my life. At first, my mother seemed to be a god that could solve any of your problems, then there were claims to her, that, they say, everyone, and in me differently, then I tried to deserve my mother's approval, then I lived very long, then I began again To dig up its genetic history, some resentment and claims that she will not help me already, and what happens to me - it is necessary to help her, damn. I changed a lot of roles before I came to the realization that Mom and I are different people. Yes, we have something in common, it is biological and not going anywhere, but no one should anyone. The fact that the person gave birth to you does not mean that he is obliged to help all his life. All that we do for each other, as we communicate, we meet, give gifts - exclusively our personal desire, there is no duties. That is, I allowed my mother to be just a woman, and not alimile, which should immediately solve all my problems. And now as soon as I allowed it, she again gained new paints for me. From this position I am very glad that we communicate, we meet with an outstanding zeal and spend a lot of time together.
- Do you like to give flowers to give flowers? Many are now refused to have this tradition on environmental considerations ... In general, you are close to eco-activism?
- Eco-activism is a normal topic, but I do not like to give flowers, because in my childhood there were always a lot, and it bothered to live. Grandma gave a huge number of bouquets, they stood even in the bathroom, and it was possible not to wash - just nowhere! This imposed the imprint, and if you can do without flowers, I'll do without them. But if I know that for a person it is important that he will be very nice, then I will deliver this joy. At the same time, I like it when people come with flowers to concerts. It is like more secretion of the sacrality of the action that you didn't just come to listen, and also give flowers, there is your own buzz. At the concert, I perceive flowers with great joy.
- How do you prefer to celebrate March 8 - in the company of friends, on a date or family? Some consider this holiday family ...
- I prefer to not be celebrated at all. (Laughs.) I am quite calm about any holidays, without a light inside, so to speak. I only like my birthday, but also not as much as before.
"I allowed my mother to be just a woman, and not alimil on, which should immediately solve all my problems. And now as soon as I allowed it, she again gained new paints for me "
"I know that your personal life you prefer not to comment, but still ask whether your heart is busy? Suddenly a negative answer will be the best eight-day gift for one of your fans?
- I will say this: every girl has a chance to get any man, exactly as the opposite, but we all needed exactly their own man. Where and when you meet it - it is unknown, so everyone always has a chance.
- And what girl could you interest you?
- I do not know. (Laughs.) A difficult question, because I did not define the main qualities and features. These are always different girls, and sometimes similar to someone. It is hard for me to answer, because who knows where the chemistry shoot?!
- In your instagram not so long ago, photos appeared on which you are captured with blond hair. What was it?
- It was such a fun. A program that reworks the image. I tried the ashes blond. But I would like to grow hair longer. Not like on the factory, but longer than it is now. I walked for a long time with a sports haircut, such a modern fashionable half-fox, and now I want to grow more intelligent.
- How do you feel about experiments with appearance? And when such experiments put your chosen one?
- Sometimes it is very cool and refreshing, improves man, and sometimes a failed topic. So I treat it. Someone with white hair turns out to be better, and he passed half of his life in black, and someone from the beautiful ash blonde became red, and it doesn't go to him at all, because every imperfection on the face was visible. Any changes should be deliberate. Suppose if I repaint in the ash blonde, it will be absolutely criminal trash. I like my hair color, but I can experiment with a length. I understand what my proportions I have, I know that I don't need to shave, like it is unwanted to grow too long hair. I am generally not a fan of long hair in men, as in women. It seems to me that it is strange and unnecessarily romantic.
"Grandma gave a huge number of bouquets, they stood even in the bathroom, and it was possible not to wash - just nowhere! This imposed a print "
Photo: Alexander Zayats
- Do you have your own seduction recipes? Or scenarios of an ideal romantic evening? Maybe memories of the ideal date?
- Which of me the seducer?! In fact, I am very shy and not immediately show my feelings in relation to another person, I can even hide them, and here to seduce ... No, I have an obsessive desire to get a girl, a compulsively solemn desire, then the hormones decide for me as tempt. And, as a rule, if I give himself the right to freedom of self-expression, then everything develops normally, the main thing is not to impede my desires of morality at this moment and not to shoot yourself in some shame. It is necessary to kayfan from a date, and if not kaifuch - you can dump. Nothing terrible, you need to urgently organize another.
- What advice would you give men in the organization of the most romantic evening on March 8 and what exactly to please your choices?
- Pay attention to what she loves what she likes what she wants. If this is your woman, it would be nice to know that it is important for her, remember what they were talking about. Women are very often hinting - even in the usual household conversation.
But if the fantasy no longer works, but you need to do something, - buy flowers, just go to the restaurant you like, and tell me that they brought it to a special place, and then it will seem to her that you took care of her, and in the evening You can see some series that I have long wanted to see, and say what you want to do it with her, or go to the movies - with the same story. That is, to do what I want himself, and call the names "especially for you, only today, I suffered a week, choosing." The main thing is not to forget about the date so that there are no problems later. Here is such a lifehak.
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